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  • I am 65 and have been on the 5:2 for a year now. I think it is easier if there is another person also fasting near by and it’s good to chat about new menus and difficult times. We are in a pattern of usually Monday and Thursday being the fast days. I tend to eat more a couple of days after the fast day. It’s still takes a bit of hunkering down (back to the trenches!) on the two days but the rewards are in being the weight that you are happiest. Food is also easier on the limited calorie days.

    Losing weight causes more wrinkles, not sure anything really gets rid of that except cosmetic surgery. Compensations are – no join pain, feel very energetic, attend gym regularly and a lightness of being, physical/emotional.

    Hey ladies, I’m just back from a business trip to Singapore and amazingly found I hadn’t gained weight over the week – I wasn’t fasting, but was eating fairly intermittently so maybe that helped. Such a relief not to have to start back at Square One as I’d feared.

    I’ve been trying to find something out, and I’m not sure how – is there any way to work out EXACTLY how many calories any one individual needs? The calculator tools are useful, but as we are finding on this thread, we vary a lot from person to person. Is there some kind of medical test that you can do, or is it just seeing when you lose or gain weight and measuring that against daily counted calories? (in which case I’ll stick to the broad guidelines of the calculator tools).

    Cheers dears.
    Yipyop

    Hi Carolee, a whole year on 5:2. Good for you. I wish I knew someone locally on this diet, it does help to have support.

    Yipyop, good for you on maitaining your wt. How did you like Singapore? Sometimes on vacations,
    I think we don’t gain wt. even though we are eating because we are a little more active.

    Hi jojo – I’m sorry that you are leaving the thread for the moment, you are one of our ‘chattier’ members. I think personally, that you did well on the FD to lose a stone comparatively quickly (Hell – most people are quicker than me! It would be hard not to be) and then got a bit bored when it stopped dropping off so quickly. I hope your new regime is successful for you.
    We’ll look forward to hearing how it goes; it’s all information for us LOACA’s.

    Onwards and Downwards!

    Is anyone experiencing feeling chilly all day on fast days? It makes sense, and I think there was a mention in the book, but I have not seen it in the forums yet.

    Hello All Ladies Of A Certain Age!

    I have at last managed to lose the 2lbs I put on a whole month ago! I don’t really know why I gained anyway; I wasn’t on holiday or anything and we hadn’t celebrated any occasion so……I did have to use a cream with steroids in it but I thought blaming that, was me clutching at straws.

    So this puts me back to the weight I was an entire SIX WEEKS ago; talk about a hard slog? And we hope to go ‘home’ this weekend to celebrate our wedding anniversary and my husband’s birthday; so obviously we will be pushing the boat out a bit……..So this particular 2lbs gain/loss could be around for a very long time! If not more, of course……..

    Anyways Hello and Welcome to Carolee – Wow Carolee a whole year! It’s great to hear from people who have been following this WOE for a long span. I always feel quite envious of folk like yourself who cite important improvements in addition to their weight loss. I would love to have more energy; mine is not affected in a positive way at all.
    How much weight did you lose in this period? Are you at maintenance yet?

    Hi piper – Well done on the ever decreasing you! What did Oompah mean about menopausal women being perfect? Perfect in how they look or perfect in how they eat?

    Hi Eeyore – How can you target whether your face or backside gets wrinkled? Answer quickly please because I need to tell my face!

    Hello barbarita – Nice to ‘speak’ to you at last! 17lbs is a very impressive weight loss in that short space of time. I don’t think the fast 5 is for me but I can see it’s attractions for others.

    Hi metasue – Which part of your body is the ‘chicken cutlets‘…..?

    Hi collie lover – I’ve read about the not mixing fats and carbs before but I think it’s too restricted for me; I‘m glad that you are finding it successful though. The major attraction of the FD for me is the lack of restriction; it means that my particular weight loss is very slow and below average but if it means I can stick with it, then that is something to be grateful for.
    I heartily wish that we had the information on the FD 20 years ago; BEFORE I got to be menopausal! At least I could have gone ‘into’ it slim.

    Hi LUVTCOOK – Well done on the 7lbs! You seem to have gone from 1 to 7 with nothing in between!
    I heartily agree with your comment on someone doing comprehensive research on hormones/menopause etc and have mentioned this before. You are also echoing what Applecrisp said some weeks ago which I actually brought to MM’s notice when he introduced the newly revamped site. As you say; the book would sell a bizillion copies
    – Again MICHAEL MOSLEY please note!

    Hi yipyop – Managing not to gain weight on any trip away is pretty damn good going.

    Here’s to us all having a successful week
    Onwards and Downwards Ladies!

    to ply24mp
    YES – i get really, painfully cold on fast days, esp late morning before i have my tiny lunch and again late aft before tiny dinner, but it does go away. i’ve been doing 5:2 for 7 months now and that started right away. since then, have started hot flashes (oh joy 🙂 and they are different. the “Cold” i feel on fast days is a concern though, as i’d think regulating body temp would not be impacted by fasting – would be great to hear about others’ experience too

    Do you ‘fill up’ with diet cola? My experience is much like yours, and my daughter, who is doing really well on 5 2, says this is my downfall. I just don’t know.

    Piper: the fat and starch together may be old, but it is the basis of the low carb/Atkins/etc etc . It is the carbohydrates that stimulate your insulin response. On pure low carbs, you can eat much higher calories ….and because most people have a limit on how much protien they chose to eat (6-8 oz steak for instance) fats typically make up the balance of the calories. If you are not eating a lot of carbohydrates, the protiens and fats “slip under the radar” and much less of them is converted to fat storage than would be the case if you ate the same meal with the bread or pasta. The problem for so many of us is that it is a “bleaker” diet as PBB once said. My personal challenge has been to find how many carbs I can have in moderation when I am also linking it to a 5:2 or a 3:2:2 in my case. Two days of fasting seems to buy me some breathing room to allow moderate carbs a couple days a week, whereas I couldn’t pull that off before. Strait low carb works for me….its just a very high price to pay and takes a lot of investment of time in planning/cooking more interesting meals that aren’t just a slab of meat and a salad. That is fun for a while (as in I do love to cook) but gets to be a burden when still trying to do a demanding job. Had to find a simpler WOL and 5:2 seems to be it for me. But I still have to be moderate on carbs or else abracadabra: the amazing expading woman grows to twice her size before your very eyes!

    Oh Precious Boo Boo, I don’t know precisely, just was trying to say as we age a little extra meat on our bones can make people “look” less haggard. This my own opinion. Some women look like they could blow away or turn to dust.

    I am trying to prevent being overweight, just not skinny.

    Hi ply24mp and thintoartinCal from a LOACA lurker! I try to keep up with this thread, but it’s too fast moving for me so I just lurk in the background and pop up every now and again ;o)

    I also get very, very cold on fast days. I tell myself that it must be good, and that maybe my body is working hard to burn off all the fat bits, although the scales suggest otherwise! I’m very much like PreciousBooBoo and over the past year (on 24 April) I’ve been backwards, forwards and sideways … often at the same time!

    Speaking of PreciousBooBoo, a big WELL DONE to you for losing the 2lbs you gained. It could well be the steroid patch – our LOACA bodies are definitely a little weird that way!

    Good wishes for all the other LOACA’s on this thread and Keeeeeeep Fasting!

    Ply24mp and Thintoartincal, On The Dr. Oz Show a dietitian rec’d. sleeping in the nude as a way to burn calories. I know people with underactive thyroids get cold frequently and even have lower core body temps. I am sure you have had your thyroid checked but could it be that?

    For years the thought of drinking cold things would speed up your metabolism. Also heard adding hot peppers to things would aid in weight loss. Like the dietitian mentioned above, many specialists really don’t have a lot to say that really works so they give these little tips that don’t make any real difference. Since the 1980’s-90’s, the only real diets that were different and effective have been Dr. Adkins low carb diet-he was really a game changer and roundly critizied and hated. Even after his death people tried to get his health records to prove it was the diet that killed him.

    The other diet is The Fast Diet. So far it has not caught on in the states as it has in the UK.

    I agree with what yOu write Applecrisp. I’m just sorry I spent so long IN 80’S / 90’S thinking/saying ‘It’s not the pasta it’s the sauce.’
    Trouble is there are huge commercial interests active in selling carbs (esp wheat imo) and so there is a lot of dis-information.

    Or am I just paranoid? Many things are possible! 😉

    I’ve really noticed how, when fasting /low carbing, how I miss out whole swathes of the supermarket – almost the whole centre part really.

    Hello everyone I live in Canada. I enjoy reading your posts and have decided I need some moral support to keep me on what I hope will be a way of eating for the rest of my life. I am in my early 60s, 5’8′ and presently weigh 167. My goal is 155. When younger I too could drop weight with nary a problem. Tho I think it would be correct to say that I have dieted all my life. I’ve never been hugely over weight but was always wanting to be 10 lbs less.

    I am concerned now that I have ruined my metabolism. I have been doing 5:2 for about 4 weeks with 2 fasting days at 500 calories. My TDEE indicates that non fasting days I should be eating around 1600 but I have been afraid to eat that many! I’m eating 1200 at present. Since I began 5:2 I have dropped 3 lbs..hurray! I am only weighing once a week but today I am back up those 3 lbs.

    I’m frustrated but not quitting. I have had two bad falls this past year which meant that I’ve had to stop my 3 weekly work outs at the gym. I ‘m sure that my age and the lack of exercise are keeping me in this spot and contribute to my stuckness.

    Has anyone been where I am? I’d love to hear from people and really want suggestions on what to do to move slowly down.

    Hi Applecrisp

    That was a joke of course; sorry for trying to inject some humour on to the thread.

    Hello All Ladies Of A Certain Age!

    Hello and Welcome to wilfsgran and jazzyred

    Hi jazzyred – If you have a read back at lots of the posts; you will find lots of LOACA’s just like yourself. Personally, I would increase your TDEE calories to what they should be; some people actually need to eat enough on non-fast days so their body can feel a significant difference when they then fast at a 1/4 of that amount.

    Hi Lulu01 – Thank you very much for congratulating me on my hard won weight loss; it is appreciated.
    LOACA lurker – love it!

    Onwards and Downwards!

    The latest Australian Women’s weekly makes an interesting read re Magda and her trip down the Jenny Craig lane–interesting and sad, sad. She had made a bucket of money and had thousands of eyes on her and looked fabulous but now she is back where she started–or worse off. Shows what a hard journey it can be. Unfortunately she is hooked into trying Jenny’s regime once again–and I’m shouting at her get into 5:2 get into 5:2 the answer is not in prepackaged food, continual deprevation and the supposed ‘support’ of some thin lady that sits in an office saying eat 1,200 cals day for the rest of your life.

    all I can say is Thank you Michael. We know its a long journey with its ups and downs but we also know its sustainable and works for most people–and of course we have our fabulous forum. Maybe we all need to send in before and after selfies to the mag and make a bucket of money!!!

    Hi doublehappy and Welcome to this thread

    (I don’t think you’ve been on it before, but we have ‘spoken’ somewhere on this forum).

    I don’t know who Magda is (I’m a Brit) but I think the Jenny Craig diet is the extremely low calorie drinks which replace meals; am I right?

    I was thinking much the same thing the other week; we have one of many actresses who did the same thing and was in all the magazines showing off her new fab slim figure.
    The saddest thing was; she was a LOACA and had never been slim since her teens. So for her to get down to a very slender attractive weight was quite literally, huge. I remember reading how for the first time in decades; she was enjoying buying clothes and liking herself in them.

    I said to my husband; poor P*****E she has crashed that weight off and it will only be a matter of time before she puts it all and a bit more back on. And sure enough; she has and like you say, it is really sad because any person who has had a weight problem for years will know exactly how she must be feeling.

    And unfortunately, it is so public for her and the Magda’s of this world. Most of us just gain the weight back in front of our friends and family.

    The cost is extortionate too; whilst we can get by if we want to without purchasing any publications and the food we consume is ‘normal’ everyday food we have in the cupboards/fridge at home.

    I concur with your thanks to Michael

    Hello Everybody

    This is such a good thread, as to be honest when reading the posts, its as though I have felt at some time or other almost every emotion that is shared here . . . except for the ones where health has been a real issue!

    I have been thinking . . . would it be a good idea if you ladies invest in a little thermometer. Now the cheaper ones are not madly accurate but they will do for what we are wanting it to do. For those in the UK I bought mine at Boots – its a Boots own brand, and I put it in my mouth. Mine lately is 36.0 to 36.5 whereas it was as low as 34.8 in 2012 when I started journalling it.

    The average normal body temperature taken in the mouth is 37ºC (98.6ºF), but anywhere between 36.5ºC and 37.2ºC (97.7ºF and 99ºF) may be normal. Normal armpit temperatures are 0.2ºC to 0.3ºC lower than this.

    You need to take it first thing in the morning before you jump out of bed. Then keep a little journal and also post here so we can check. It told me that my expensive thyroid tests were maybe not the gold standard that it should be. So maybe I am making hormone but not utilising it efficiently.

    I first started taking K2 with D3 as I read that can kickstart the thyroid.
    Then I read the thyroid book I suggested here a while ago and ordered up my Iodoral tables 12.5.

    Well a lot of puffiness off my entire body has gone . . . and what is happening is that I am having an easier time of it all and feeling so much better and keeping my lowest weight for a while now . . . whereas before it would just go back up and up and up. Also even if not showing up on the scale [ I play a lot of tennis so muscly] clothes that were really too tight are now comfortable.

    Just wondered if this might be a good idea. I am doing this to see if I can work naturally with my thyroid to bring it back online without resorting to thyroid stuff. But keeping an eye on it all just in case this way is not enough. If I can maintain my weight at where I want it, and feel energetic and ache-free then I will be a happy bunny. Re aches, well my grand-mother lower back was not in evidence all last week whilst I was lifting her . . . and I now have almost no stiffness when I get up up first thing.

    If no one wants to play then all good . . . just that I have been thinking of this for us all last weekend so now thought I might suggest it.

    Keep on keeping on Ladies . . .
    I think you all ROCK!

    Oops! Iodoral is the tablet version of Lugol’s iodine solution.
    And it is this introduction of iodine that seems to be making all the difference for me.

    Love
    Kaye

    Pecious Boo Boo, I did get the joke, humor is greatly needed on this thread and life. I just wanted to explain what I meant. I’m sorry if I was too serious. I enjoy you and hope you know that.

    K8tie would be interested in your study. Also, what was the book you rec’d. I would need a competent thermometer- which I imagine I could get at walgreens. Anything else? We go by Fahrenheit so will see if it converts. You just take your temp. 1st thing in the AM and chart it?

    l also read your profile and am not sure what QHHT pratitioner is? Could you explain? Thanks.

    Hi K8tie – What a great idea; I will take part for what it’s worth.

    I took my BBMR (Barnes Basal Metabolic Rate) for years to no avail because my blood tests at the G.P came back ‘normal’ – so there was nothing wrong with me! I just like pretending that I feel ill…..

    The books you and I have been ‘banging on about’ prove that blood tests are not the most reliable way to determine whether you have an underactive thyroid or are not utilising the thyroid hormone you do produce.

    For more specific details on how to accurately take your temperature go to
    http://www.pihealth.com – there are slightly different requirements for those of us who are still menstruating.

    Hi Applecrisp – I knew what you meant and I was still making a joke; that’s what all the exclamation marks try to convey!

    Hi Ladies

    Should have been more specific with my link – it should have said

    http://www.pihealth.com/hypothyroidism/htm

    Oh Brilliant! Some of you are game!

    The book is Hypothyroidism Type 2: The Epidemic by Mark Starr MD.
    There are some books on Iodine main one is by Dr Brownstein: Iodine why you need it why you can’t live without it. But I read the Lynn Farrow one after reading the Hypothyroidism one above – Lyn Farrow’s book is The Iodine Crisis . . . and some amazing testimonials in there for anyone with fibrocystic breast issues and much much more.

    The book that alerted me to my ridged nails was A Practitioner’s Diagnostic Reference: The Skin, Tongue & Nails Speak – Observational Signs of Nutritional Deficiencies.

    And yes Applecrisp: First thing – I keep it by my bed and do it before I get up – then chart it. Perhaps we can share here also. I have been looking for any changes with fast days and normal ones and lately down .5 since starting 5:3. You guys can look out for any changes also.
    Also QHHT stands for Dolores Cannon’s Quantum Healing Hypnosis Therapy: simply other lives therapy or Past Life Therapy, if you want more info see Dolores’ website. And this will make all you ladies have a laugh! In another life I was a Dr to royalty!!! So here I am trying to help myself as these Dr’s today look like they are missing some things with us special ladies. I must say I am mad for healing and all it stands for.

    And yes of course there are some of us still menstruating . . . forgot about that so yes PreciousBooBoo thanks for pointing that out.

    Now also if you are doing this you need to take Selenium as the Iodoral starts to detox like mad. I got some frontal type headaches but in the books they tell you to take some good quality salt in a little warm water . . . I drink this and I am fine. There are other supplements they suggest BUT you must take the selenium with the iodoral – and start off with the 12.5 dose iodoral.

    This is what I have been doing . . . BUT please read the books first to get the full gist of what we are dealing with here. I have had more energy and also I wake up much more clear-headed. Again we can all share what we are doing and feeling here. The books tell of some excellent websites/forums that help people with hashimoto’s and graves etc etc again if you want more info.

    We must find the key each one of us as this sadness and feeling of ennui is not good for us . . . we should be feeling so much better . . . and I just do not agree that as we age we should just accept . . . if there are some nice natural ways for us to maintain healthy, mobile and lighter lives then why should we not strive for that. There is a lady in my tennis club who still plays at 86. Mind you she does not move fast and I aim to be much much more speedy gonzales-like than she demonstrates 🙂

    big hugs

    Ps Thought I would put dictionary meaning of ennui – as it really does tell of how I have been feeling up till now!!

    ennui
    noun
    an ennui bred of long familiarity: boredom, tedium, listlessness, lethargy, lassitude, languor, weariness, enervation; malaise, dissatisfaction, melancholy, depression, world-weariness, Weltschmerz [not sure what this is – maybe its how German LOACA feel LOL!

    Hello All,
    Well the best laid plans( and all that!),
    Did not complete my last fast week or start my 1000 cal diet, life has suddenly become a mad social whirl of commitments and social engagements,
    I have not had a minute for, fasting, shopping, planning, gyming or weighing so the diet has been on the back burner. In fact this afternoon I was so exhausted I had to have a 3 hour siesta because I was almost unable to keep awake at work this morning. If you knew me you would find this shocking. I seriously hope I am not coming down with some virus. Anyway just keeping you up to date with my lack of progress.
    Had a quick read of the thread for the last week, sounds positive, on the whole so well done all you fasters. I promise to keep in touch but life is fairly busy now I am living a single life again, nothing exciting, but making new friends and trying new activities. I love living on my own I hope the novelty doesn’t wear off.
    Aim for April 7 lbs off so I need to get my ar– into gear.
    I am thinking that I might cope with a one day fast if it is a non work day, not sure, may give it a try.

    Hi everyone. I know it’s been said before but this is a busy thread – just miss one day and have a page to read. Everyone is so kind, supportive and positive.

    In Australia, we used to get enough dietary iodine from the trace left in milk after the bottles were sterilized (years ago now that milk came in glass bottles).

    Then gradually low iodine intake showed up and the penny dropped with those who should have known, and everyone was recommended to use iodised salt, but bit of a problem if one is trying to lower salt intake.

    What’s the solution other than take multivitamins, which I would prefer not to do. Suggestions welcome.

    PS is there a link between low dietary intake of iodine and hypothyroidism?

    On another note, today is the second fast day of my 9th week. Have lost 3.5kg and 5cm from my waist. I still work 3 days/week so don’t have time for extended exercise (1xyoga, 1x 30′ PT supervised weight training and 3xHIIT sessions) and eat pretty much what I want on non-fast days. I know I’d lose more quickly if I was more disciplined on NF days but hope that if I lose the weight slowly then my skin will keep up 🙂

    Hi I am going through the menopause and have been speaking to a nutritionist menopause expert she was saying that some women going through this find it hard to lose weight because we cannot digest bad carbs so she advises 2 stick to eating more fruit and veg and only eating a tiny amount of carbs

    Hello All Ladies Of A Certain Age!

    Hello and Welcome to the thread Brandy – Let us know how you do on that particular regime.

    Hi jojo58 – Long time no speak!!! God, it must be – oh, at least a whole week!

    Honestly, who could blame you for going a bit mad and enjoying your new single status? No-one at all matey.
    If I was you; I’d forget about any diet for a while (unless of course, you really start to gain) and just really try to watch the portion sizes, amount of plonk etc. But you know yourself; life can short and cruel and miserable – so go for it.

    Hi K8tie – I’m willing to take my temperatures and try to source the books but I’m not sure I will try any additional supplements. My body is really sensitive and I have spent the last twenty odd years trying to improve my own health in this way; and it’s been like shooting in the dark.
    I’ve lost count of all the things I’ve tried and I’ve been to very expensive private doctors right round the country and they haven’t managed to significantly improve my health so………

    You are really fortunate K8tie if taking these two supplements has really improved how you feel, helped you to lose some of the water retention and increased your core body temperature.
    Its suggests to me that your hormones weren’t that much out of whack to start with.
    I love the fact that you are into healing; I am too. I think you are very brave telling us about your role in your ‘previous life’; not everyone will buy into that concept but well done you for putting it out there.
    Has your health been helped by the healing you have received?

    Onwards and Downwards Ladies!

    Hi Girls,

    I am going to take a hiatus from the forum as I have started doing some free on-line courses in nutrition, physiology and chemistry. I find the last one vital as I didn’t do chemistry at school (though my boys did) and it forms the basis of everything including our bodies. There are some truly magnificent on-line courses offered free from universities all over the world and you can go as in depth as you chose by working through them. Some are, like the ones I’m doing at the moment, set on a schedule with assignment and test dates but others can be started anytime and completed in your own time. Although the majority can not be credited towards a degree, I am doing this for my own information and sense of achievement.

    So, having said that, I have taken a break from exercise over the last week and it has proved very revealing. At 53 & only 5’1 with only about 1kg to lose to reach the upper limit of my healthy BMI range – 6kg to be at my goal: in the middle of it – I have realised that it is almost impossible to lose weight without exercising as I simply either starve or, if I eat a balanced diet, maintain (if I didn’t count all my cals I’d be gaining!!). Even 30 mins a day makes a difference to what I can eat & I mean a HUGE difference.

    I think that a lot of people are drawn to this diet with false expectations because of the modern connotation of the word “diet” –> to lose weight. In fact the word “diet” simply refers to the food we eat regardless of quantity or quality. Dr Mosley developed the plan after having an MRI scan for another programme he was working on. The results showed that he was what he describes as ‘TOFI’ – ‘Thin on the Outside and Fat on the Inside’. His blood pressure and cholesterol were both dramatically above what they should be, yet he was only slightly overweight. That’s when he decided to delve into a solution – after all the Horizon programme was called “Eat, Fast & Live Longer” – the word “diet” wasn’t even in the title – but it was part of the main title of the book (which also, to the uninitiated, looked like a book about losing weight quickly).

    These comments are only my observations based on myself, no-one else – so, please, all you lovely ladies on LOACA, don’t take them as a personal slight (though I have read posts elsewhere on the forums made by young women with healthy BMIs & body fat %s who can’t understand why extra weight and fat isn’t just dropping off them at the rate of knots – silly girls).

    So, it’s back to a minimum of 30 minutes exercise a day and hit the study (in between being a domestic goddess of cousre). I’ll still pop in every now & then to have a read & see how everyone is doing but, if I don’t post for a while, don’t think I have abandoned interest.

    Cheers & Good Luck Ladies,
    Kim 😀

    I have decided to follow the 5:1 after steadily gaining weight over the past few years. I am 58 and weigh more than I ever have. I almost decided to accept the “spread” “Bridget Jones” knickers and “lumps and bumps…..after all it’s what women of a certain age look like isn’t it?? However, listening to colleagues who are following the plan and hearing how much better they feel about themselves prompted me to log on this morning. These posts are encouraging and realistic thank you. So…here I go. I’m starting with a fast day. Off to work and hoping to be succesful in my endeavours.Have a good day all..

    You have made some excellent comments, Kim (@ripcurlgirl). You have also achieved a great weight loss in the past year (around 25 kg by now, judging by your profile). I haven’t posted here in a while, but I still read all of your posts every day. How are you doing, @markie99? You haven’t posted here in ages. I have lost 11.2 kg (about 1 st 11 lbs or 25 pounds)on the Fast Diet since November. Like Kim, I couldn’t have lost the weight without exercising as well, 5 times a week – which, for me, means brisk walking for an hour at a time. I have gradually increased my walking distance to 4.6 km (2.9 miles) and will probably have to walk even further (6-7 km?) in order to lose my remaining excess weight (about 21 kg, 3 st 4 lb, 46 pounds). I occasionally try some HIIT on my exercise bike, but am still a bit dubious about its success (I don’t think I’m built for speed)! I am resting a sore foot at the moment and can’t walk today and tomorrow, so my results at weigh-in on Saturday will be interesting. I am still committed to this diet (as in “way of eating”) and expect to follow it for the rest of my life. I agree that the title of the book was a clever marketing ploy – it draws in those looking for a quick fix as well as those who already know that “fast” means “abstain from food” in this case. Any other Australians out there may be interested to know that the “Eat, Fast, Live Longer” documentary is being repeated on Foxtel (on the BBC Knowledge Channel, 612) on Thursday 17th April, at 8.40 pm.

    Hi, I am 66 and obviously post menopausal. I started the 5:2 in January (it’s now April) and I haven’t cheated once. I lost about 1 Kilo in the first weeks but now the weight just stays the same … goes up, goes down etc but averages out. I don’t do much exercise but I thought it said in the book that you didn’t need to because as soon as you stop exercises, the weight will come back on. I’m a bit disheartened.
    On non fast days I don’t eat between meals, don’t eat high carbs, don’t eat sweet things. Don’t know what else to do.

    Hi Tasppergirl – welcome! Don’t despair about the plateau (one of the most used words on this thread 🙂 – I stick for 4 or 5 weeks at a stretch within the same 2-3 pound range, before dropping another quarter pound, and lots of other women seem to be experiencing the same.

    I don’t know much about exercise and the effects on weight gain/loss, but I have a feeling that what they were talking about in the book was people who do really strenuous, professional athlete type exercise, and that those people gain weight quickly when they stop exercising. I’m trying to increase my activity in a very modest way, and I’m finding – like Ripcurlgirl above – that even an extra walk in a day can just tip the balance for me towards weight loss rather than staying put.

    I bought a Fitbit this week, a little gadget that you clip to your belt (or bra!), and strap to your wrist at night. It syncs with an app on my iphone, and tells me how many steps I’ve taken, miles walked, floors climbed and calories burned. (there’s a bunch of other stuff too). I’m convinced that this extra push to do a bit more gentle exercise was responsible for me dropping another pound this week after a five week plateau – for example, last night I did a brisk 45 minute walk home after a restaurant dinner rather than grabbing a taxi, just for the pleasure of seeing I’d exceeded my targets!

    Have a great weekend everyone. JoJo, lovely to have you back. Kim/ripcurlgirl – enjoy your courses, I’m full of admiration! PBB – thanks for being such a welcoming presence to everyone on this thread. Onwards and downwards indeed!

    One last post lol.

    Thanks Gomarg & yipyop.

    To Tasppergirl – I looked at your profile : you are only 0.2 off the top of your healthy BMI range which is 25 (some people even argue that the bar was lowered to benefit the weight-loss industry but I don’t like to think that doctors would support that – I DO remember the upper limit used to be around 27 some years ago, however). Whenever you’re close to your goal it will ALWAYS be a long haul, especially if you are 66 & post-menopausal. Just try to up your activity, be thoughtful about what goes down your gullet and be patient – it will happen.

    All the Best,
    Kim 🙂

    PS – To quote Kramer from “Seinfeld” (responding to Jerry’s comment that he had broken a vow that he was giving up speaking) –
    Kramer / Kim : “All right ..Starting now.”

    Hi PreciousBooBoo,
    Thanks for the advice but you and I both know that I can’t do ‘not dieting’ without quick weight gains. Actually I gave up all alcohol in a new year resolution, I thought it was a sensible as I was embarking on the fast way of life. I was also trying to set my son, currently into binge drinking, a good example. It is not a bid deal for me as I am only a social drinker, you know just a couple of gin and tonics per week and a glass of wine in a restaurant with a meal. I am a cheap date now, fizzy water only. I can’t honestly say I miss it much. I have decided to fast on Mondays, see how it goes. I start the 1000 cals Tuesday to Sat next week. Sunday will be my day off.

    Hello all. Is it strange that I am a little bit happy about being sent home from work with a fever, because I know I won’t be eating much, if anything, for a day or two? And not even fast days!

    I know exactly what you mean, ply. I’ve had a very nasty cold that made me feel really rough and lasted for just over 2 weeks, during which time most days were virtually fast days as there was very little I could face eating.

    However, today I think I’m finally over it but this was a fast day and a complete disaster. No chocolate or cake binges, just rather too much basically healthy stuff. I’ve gone right over the top, as if catching up. I’m glad to say this hasn’t happened very often in 14 months, so I say what the hell, I’ll soon be back on track.

    I’ve always been a great believer in “listening to your body”. It causes rows at home because Him Indoors believes one MUST eat or risk fainting for lack of nourishment. Unlikely, when you are carrying 15 kilos of spare blubber on which the bod can feast!

    I’m sure it is messages from the body that cause a pregnant women to crave particular foods almost certainly because they provide a particular nutrient that she and her baby need. Likewise, when normally disciplined Fast Dieters fall off the wagon because of a craving for chocolate or cake, it could well be that at that moment their bodies genuinely need a sugar rush to help them deal with whatever is happening in their lives.

    For the past few weeks, even before I was hit by a filthy cold that put me off most food, I have found I can no longer face carbs at lunchtime. For years now I have been incapable of eating breakfast but was ready to eat at midday.

    Non-fast-day lunch would usually be a sandwich, panini or ciabatta roll filled with lean protein and salad. Suddenly, such a meal started leaving me feeling over-full and rather sick. So I listened to what my body was telling me and now lunch consists of just the filling.

    Result: I feel better and the kilos are slowly but surely slipping away, which for me is a major event after the 5-month-long plateau I was on between September and February. No doubt due to saving something like 10 slices of bread or five rolls etc each week. Also on non-fast days, I’m left with a few more calories to play with in the evening when I really am hungry.

    Has anyone else had a similar experience?

    hermajtomomi, congratulations on breaking through that plateau! I’m with you on listening to what our bodies have to say. I have always felt a need for a big breakfast, but after several months of 5:2 have been able to try saving up all my calories for dinner time with success, and now am finding that I want a smaller breakfast than before on non-fasting days. Probably a good thing, since I need less food for maintenance than I did before! Sometimes I get cravings for a certain kind of fruit or veg, especially if it’s in season (one year I had a terrific craving for champagne grapes when they were in season), and I’ve always figured there was something in that food that my body needed, and just went with it. Of course we can also develop cravings for junk foods, some of them are even engineered to do that, but common sense can tell us the difference!

    Franfit & Hermajtomomi: like you, I had always liked a substantial breakfast and did feel that if I shorted myself early in the morning that I paid for it later in the day with greatly increased hunger.

    Since starting 5:2 I have found that 2 hardboiled eggs mid-morning (as late as 10:30) does the job and I can eat a salad at 1:00 and be in pretty good shape for meat and veg for dinner at 6:30 or 7:00. If I am really starving at 5:00 I have a piece of cheese or another harboiled egg. The eggs or cheese work well for me because they kill the hunger without being so yummy that I would want more.

    Like you this lighter way of eating has spilled over to the rest of the week and I find a more modest breakfast as long as it is protien and not carbs does the trick. Today 3 slices of fried bacon and black coffee is keeping me completely satisfied and it is now 11:00 am DC time in US.

    I think listening to your body is critical. I knew 10 years ago that having a montly treat of 2 donuts and coffee for breakfast left me more hungry 1 hr later (induced ravenous hunger actually) than if I had eaten nothing at all. I have to have protien for breakfast to get my day off to a good start, and maybe an occassional high fiber cracker (Wasa is nice) with cream cheese and sugar free jam. If I have the eggs, I am good for 5+ hours. And I too find moderate exercise (daily walk with occassional days off) is adequate for tipping the weight loss in my favor.

    I feel so sorry for the folks that go on the Biggest Loser shows to loose 100lb and find 1 month later that they have put 15 back on beacuse they hoped that a healthy lifestyle with moderate eating and moderate exercise was enough. Most of them gain nearly all their weight back within 6 mo. Only the ones that kept up 2+ hrs of exercise a day were able to keep it off. 2 hrs….who has time for that. The ones that did were the ones that openeing up gyms or became personal trainers ….ie, it became their jobs. That is no solution of the other 99.99% of the population.

    LUVTCOOK, I find the same thing with breakfast, if it’s based on high-protein foods with some whole fruit I feel good for several hours; if it’s based on starches, even whole grains, or if I drink juice, I’ll be hungry within 2 hours. A Wasa crisp bread with an ounce and a half of good cheese works for me, too; I think all that fiber in the Wasa prevents a blood glucose surge. And I find that adding significant walking to my life makes a bigger difference for my weight loss than it theoretically should according to the number of calories I burn off.

    Although I’m in the U.S. I have not seen that TV show, but I read about what the contestants go through and it sounds really horrible. No wonder NBC makes them sign all their rights away; I think that they are vulnerable to lawsuits even so, with the practice of intimidating people into working out while injured. This is supposed to be about health? I don’t think so.

    I also love to cook; my son and I have recently been enjoying a lot of recipes from “The Complete Italian Vegetarian Cookbook” by Jack Bishop. I even adapt the recipes for fast days by reducing the amount of olive oil, butter, or cheese called for in the recipes. Last night we had an olive and thyme torta, roasted Belgian endive with butter and a pinch of parmesan, roasted fennel and red onion with a bit of olive oil, and homemade bruschetta (for my son). I was able to have good-sized portions and still bring it in at 500 calories, and it was delicious.

    Hi franfit,

    With all my problems of being a natural-born fatty who was fed far too much as a child – not junk food, just good home cooking in gigantic portions – I have the great good fortune not to have a sweet tooth and to actively dislike or find it very easy to live without the usual fatty/sugary stuff that qualifies as junk food.

    I do have to tread warily with savoury things which in small quantities are actually healthy – like avocados and smoked salmon, especially in the form of smoked salmon taramasalata which I could eat by the bucketful. However, just beginning my 15th month with 5:2 and seeing very pleasing results I do manage to control myself – well, most of the time anyway. I love your Mediterranean-style cuisine. Definitely my kind of food.

    LUVTCOOK, I agree, eggs can be very satisfying. Today – not a fast day – for lunch I had a one-egg omelette cooked in a tiny pan with a little semi-skimmed milk and a good grating of cheese and it was great, leaving me plenty of leeway for homemade Thai salmon fishcakes for dinner.

    BTW I’m the one who doesn’t eat breakfast. It’s what my body tells me to do. I know it is widely claimed that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Not for me, it ain’t. I have tried occasionally when on holiday but have usually ended up feeling so unwell I have to go back to bed for at least half the day. I love breakfast things, like bacon, egg, sausage etc but NOT first thing in the morning.

    Hi all,
    Just got to share my one pound down weigh in today, probably be back tomorrow as Sunday my chill day, food wise. It just goes to show a week off the routine then back to it with a vengeance does your body the power of good. It’s typical actually, probably about relaxation of mind and body. I only did one visit to the gym in the last 10 days and that was for a yoga class, hardly taxing, interesting but not strenuous. I think I am going to learn from this and start my meditation cd which I have not taken out of the packet yet since Christmas. Apart from my daily dog walk I have been very lazy. Still it’s the Easter Holidays for me now and some serious decorating planned. Just bought all the paint and decided on a theme of duck egg blue and brown, wonder whether that is mood enhancing? Good luck to all my fasting friends especially those tempted by chocolate, I feel for you. Yesterday I had to walk past my favourite bakers, where the huge Cornish pasties sat in the window, reduced to 50 pence each, it was agony. I treated myself to some filleted sea breem from the wet fish shop, it was delicious.

    Hi Jazzyred, I am just starting on my 5:2 diet (again) but this time I have decided to commit to it for 12 months. I find that I need a big plan if I am to get interested!

    RE Exercise, I am not able to do much exercise as I have a mobility disability (MS). My imbalance means that i am a prime candidate for falls – I have the bruises to prove it! So I have started attending hydro therapy classes. They maybe called something else in the States where I a assume you are writing from, may aqua something. Anyway, the benefit is even if you lose your balance the worse that can happen is that you get wet! Also without the burden of weight bearing, your can do all sorts of superhuman exercises to stretch muscles that you had forgotten that you still had!

    Tomorrow (Tuesday 8/3) is my first fast day. Should have been today but I could not do it as I woke up really hungry. Wish me luck? AG

    Hi Adelaidegirl

    (are you from Adelaide? – so am I)

    Good luck with your first fast tomorrow.

    Several people I know do hydrotherapy and swear by the classes – as you say, if you fall over then the worst is getting your head wet.

    I’m fasting today (as usual) but have 6.30pm meeting and husband getting Chinese takeaway so will have to be VERY careful. Last week was moderately disastrous with scales and tape measure confirming, so need to refocus today.

    Good morning all LOACA. I am OACA but I am no Lady…..just kidding.
    Like jazzyred, I live in Canada. I started this WOL last week and both fast days hovered around the 600 cal. mark. I was shocked that my TDEE suggested 1850 cal. for me. My usual cal consumption has been 1200 – 1500. I often say I don’t eat enough and wonder if that is why I carry this extra weight around with me.
    Today is a fast day for me. I had supper last night at 6 p.m. My plan is to eat something when I feel hungry this a.m., thinking a couple of egg whites with veg. (maybe some low fat shredded cheese????)and later in the day, before I leave for class, a homemade mini turkey meatloaf and large salad with a yogurt based dressing. I feel confident that I can make it through til tomorrow with that plan.
    I am confused about the carbs, (low carbs or no carbs) on fast days. I have a lentil soup that I love, 250 ml. is 60 cal., 1g fat, 9g carb, 3g fiber, 4g protein. After reading some of the posts here, I am wondering if the carb count is too high for a fast day.
    Thank you all for your commitment to posting here and helping all us LOACA lurkers as Lulu01 says!
    LUVTCOOK, what you posted earlier about breakfast lunch and dinner on a fast day resonated with me, thank you. That is how I ate last week for my 1st week of 5:2 and was wondering if that was okay.
    Week 2 starts today, I am aiming for the 500 cals. I am aiming for success!

    The guidelines for this food plan is to eat 500 calories on your fast days. How you divide it up across protein, fat, and carbs is up to you.

    You may find you are fuller if you eat fewer carbs, but there are no rules. People are reporting what works for them. If you want more carbs, eat them.

    Hey to all, and to PBooBoo: haven’t congratulated you on your two lbs….hope they don’t do the disappearing act my new weekly weight loss seems to do. It’s here, its gone, it’s back again. Like playing hide and seek.

    To Ommamma: One of the most powerful messages of this thread is “there is no one right way”. It may be a bit simpler for the under 50 crowd, but all of us have so many issues with thyroid, and menopausal hormones playing havoc that it just isn’t that simple. I think everybody is trying to share what twist may have worked for them when others fail just in case it might be helpful to someone else frustrated that the simple answers aren’t doing it for them.

    Unlike bread or pasta, the lentil soup you love has LOTS of protien in it and LOTS of fiber. A real
    super star of a meal. I love a good lentil soup as well. I sure wouldn’t cut out sensible things like that as long as you are losing a bit along the way. We all have to have some of the things we love in this way of eating or its going to be a very short love affair. Better to eat what you love and give up the things that just are not that important to you for the price you pay for them, and find that 52 weeks from now you are 25 or 35 lbs less and still going strong.

    Love to all. Onwards and downwards.

    Hey, Boo and all-

    just checking in. What a lovely set of women. I just went to a women’s retreat with my daughter this weekend and feel raring to go! Just what the doctor ordered. The church is pretty progressive..we studied archetypes…so I’m working on “Goddess”! (Beats crone, anyway!) 🙂

    ommamma- beans are very good for you, do not give them up, especially the tiny amount that you were talking about here.

    adelaide-water exercise sounds great.

    K8tie- I don’t have a working thermometer, just threw the old one out, but I may get one.

    I plan on doing a vision board. Has anyone heard of them, and what were your experiences?

    xxP

    Is everyone doing okay?

    Hi All,
    Lowest weigh in for ten years, I have lost 1st 4 lbs since 2 nd Jan and one stone in previous three months so over 2 stone off. First two months of fasting and dieting were fairly strict, last month pretty shambolic but a little restraint has surfaced on occasion which has stopped me from gaining permanently. Four inches off my waist which thrills me. However still 5 stone to go so there is no room for any smugness. I usually do ballroom fitness, badminton, yoga and 3 one hour gym work outs plus 6 x 45 min dog walks weekly. Joining lawn bowls this week. All this exercise is at a moderate level and designed to tone only. I am now considering meta fit, latest gym craze but not sure, it’s a bit Jane Fonda(if any of you remember(feel the burn). All my fast days lately have gone to pot, can’t seem to get my mojo back. When I look back to my strict fasting journey when I was losing fast it doesn’t tempt me – daily headaches, constant visits to the loo, irritability and night hunger waking. The only highlights were a guaranteed 1 lb loss per week. But now I am see sawing continuously and not hitting my weekly goals. It’s a dilemma!. Some positive changes are daily hot water and lemon(very clear skin), fruit tea replaces normal tea 90% of the time(love it now), porridge made with water with adding prunes or blueberries before cooking(makes it edible and keeps you full and regular) treats are reserved for weekends only, weigh only on Friday. Gave up alcohol for New Year and now considering this permanently, just don’t need it, wasted calories, happy with elderflower presse or sparkling water (I realise wine is like chocolate for some but not me) hot savoury food is my weakness and I acknowledge it, a bacon roll or a Cornish pasty are my real loves. I have considered surgery and I haven’t ruled it out, if I get this weight off and keep it off in the next year I will avoid this drastic measure. Good luck fasters let’s hope you all have a good week. Back to my decorating.

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