Hi GOLDEN SUN and TTL: (and everyone else who lurks in these Forums) I’m so pleased I can be a help with personal motivation, not just something that overlaps with your 5:2 WOL but also with other personal aspects of daily life. Everyone’s life journey has different ups and downs, challenges to be met, decisions to be made, emotions to be overcome.
We are all held back in some way in our lives by our personal “FEARS” (False Expectations Appearing Real) and we all need a little nudge now and then to move us forward in our decisions that impact on daily life. Many people become paralysed by FEAR and make no decisions until sometimes too late.
The Introvert and Extrovert personalities are excellent examples of how we make decisions and of course this is just human nature in action. Neither one is of course the “right one” given any set of circumstances however once we realise which box we each fit into then life does become easier. I would recommend anyone who hasn’t done one, to do a Personalty Profile to establish which “box” you fit into. Once you realise why you react to certain circumstances and understand your Profile then you can do something about it and recognise the signals.
For example, relating to food and the 5:2 lifestyle, if your personality profile suggests you have trouble initiating change into your life then guess what, the 5:2 WOL will be a struggle for you because that little voice in your head (your subconscious mind) will fight it. Once you know how to beat your “little voice” and introduce acceptable changes into your life will it become (more) successful.
This probably also explains The Plateau State so many of us experience. If your subsconious mind tells you “getting below X lbs on the scales is impossible for you, you haven’t been that weight since you were married, get real, you can’t reach that goal” guess how hard it will actually be to reach that goal. We self sabotage ourselves and let our subsconious minds influence our outcomes. Once we understand this process and understand our Personalty then we can start to influence our outcomes.
Have a little bit of fun with this Free On Line test:
http://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
If this is the first time you’ve ever done a Profile you may be surprised. Share the results with someone close to you who knows you well and get them to comment. I shared my first one with my wife and her comment was “that’s you to a tee Honey” and I was disappointed hearing her say that because I actually didn’t agree with the results that I read. It took her to jolt me into reality about some of my personal traits and it gave me reason to change some of my thoughts and actions towards others in my life.
Enough from me this morning, have a great weekend everyone. All you guys “over there” have a great Thanksgiving Holiday with your loved ones and if you over indulge then there’s always an extra FD you can do next week 🙂 🙂
I’m off for another 3 days of golf this weekend with “the boys” so hopefully not too many beers and pizzas. Talk again Monday, take care everyone Mike
PS I’ve just reread what I wrote above before pushing GO and realised this Forum we are all in is of course called “LITTLE VOICES” Hmmmmm isn’t that interesting !!!!! Someone else knows something about this me thinks…..
7:05 pm
26 Nov 15