Hello Everybod!
Welcome to all who have posted for the first time on here today. Hope you’ll keep in touch. Reading people’s successes inspires me; and reading their struggles confirms I’m not the only one who has tough times.
IMHO (or do I really mean IMArrogantO?!!) I reckon Mer8maid has got the aims business about right. Set a target loss and date if that motivates you; but then just be glad if you’re losing, even if you don’t quite reach your goal in the time. You will still have lost far more by doing something, than you would have by doing nothing. The chances are, you’ll also have made some interesting new discoveries about yourself in relation to food and hunger.
My next change which I want to introduce is, as well as 2 FDs a week, to eat to my TDEE for my goal weight 2 days a week (about 1700 cals). I know some people are super motivated about keeping to their TDEE 5 days per week but for me it will be another corner turned. I did it last week and actually found calorie counting on those 2 days quite a relief, rather than tiresome as I thought it might be. It stopped me having the ‘shall I eat this or shan’t I?’ battles. I also found it made my cooking more creative as I tried to prepare tasty food within the limit I had set myself. What do other people do on their eating days?
Well done on the loss, Charliebear (shakin’ my booty to celebrate with you!) Glad you’re feeling better.
Yup, Mogs and MAC2015, I know just what you mean about the tendency of ‘All or Nothing’ thinking. I can’t say I’ve entirely escaped its grip – it’s such an old habit and it’s dying hard – but 5:2 certainly helps.
Lotta, I think you posted that you are fasting tomorrow, tues? I’ve decided to as well. I feel a bit uncertain that I shall manage it, so I shall think of you and hope it will shore me up if I’m flagging. I fasted on Saturday and it turned into one of those ‘Whoo hoo, I’m on a roll with this’ sort of FDs. I maybe feel a bit mistrustful that I could possibly have 2 easy FDs in a row. If I’m struggling, I’ll probably check in here during the day.
Take care
Bootsy x
10:58 pm
9 Mar 15