Haha Gladys (both of you). Thin, you’ll have to call your criticising inner voice ‘Joyce’.
Or ‘L’.
Mine is mostly my mother’s voice, intensified and enriched by all sorts of powerful, hateful, authoritarian messages that were around me growing up.
I remembered my horror realising, when my daughter was going through the difficult teenage years of her relationship with me, that she had me as her inner voice.
Good article LJoyce, I find it most helpful, when I am cruelly criticising myself, to think what I would say to a friend who had just done or said what I was beating myself up about. I would never be as horrible to someone else as I am to myself! (Including my daughter, thank goodness).
Hot afternoon here, but I am pottering around inside.
Cheers to everyone, what are you doing today?
4:00 am
17 Dec 17