Thanks for the warning, Fast. My intention is to be icily polite and only use the most courteous language but word it in such a way that the anger is very much there. Earlier this year, when someone managed to hack into my debit card, I made the mistake of starting the online chat with NatWest with the words “I need help because some b*****d (exactly like that) has hacked yadayada. The immediate response was, Please do not use such language otherwise I shall be obliged to terminate this conversation. So I know even asterisks are inadvisable.
Some years back I used to contribute to the Woman’s Hour Message Board, which had a very similar feel about it as this thread. There, the strange rule seemed to be if you wished to say something rude, write using dashes, e.g. b—–d and it would be permitted. Use asterisks, as above, you would immediately be modded.
There was one other strange rule. Personal abuse was acceptable, as I found to my cost – me being the abused, not the abuser. But, like here, it was great to see the number of people who stuck up for me. However, raising a topic that had not featured on WH was deeply frowned upon. A lovely thread all about France and French culture which had lots of enthusiastic contributors was eventually banned, precisely for that reason.
8:13 pm
20 Feb 16