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  • Evening BooBoo and everyone,
    Hi Jeff5 well done I want another couple of pounds to come off and then I am going to try 6-1 but I am going to be very careful. I find the 500-5 550 calories easy to do and I think I could do this for life with the odd holiday off from 5-2 when I go on my holidays. if you know what I mean.
    coffee54 the 500 adds up very quickly. Buy a calorie book to keep on you at all times but you will find that the food you eat most will stick in our mind.
    Ali I think it’s Boo who types her message in Word and copy and paste into here.
    At least we would not lose them, it’s when I go up the page to read a few messages that I wanted to comment on and all my typing use to disappear. JIP

    Hi ladies, when I messages earlier it should have read 20 minutes I had to wait to log back on to 5-2 not 210. LOL JIP

    Hi LUVTCOOK, I think you are all stuck with me, I will be watching what I eat until I die. On my grave stone it wil read something like (She died dieting) LOL
    Iouabook, hope your Mum is on the mend, our bones do not mend when we get older.
    Smiffy, still having trouble getting on 5-2 with safari or AOL. but ok with Google Chrome.
    BooBoo are you still reading the new diet book? let us in on it.
    Sally if it goes on quick it’s mostly water not all fat.
    ALiH61 if you have time read back better than a good book.
    Hermajtomomi my problem is I like chocolate no matter what colour it is. LOL.
    I am watching a TV program bikini diet so far it’s no good, just another way of eating.
    Good night or good morning all JIP

    Hello All Ladies Of A Certain Age!

    How are you all? Well, I hope.

    We’ve had such a busy day in the garden. We had a lot of plants that needed to be planted before our holiday but before I could do that my poor husband had to dig all the weeds out and boy, were there some weeds. So we are both bushed as our Aussie contingent would say…..

    I wanted to post at length about that ‘diet’ I had read about; it will have to wait unfortunately…..

    Anyways, Hello and Welcome to LisaW and Jeff5; please tell us about yourselves and jump right in with questions or just join in the discussions. Hopefully someone will always answer; though it won’t always be instantly!

    Having said that Ladies; could someone give wilbersnanna some advice with her query please?

    Anyways, reading back a bit I have come across NickyF’s continuing tale of clothes she is now getting into.
    Especially, the beautiful size 16 navy stretch, wool, tailored trousers, from RM Williams, the up-market and expensive Adelaide clothing brand, that now fit NickyF and LOOK GREAT! And cost FOUR TIMES AS MUCH before she snatched them up in the sale!

    So I couldn’t resist making Nicky our STAR LOACA OF THE WEEK!

    Well done NickyF on your slow but sure weight loss and rock those fab new trousers!

    Sorry have to go and ‘scare up dinner’ as LUVTCOOK would say….

    JIP! – you are doing a marvellous job welcoming and encouraging everyone.
    Thanks Matey.

    Hopefully have more time tomorrow
    Be good everyone
    ONwards and Downwards!
    BooBooxx

    Hi all LOACAs

    Precious, thank you for the award – I’ll treasure it! (Not joking).

    Today is the first of my B2B fast days and was delighted to see this morning that the scales were at my best reading for this year so have hopes of maybe seeing a new kg number on Wednesday morning. (Shouldn’t weigh often I know but am always curious as to whether the 5 non-FDs have done any damage.)

    Lovely to hear stories from new ladies, Precious and JIP have welcomed you all already.

    Ow & Dw Ladies!

    Hi again

    Just posted a long message to Wilbersnanna but it has disappeared 🙁

    Trying again, in essence … re your appetite loss, don’t view any food as ‘bad’ and try to tempt your appetite with something you normally love on a non-FD. Maybe cold/hayfever affecting your taste buds.

    Hello All Ladies Of A Certain Age!

    I’m pleased that you are pleased with your LOACA award NickyF!
    It’s well deserved and if you go down into another ‘ten’ kilos, so to speak, then you will be eligible for a MMM!

    Thanks for trying to answer wilbersnanna with her query; can you not put your longer posts into a word document? That’s what I do; as I have lost many just typing it straight onto the thread.

    Hi wilbersnanna – I think the simple answer is yes, try not to exceed your TDEE on your non-fast days. It is surprising sometimes when you check how many calories certain staple foods have or just regular meals you have been making for years. I know I got a surprise with some of the foods/meals I eat over a week.
    As NickyF suggested, if your appetite is still a bit down after a fast day and it can be affected; then choose something you really like but have a smaller portion so you still stay within your TDEE.
    Once you get into the swing of FD; you can experiment with how you follow it to suit you.

    Hi LUVTCOOK – I’m glad to hear you’ve got yourself back on the wagon and as you say, having your son follow it with you will make life so much easier and of course, you can encourage each other.
    My holiday got postponed; we plan to go this coming Friday and I most certainly WON’T be fasting. Not in a tent! I will need as much wine as possible to get me any kind of sleep at all!

    Hi AliH61 – I’m glad you are sticking with us now that you are maintaining. How is it going? Can you maintain by just fasting for one day a week? It seems not many LOACA’s can.

    WEIGH TO GO on having to buy buttonhole elastic for your TOO LARGE PANTS! As in trousers; I hasten to add!

    Onwards and Downwards!
    BooBooxx

    Many thanks for encouragement. Lost 3 lb 1st week. Appetite much improved!! 3rd Fast day today. X

    Hi JIP!

    Where are you today? Out enjoying yourself again?

    I tried my new pedometer today for the first time; the first one was faulted and had to be sent back. I was surprised to find that on a walk that takes us 50mins, going at a brisk pace, the count was only 5,000 and something. I say, ‘something’ because it had 84 steps on it before I even started! Because it’s new, my husband hadn’t had a chance to work out how to re-set it.
    Does that seem about right to you?

    BooBooxx

    Wow wilbersnanna!

    WEIGH TO GO!
    That is a really good start; are you pleasantly surprised at that?

    BooBooxx

    I’m really thrilled!! X

    Hi LisaW

    I’ve just been reading your post. That is a really impressive weight loss since April this year. You must be delighted!
    You have lost around the same amount as me and I have been on the FD for a year now…….:-(

    You must be even more delighted to discontinue taking two blood pressure medications; that is fantastic.

    How does the exercising in front of the computer work? Is it like when you see people doing ‘wi’ in front of the telly?

    BooBooxx

    Hi. I am 56 and have had 2 weeks of this regime. So far I lost 6lbs and I’m stoked! I had a brush with Breast Cancer 12 years back, and doing chemo, which hurtled me into early menopause. I gained weight, then lost it doing what I realize now was intermittent fasting. The weight stayed off for 8 years when my life circumstances changed and I was fitting in with another person’s less than healthy eating pattern more often than not. I’m relieved to have something that may be able to reign in my body’s tendency to put on weight now. As a younger woman I held at between 8 1/2 to 8 3/4 stone with no problems at all. I’ve felt my body shift into fat burning mode again in the same way I felt it last time around. I’d love to live eating this way, so I’m in this for the long term. Both weeks I’ve had high energy meals as well as lower ones eg fish and chips. I havn;t really changed anything apart from fasting. Apparently intermittent fasting helps with my high risk for further BC as well! Good luck to everybody 🙂

    Hello BooBoo and everyone, sorry to be late reporting in, been Nordic walking a.m. watched Andy at Wimbledon this afternoon and played bowls this evening and we won by two shots. Yipeeeeee.
    BooBoo great news my roofer started this morning, I have tar poling over it tonight, so could you all please pray for it to stay fine tonight even if that’s only means over my little bungalow.. LOL
    Boo I am still hoping to get to Aberystwyth end of next week. I wonder what the weather will be like, we have had about 2.1/2 weeks of wonderful weather can we hope for more of the same?
    It’s WW weigh-in in the morning and I am feeling good, I had 4 days of normal eating and I cut down for one day and did 2 fast days. I do not want to go back over the 10 stone so I need to get a bit further away from that 10 figure. I am going out with my sister after Weight Watchers meeting, I am glad to say she is back within her 5lb of her goal after her holiday so she will not have to pay we will have a bit of lunch and a bit of shopping I have told you before she is 9 years older than me, I hope I am like her when I am her age.
    It’s after 10 pm so I am going to close. Good night all.
    OW and DW’s everyone. JIP

    Hi Booboo,
    When I went for my brisk walk on Sunday my step count for an hour was 7081 (about 6km). This is on the flat and really extending the stride. My pedometer is a fitbit zip, that lets me enter height as well as weight and age so I think it works out stride length from that! More fancy (expensive) fitbits also let you enter stride length. What distance did you cover in your 50 mins? When you know your stride length you could perhaps work out an approximate number of steps you would expect to do 🙂
    Walking in front of the computer looks inviting especially on cold, wet winter days.
    Best foot forwards… VM

    Good morning BooBoo and co. I wake at 4am and I have been up since 5 this usually my Monday night type of sleep due to fasting but I do not feel hungry and I had my lunch about 2pm yesterday so by now I would be ready for breakfast but I do not.
    I do think this is because I know I do not need to eat when it’s time to, breakfast , lunch etc.
    Boo these pedometers are a bit tempromental can you put in your weight and height etc. if I do about 20k I take off about 600 steps to allow for any false counts.
    One of my Nordic walker friends said she does a Aqua Zumba but it’s in a swimming pool about 15 miles away and I would have to there by 9am not sure I could get there by that time having to catch two buses again. It’s a Friday morning and I have some free time then. LOL.
    Paintpaper what a lose well done you and welcome to Booboo’s gang.
    Hello Wilbersnanna welcome where are you from we are very nosey on here. LOL no sorry interested.
    Well ladies I am now going to WW. I will be back later. OW & DW’s JIP

    Hi there everyone!!! A big thumbs up to you all out there…..you have all sooo encouraged me. Got home from work today….my long day….3pm (usually finish at 12.30pm….work in a school office) to check my emails and found some more poste. What an encouragement. Its my second fast day and i have been able to be successful….even though my sister came over and offered me a gin and tonic and hubby offering me choc. Feeling quite proud of myself….early days I know. Have started reading this thread from the start….very interesting.

    Hi Cheeseplease,

    Sorry not to reply sooner. Early on Saturday morning all our technology went down the tubes – no email, no Internet access, zilch! The techie turned up today and we are now (fingers crossed) back in business. With no temptation to start playing about online I managed to do some solid work towards my MA dissertation – like actually starting to write it.

    I also think De Gaulle was the one who made the cheesy comment, but like you I’m not 100% sure. I don’t know if you could call my stay in Paris romantic, but I do look back to living on about the 4th floor (no lift) of a small, scruffy hotel in a not terribly solubrious neighbourhood with a certain nostalgia.

    I remember lying on the bed in my room, reading a translation of an extract from Hemingway’s ‘A Moveable Feast’ in a French magazine, possibly Marie Claire. There’s a quote from it that gives me goosebumps every time I read it:

    “If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast.”

    Amen to that!

    Hermajtomomi
    Love that quote!

    NB sorry to hear about your techie problems – I feel like I have lost a limb when our broadband goes down – how sad is that!

    Hi JIP!

    Got your message re-your roofer etc which is great.

    We are definitely coming down on Friday and we will stay at least until the next Saturday or Sunday; obviously if I hear from you that you are definitely going to Aberystwyth then we will stay but the latest would be the Sunday (the next day would be the day we would head home).
    The only thing which would put a spanner in the works is the weather, which looks like it’s changing! It always does whenever we mention the possibility of going camping……

    So I think JIP! – unless you know for sure by this Thursday night, we should just say; that we will check with this thread if you are coming up and then you can, as you so wisely suggested, post the name and tel. number of the bed and breakfast you will stay at.

    Then obviously we can talk directly and arrange where we will meet!
    If anything comes up to stop this JIP! Don’t worry about it; we will come down another time but not for some time admittedly.

    What do you think?

    BooBooxx

    Hi JIPWGP. I live in Hampshire in answer to your enquiry. Lovely county!!

    Thanks for the sympathy re techie problems, Cheeseplease.

    I don’t find it sad at all that you should feel bereft if your broadband goes down.

    There are so many other ways in which it’s made our lives easier. Apart from using it for work and study – without it studying certainly at uni level would be impossible, and I would guess that the same applies to younger students when GCSEs and the A-levels start to loom. How did we use to manage before things like like online banking and credit card management, travel bookings, online newspapers, watching TV or listening to radio programmes that you would otherwise have missed, not to mention keeping up with old friends and making new ones,like on this very forum? You can also search for all sorts of information such as I just did and found the answer to our question: How can you govern a country which has 246 varieties of cheese? Charles De Gaulle, in “Les Mots du General”, 1962,French general & politician (1890 – 1970). The list goes on and on.

    Certainly it has transformed my job as a translator. Time was when I had to hang around in libraries, sometimes the other side of London, for hours on end looking, not always successfully, for information. Now 95% of the time practically everything you need can be found online, but of course you have to check the sources – Wikipedia is far from infallible. Now and then I still have to go to a library, e.g. I had to go to the British Library to look at a late 19th-century Baedeker travel guide that featured in a piece I was working on – but even then I was able to reserve it online.

    Fortunately nothing urgent was at stake when we had our little hiccup at the weekend. I’m not quite sure how we would have coped if there had been.

    Wilbersnanna, I live in lovely Hampshire too – near the Hampshire/sussex border. Love it!

    Hi, It’s my first fast day today. I’m post menopausal and I really struggle to lose weight whatever diet I try, but at least I don’t seem to gain anything extra from my start weight. So it will be really good to keep in touch with other ladies of a certain age, it must be possible to lose weight.

    Hello All Ladies Of A Certain Age!

    How are you all doing?

    Hello paint paper and VonnieB and Welcome to this thread.

    Hi VonnieB – Good for you on taking the plunge into the fast diet. You will be very unusual indeed if it doesn’t work for you; that is usually only the case if the LOACA has many health problems. If you read back to a lot of the posts on here; we all tend to say the same thing – will it work for me? We are so frightened to be the exception to the rule; well I bet you won’t be!
    Let us know how you go this week.
    We have LOACA’s on here who are at maintenance weight, mid-term people and newbies like yourself just starting. Get chatting to them for encouragement.

    Hi paintpaper – 6lbs is a great start for you! I note that like me; you haven’t really changed anything apart from the fasting. Makes sense to me….if you can lose weight and still largely eat what you want….why would you?

    Hello Jeff5 – I am sorry I missed properly reading your initial post.
    Wow, that is fantastic Jeff! No wonder you are delighted! A pound a week is quite a loss at our stages in life; how much did you lose altogether? It’s great for the Newbies to hear stories like yours and hey, I like hearing it too. Keeps me on the wagon…..

    Hi SallyM – I’m sorry you’ve had such a discouraging start. I would say the short answer is; if you are overeating your TDEE on non-fast days you will take longer to lose weight because you are upping your calories for the entire week. Have you at least counted what you have had for one of the weeks? The thing is, if you have been calorie counting for the last two years; you will be very clued up on calorific foods…..
    Can anyone else advise Sally?

    Hi coffee54 – Well done you on resisting gin and tonic and chocolate! What mean relatives you’ve got!
    I can highly recommend reading the thread right through (with a very large cup of coffee or wine……:-)); you will read so many success stories from LOACA’s with all different circumstances. It can be seriously motivating when, like you, you are just starting.
    And it does open your eyes if you haven’t calorie counted for a long while; I remember looking up the calories for a small naan bread we have WITH our chilli con carne – 200cals!

    Hi Violet May – Thanks for the advice re-your fit bit. I had to take 10 ‘usual size’ steps and then measure that to get the ‘average’ size of my stride and it needed to have my weight input too. I think the distance was 2.65 miles; though round here it is known as the 3 mile walk!
    The pedometer did seem to have a life of it’s own (was it yours that had extra steps added during the night?) with the 83 steps when I just took it to the car!

    Hi Purple Vegie Eater – We live in one of the designated ‘dark skies’ areas in Scotland; I’m with you on enjoying gazing at them. We went out the other night at midnight when it was the solstice; we couldn’t remember what time the druids and suchlike folk celebrate but found out the next day; it’s dawn!
    Makes sense……

    Hi smiffy – Are you any nearer your stone barrier? You have to shout up round here. A holiday home anywhere sounds lovely but South Wales; you lucky article.

    Hi speedy – You’ve gone quiet again.
    Have you recovered from your coffee maker debacle? How is it going with your supa-dupa telly? Have you programmed it to make your tea yet?
    What wonderful things can you do on it?
    And how is your recuperation going? Are you any nearer to considering starting to fast again? Or is it too soon?

    How are our other newbies doing this week?

    Anyways must go
    Posting about my own fast diet journey next….
    ONwards and Downwards Ladies!
    BooBooxx

    Hello All – from La Paz, Baja California, Mexico (where we live now – drove down from the land of freeze and Moose, Canada!). Well – I decided to fast every second day until I go on holiday and wouldn’t you know it ……. I haven’t lost an ounce!! Oh Well – it is hard here in Mexico to not want to go out and eat the local food but the tortillas harina are made with lard – so delicious!! Love the refried beans too – oh poop – have to stay off those babies for another 20 pounds!! I detest fish so don’t anyone suggest I could enjoy all the delicious fish one can find down here!
    Just had my BBQd chicken breast – all 4 ozs. of it – of course I had to share with the cat too!

    Hello from this very tardy participant! I am mainly posting to say hello to PreciousBooBoo – not sure how many of the others who used to be around, still are.

    I know I promised to post more regularly – I have no excuses why not; time just seems to go…

    Hopefully BooBoo is on holiday now, so may not read this for a while. I am also on a camping holiday, tho with the luxury of a caravan. Couldn’t sleep tho, which is why I am up typing this – first chance to go on the internet since we left home over a week ago.

    Re 5:2, I am still on maintenance, tho not sure what is happening with my weight since I left home. Didn’t bring scales of course, and I find that how clothes fit is not a sensitive enough measure. I did manage a fast day yesterday, the first since leaving home. Went ok. Think it was needed, cos I have been having carb overload!!! Eating a lot more bread, which I love, but normally don’t really have anymore except on special occasions…

    I still need to do 2 days of fasting each week to maintain – I find it hard to stick to TDEE on other days. My main problem is the evening munchies. My aim is to use this holiday to try to get this under control – given we are not watching TV, which is when I do tend to overeat. Not been doing as well as I had hoped tho – still overeating the chocolate…… :(. And am eating more during the day than I generally would – I find I “need” to eat when travelling as otherwise I feel nauseous… But am trying to eat “healthier” snacks…

    Anyway, enough of me. There are so many posts since my last one, that I have not attempted to read them.
    For all of you who are new to this Way Of Life/Eating, it certainly can work, but you do have to commit to it as a WOL – whatever version of it works for you. Certainly I think you need to keep some form of fasting in your eating regime; it really does seem to help the metabolism. I find that even if I put on a few lbs thru overeating, a couple of fast days will shift these (the weight gain is mainly water, in the short term).

    Best wishes to all of you on this journey. 🙂

    Cheers

    Sassy

    Hi Sassy!

    How are you doing? It’s lovely to hear from you…..eventually! You do share yourself out in short rations.

    I am very much still here and just about to post about my YEAR on the fast diet….Not a huge weight loss as you will, I hope, read but it’s my hard won weight loss so……

    Will ‘talk’ more another night – must go.
    BooBooxx

    (And ‘camping’ in a caravan….you are joking! That is the height of luxury!)

    Hello All Ladies Of A Certain Age!

    It was a year this week since I started the FAST DIET and I managed to lose a nice round figure of 20lbs.
    What! Is that all? I think some of you might be saying to yourself…..

    My weight actually went up again this week but I’m fairly sure it is the hot weather which causes me to retain even more fluid; my temperature gauge doesn’t work properly.
    When that happened I thought ‘Oh well I’m not going to reach my ‘target’ of 20lbs’ for this one year anniversary but then my husband suggested I weigh the clothes I wore when I took my weight just prior to starting the diet.

    I didn’t even have scales at that point (I had thrown them out when I hit 30.…. And said ‘I will never diet again because dieting makes you fat’….which of course turned out to be true).
    So initially I got weighed at my husband’s gym and obviously I was dressed; I had always taken two pounds off to allow for the clothes. Well I weighed them and they only weighed just over 1lb!
    So I have managed to round up my weight loss; of course now I wish the scales had given me a loss in real terms because then I might have lost 21 lbs which, of course, is one and a half stones.

    I think anyone new LOACA reading this might be downhearted, possibly thinking ’That’s not much to lose in an entire year……‘ and, of course, for the vast majority of people and LOACA’s on this forum; that would be true. But I have health issues with my thyroid which are untreated (and adrenal problems which are treated) and most people are aware, if you have thyroid problems; it is nigh on impossible to lose any weight at all. I know LOACA’s like JIP! have had a remarkable loss but her thyroid is being treated and this will undoubtedly help with her metabolism and she exercises a great deal (WEIGH TO GO JIP!).

    Thyroid problems also affect the amount of energy you have or don’t have as the case is; so this has had a direct affect on how much or little exercise I can do. I actually feel tired just reading what some folk on this forum can do on fast days and some of these are LOACA’s too.
    The only exercise I can manage is going for a brisk walk and even that, on some fast days, is a no go.

    I have stated many times that prior to starting the FD my weight was just increasing all by itself! I attribute this to a mixture of my thyroid problem and the menopause; which is much of a muchness.
    Despite the fact I was watching what and how much I ate and we bought a fair range of expensive exercise equipment, in order for me to try to get fit and lose weight. And what’s more; I used it!

    None of it worked; every time I went on holiday I gained weight and when I got home that became my ‘new weight‘. I never lost any of it when I resumed my usual exercise regime and much more circumspect eating.
    Ditto: Xmas and other celebratory occasions.

    I may have lost more weight, this last year, if I changed the type of foods I choose to eat on my non-fast days or given up weekend treats like wine; but I made a conscious decision that I didn’t want this WOE to turn into a ‘diet’ where I felt restricted and resentful about what I could and could not eat.
    There is no question; the reason I am still following it a whole year later is because, with the exception of the two fast days, it doesn’t seem like a diet at all.
    I don’t stuff my face on non-fast days but I eat the foodstuffs I always have and don’t really want to change this.

    I try not to think about people who have lost my amount of weight in a matter of months; there is no point. I did start a thread called ‘In the weight loss scales-all menopausal women are not equal’ which is self-explanatory and still holds true today.

    Things like my insomnia too have been much affected by fast dieting. It was bad anyway but when I started fasting; it just went off the scales. I can, on fast day nights, easily just lie awake all night long – as the song goes.

    But hey, apart from all that is has been a breeze!

    I would have loved to have lost at least two stones at this point; just to see my clothes looking and feeling nicer and looser but I will just keep going and I will get there.

    Whenever I mention my weight loss on this thread; I am fairly disparaging about it (because usually it is by far the lowest loss!) but actually I am proud of my hard won weight loss.

    It’s only twenty pounds but it’s my twenty pounds of ugly fat! (and no, I haven’t cut my head off….).
    It’s a miracle really that I’ve been able to lose an ounze.
    I’ve thanked Michael Mosley many times but I am going to thank him again for producing the documentary and writing the book.
    Oh, and providing us all with this wonderful forum where we can ‘talk’ to each other about our experiences of the FD.

    Next time I have a glass of wine in my hand; I’m going to drink to him.

    Onwards and Downwards!
    BooBooxx

    Here here boo boo

    BooBoo
    I am with you all the way – I am happy to fast for two days but don’t want to feel resentful on all the other days – and if I feel denied then I go over the top. 20lb is a brilliant loss, I hope I can do the same.

    CP

    Hi Karen250463

    Thank for that Karen!

    How is your Moroccan weight going? or has it already gone?

    BooBooxx

    Hi Cheesplease

    Thank you for that too!

    There is definitely a psychological element to it; with me at least. I have said ‘I am going on a diet’ in the past; had something dreary and unappetising for lunch and then cracked out the baking kit and knocked up some scones which were dispatched all in one sitting!
    (I must point out; that my husband scoffed half of the offending scones!)

    The point I am making though; is if I had had my usual tasty, appetising lunch (though nothing gastronomic) then I would have felt satisfied and I would not have dreamed of doing any baking whatsoever.
    Nor would I have gone looking for something else and/or something sweet to eat.

    I am sure you will do the same Cheeseplease; if not a lot better!

    BooBooxx

    Congratulations Precious on a whole year of perseverance. Your loss of 9.071 kg is certainly significant. You deserve the “Starting This Thread and Sticking To It Through Thick and Thin” Award. Wear it with pride. It changes colour to match whatever you are wearing at the time, so always looks good!
    Well done!!!
    Cheers PVE 🙂

    You’re welcome precious booboo. No, some of the weight is still lingering. I’ve had a bad week this week (yes I know its only Tuesday) and have had all kinda of naughty foods plus wine so don’t expect to lose this week and may even gain wee bit but not worrying too much about it.

    You should be proud of yourself losing 20 lbs, its no mean feat no matter how long it took. Way to go as our American cousins would say!

    Precious, We were on Skye for the Summer Solstice a couple of years ago. It was amazing having the sun only sink just below the horizon.
    We don’t get Scottish winters here (although it is actually snowing in the southern alps as I write) but relatively it is cold. We have trouble admitting it ever gets cold in this part of the world, so houses are not prepared for the icy winds we get if it does happen to snow in the south. At least we get sunny winter days, so, stay out of the wind in the sun, behind a window, and the weather is gorgeous.
    Spring will be here before we know it and we did have an incredibly warm autumn right up until a few weeks ago. Can’t complain.
    Enjoy your second year in this WOE zone.
    PVE

    BooBoo my trouble is I have never grown up! If someone says you can’t have it, then it brings out the fViolet Elizabeth Bott in me – and I will scream and scream and scream until I’m sick – or rather eat and eat …….well maybe not that much, but you get my drift. It’s fine if I can make my own choices but when I feel like they are imposed on me I will run the other way. That’s why a two day fast is working for me, psychologically I feel like I am in charge those two days, I don’t know why but I don’t resent the fasting at all. I also believe the fasting is good for my health – and I want to be a healthy feisty old lady!

    Hi Booboo, I have to own up, I think I know what caused my pedometer to go walkies in the night. A week or so after the first incident I woke up enough to register that I still had my pedometer in my nightshirt pocket. So tossed it out on the floor – maybe causing it to take a few steps! I’m s sad case, in the thrall of my pedometer, if I take steps not wearing it and they are not counted have I taken those steps? … sort of thing. I’ll be in trouble when the battery goes flat. This pedometer doesn’t register steps when shaken like one I was given recently as a freebie in a bag of diabetes awareness goodies.

    Good morning all LOACAs, from here in the wintry antipodes.
    Precious and Cheeseplease – I’m with you, definitely a very juvenile part of me in this 68yo body that MUST have what I’ve been told I can’t so this WOL suits me just fine. Like many others have said, I feel liberated (and intermittently hungry of course) on my fast days because I don’t have that ‘should I/shouldn’t I’ internal debate about food.
    After my B2B fasts this week, very pleased to report 800g gone up in smoke from last Wednesday’s weigh-in (that’s 1.76lb for those of you in Imperial measure land). BMI now 31.2.
    Precious, I enthusiastically support PVE’s “Starting This Thread and Sticking To It Through Thick and Thin” award for 20lb loss and more importantly, your perseverance. Congratulations!
    Thanks also for suggestion of writing in Word and then copying into the web page, will never lose another post now.
    Nicky xxx

    Hi BooBoo

    Composed my messages in iPad notes so I didn’t lose it today. I have only just reached my realistic target weight, would love to be 7 lbs lighter but I’m not a teenager any more! So I will let you know about maintaining later on, I’m going to try 6:1 at first. As I have said previously I follow a low GI way of eating, it helps to keep the rumbling tummy at bay. Like many others I snack in the evening, so I may eat crudités or about 10 whole almonds. I had trouble shifting my last few pounds and that’s where 5:2 really helped, often a change in your eating regime can help any plateau.

    Alas today I’ve had to say goodbye to Zumba, my worn left hip can’t take it anymore. Instead I’m going to try Pilates with my sister in law and do more walking around the Sussex countryside. I have a pedometer and must wear it at school to see how many steps I do a day. I remember talking to class 5 last year about hobbies/interests; I did walking and during the half term I walked 35 miles in one week. But I did make a point of going out every day.

    Hi to all the newbies and remember where ever you are on your journey there are plenty of us on this thread to offer encouragement and advice.

    Finally LOACA any advice on remedies for hot flushes? My internal stat is running off the scale at present! Ali x

    Violetmay, I wear my Fitbit all the time (a week now) and am staggered how often I move around at night and how often I get up to the bathroom!
    Just had a “big breakfast”…I’m cold and it’s an eating day.
    Egg, tomato, small amount of lean bacon, shallot and 2 slices of thick, buttered olive sourdough bread. Total calories = 651. Total output of calories this morning (been on computer inside) = 538 🙁
    How to gain weight without really trying!
    Off to hang out washing and go for a long walk in the wind.
    Cheers
    PVE

    good evening all: BooBoo must write down names because there are too many to count at this point. That is wonderul.

    Boo: congrats on the 20lbs. I know how hard won each an every one of those has been for you.

    JIP: glad we have you for the duration. Can’t lose a LOACA just because you got skinny for heaven sakes.

    Hermaj: enjoying your reminiscences of France….I am very jealous.

    PVE we have not crossed paths so much, but it is nice to meet you.

    Everyone sounds so upbeat today. It must be the turn in the weather after such a harsh winter. My condolences to those in the southern hemisphere….been there, done that. Ugh.

    Welcome to all the new ladies from one of the few LOACA from across the pond. Thintoart pops up now and then and so does ply24mp.

    I am firmly “back on the wagon” with just a few more lbs to hit a milestone for me. Slow but sure. I check in occassionally with JoJo and her bunch but those ladies leave me in the dust. Wow are they a hard working lot. I think I will cheer them on from the sidelines.

    Cheeseplease: you made me laugh with your rebellion about having “experts” telling you what to eat. I have a streak of that in me as well. Always used to feel a bit angry with meal plans desinged with silly portion sizes that seemed somehow so “unfair”. We each have to find our own “best fit”…what you find you can give up and what you need to make it worth it to you. For me I can give up the carbs and have them as a treat now and them, but draw the line at forgoing fresh fruit and the occassional glass of wine or beer. The fast or lean days allow the flexibility of eating what everybody else is having now and then. Like you said, you feel you are in control and not some sort of failure for not fitting into a narrow box someone else designed.

    I also think Boo is right on with calling it a way of life…because you are establishing something you know you can live with for the long haul and not a diet you go off of when you hit a number on the scale (and then gain it all back because short term diets never work in the long run).

    Cheers to y’all.

    Greeting LUVTCOOK
    You handle would have been mine if you hadn’t got in first. I adore cooking and find this the biggest disadvantage of not having a large family at home any more and realising the old man and I REALLY shouldn’t eat much at all.
    SO, I spend my time planning delicious low cal dishes now. I am staggered how many veg I can sneak into dishes and leave out the high carb ones.
    Had to go out and sweep, rake and water to use up enough cals to justify eating anything at lunch today. Not a fast day, but I got carried away with breakfast ;( Must do it occasionally.
    Absolutely, it has to be a way of life. Once we reach “our time of life”, we really can’t eat as much as before. I also see fasting twice a week as a way of eating other things I want later. I also rarely eat bread, pasta, rice and potatoes, but have wine 5 days a week and eat fruit and vegetables to my heart’s content.
    Nice to chat with you LUVTCOOK!
    Cheers PVE

    Hello everyone,

    I’m still around, but I’m on a computer 40 hrs a week and sometimes am just too pooped to pop. If I get behind, it can take three days to catch up!

    Congratulations Boo! on the twenty lbs.! I haven’t hit that milestone yet but I’m close. I’ve been back on the wagon since April and am doing okay. I just had a 10 day vacation, if you can call it that. I took a week off work to keep my ten year old granddaughter while her older brother was away at camp and also had the other grand kids in, so it was a lot of cooking, sweets, bread in the house, things I don’t usually keep around. So up almost three lbs., but it’s only two days in and I’ve lost almost two lbs of it. Like Sassy said, it probably wasn’t real fat (yet!) Anyway, I’m glad it’s gone.

    I’m also still going strong on the home front. I’ve cleaned cabinets, donated baby toys, done the freezer (not fun in the summertime!) and other various projects. My goal is to chuck everything that I should have already gotten rid of over the years and lighten up. This is my form of neat, pun intended.

    I get about 2400 steps in a mile. I have a treadmill that has little dots, so many per quarter mile and I measured how many steps on a certain length of space and verified my stride by that also. When I used to watch my grandchildren, they were stair step babies, breakfast could take 600 steps. I counted once. No wonder it’s easy to put on weight as our lives go on, not as much to do.

    My next goal is to get to 135 lbs., then to catch up with PVE, but, darn it, she’ll still be eight inches taller! :S

    Speedy, where are you?

    Everybody, have a good day or evening, where ever you are! xxP

    8 inches taller, Piper? I’m only 5’5″. Are you really only 4’9″ ?
    You can easily get below the 60kg mark. You are nearly there. Do a couple of 4:3s and watch what you eat on other days. It IS a thrill when you achieve it! I actually photographed my old ugly feet standing on the scales!
    It is only 4 lbs (8 packets of butter :))
    Cheers PVE

    Hi BooBoo, JIP, et al

    BooBoo – what a fantastic achievement over the past 12 months. You have stuck at it, that is what is important, despite the health issues, and this way of eating enables you to eat what you love and still lose the weight. 20lbs is fantastic!

    It was my weigh-day today and I was a bit disappointed to find I have only lost half a pound despite a particularly ‘good’ week. As you know, I have been doing the Fast Beach Diet, and this was week 5. It is a stricter version of the standard 5.2 and with the help of myfitnesspal I have meticulously logged every calorie. But that said, the clothes are still getting looser, so it could be the hot weather causing some water retention, as you say. Also, my scales need new batteries and Sainsburys are out of stock at the moment, so I am also using that excuse. My other half, who being a man, finds it easy to lose weight by eating almost twice as much as me, has also stayed the same, (so it could be the scales) but his blood pressure has dropped to its lowest for years, which says it all. Even if the weight isn’t coming off as quickly as we would like, the health benefits make it worthwhile persevering. I am hopeful of a decent loss next (my final) week, and I will then follow the standard 5.2 in the hope of losing a couple more stone, albeit more slowly.

    The holiday home purchase is at last completing tomorrow, so the next few weeks are likely to be so busy moving things in and sorting out, that we won’t have time to think about food, let alone eat it! There will also be long walks on the beach with the dogs, so we’re staying positive!

    Keep that Milestone Award handy BooBoo – I’m determined it shall be mine very soon!

    Hi to everyone else on this bandwagon. It’s a brilliant place to be and let off steam, and I am sure it is helping us all on our way to our respective goals.

    O & D ladies

    Smiffy x

    Morning all. Another gorgeous day! Feeling very positive after my first week 3lb loss and determined that THIS time I will beat the post menopausal weight gains. It does seem to get more difficult as one gets older!!! Better start by getting up I suppose. Feeling lazy today.

    Bonjour tout le monde – I’ve just completed my first two fast days – and was delighted to see that the scales had dropped by 4 lbs; I know diets usually start with the first week seeing a loss (usually water we are told) but this has given me a real boost.
    I’ve found the FDs quite difficult but knowing I can eat up to my TDEE the next day is a real incentive. I did note that when I woke the day after the second FD I felt a bit nauseous (reminded me of those long ago days of ‘morning sickness’) but after a breakfast of weetabix and strawberries I felt much better and enjoyed the rest of the day.
    I did try the FD at the end of last year but then the plan said that on days that you weren’t fasting ‘to eat normally’ – I wasn’t sure then if that meant normally as in up to 2000 calories (the amount the ‘average’ woman needs) or what? Now we can work out our TDEE I feel more in control and can enjoy my ‘off’ days up to 1620 calories which sounds wonderful.
    Reading your posts and seeing that there are lots of LOACA who have been following the diet for quite some time, and obviously sticking to it, is a real boost – you all sound LOVELY LOACA!

    Congratulations BooBoo and Good morning everyone.
    BooBoo 1.1/2 stone ( who is going to worry about that measly pound) is what I wanted to lose at various times all my adult life. The times I have followed every diet going and given up well before the quarter of the year was most up. It is 5-2 WOE that got you there this time and I feel sure you will stay with it until you are telling us all you are down to the weight you are happy with. We are here for you like you have been there for us keeping us going by name making us feel we are worth it. (As the advert says).
    Wilbersnanna and cheeseplease I used to live in Gosport and Portsmouth back in the late 60’s and early 70’s I loved it too. My son was borne in Gosport a small nursing home, I was married to a sailor Royal Navy.
    Hello ALIH61. I was saying yesterday I am think I am going to try Aqua Zumba have you got that your area? I have found a better venue now too it is Thursday and 11am so I can get there by bus easier. Hope you find one too.
    Hello LizaW. welcome now Mexico is somewhere I will get to one day.
    Hi Smiffy welcome to the land of our fathers (it’s a welsh song)
    I am going to make a nice cup of coffee I am not fasting today and playing bowls later so hoping to keep within eating zone of fancying something and knowing that I can have it. It’s been a long time coming, but I know 5-2 is the way to keep me at goal.
    Happy fasting or non as the case me JIP

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