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  • Good morning! @markie99, congrats on approaching your goal! You must feel so great! Tomorrow begins my second week of 5:2. This past week, I fasted Monday, Thursday and then decided to do it again yesterday. I had a decadent dinner Friday night and feel so great after a fast day, I just thought I would try a 4:3.
    I also watched a documentary called Forks Over Knives which was amazing! I highly recommend it. My mom died of cancer almost 4 years ago and I have been on a mission of trying to get healthier ever since. My doctor told me my mom’s leiomyosarcoma wasn’t hereditary, but women that had extra weight on, especially in their middle, were more likely to get cancer and/ or heart disease. It wasn’t a predictor, they/we just have a higher chance.
    Anyway, after watching Michael Mosely’s report, it has sprurred me on to learn more. So, I haven’t gotten on the scale today yet, but as of Friday, it looked like 3 pounds, we’ll see. I feel so good today it doesn’t matter. My goal is to lose 40 pounds and I know I am just a little closer…slow and steady wins the race…slow and steady wins the race…my new mantra! Lol Carpe Diem!

    I do think when you have diabetes around the corner, you really come to the conclusion that this is not an issue of vanity
    but rather health. I am trying to gather as much info as I can. I plan to watch the Dr.Fung videos- thanks Nuttin.

    @sylvestra, congratulations on your loss!! And good luck to you and @picaza on your 4:3 this week.

    Thank you @heidihutch. This group is so great for inspiration, motivation and support.

    @applecrisp, I agree, good to get as much info as possible. I wasn’t exactly pre-diabetic when I started this WOE, but I was afraid I was pre pre-diabetic, if you know what I mean. I don’t want to go there, so hoping 5:2 will helping me stabilize and maintain my weight as well as help me avoid future health issues.

    hi I’ve just joined the site, and am in my 3rd week of this. I was able to come back to work after the 2 week xmas break weighing less than before – which isn’t common!

    I’m almost 51, not yet peri-menopausal according to a blood test at the end of November. I’ve had PCOS and androgenisation since my teens but thankfully not type2 diabetic which often follows on after 30 odd years of it undiagnosed. I’m happy for a slow weightloss if the other things are good (it improves insulin resistance, and my cholesterols stay great).

    Hi! Aria, I really empathize with your circumstances as mine are similar. I too am 51 and sometimes I can’t believe it.
    I think it’s great that one of your biggest reasons for starting this diet is for your health. Slow and steady and GOOD LUCK.

    Hi loacas, we seem to be doing well post holiday. After 2 fasts I’m back to my pre Christmas weight YAY! Even better I bought a size 10 straight skirt yesterday. Still 10 pounds off my goal. Any hints on how to shift the last pounds. The only thing I really don’t want to do is add another fast day. What exercise works well? I am a post menopausal 53 year old. I went through surgical menopause at age 48. I don’t have many symptoms but I do wonder if lack of hormones makes shifting the last bit of weight harder. I’ve been messing with this last 10 pounds for about 3 months :(.

    Hi all, I haven’t posted in a while…I also post in the Downunders thread and was finding it difficult to keep up with both. I was also forgetting who belonged where and what I had already posted and where did I post it :D)

    I am going along Ok with 5:2, not losing heaps but feeling in control which I love. I probably have to take more account of what I eat on the 5 days but am reluctant to do the full calorie count thing because I know I will eventually lose motivation and drop the whole thing. I am just a tad over 5ft, 68, and rather sedentary so low BMR, TDEE and sadly high BMI. Anyway I am slowly reducing in size and hopeful that the trend continues.

    Hello lovely ladies! (I like the extra L too) πŸ™‚

    I have been back from my travels for almost a week, but it has taken me this long to find time to read all the posts that have happened in my absence. It is great to see such an active topic, and especially so many new starters, who seem to be doing very well. (Also good to see everyone else back too, and back on the wagon!!) Keep up the great work and here’s wishing us all a great year for this WOL (and everything else). πŸ˜€

    I think I am one of the lloacas who has been following this WOE for a while (9 months), and 5:2 has certainly worked for me. As some of you know, I am 55yo, went thru menopause in my late 40’s. I lost 18kg (40lbs, almost 3 stone) by Christmas (after 36 weeks) and am now at the “ideal weight” (as defined by the web link that was provided in an earlier post). I now have BMI of 21, and 23% body fat.

    On my journey, I had lots of little plateaus – ie for 2-3 weeks there would be little change in the measurements, then the next week 1-2kgs will have gone. I weigh weekly, as I am not a good judge of whether I have put on or lost small amounts of weight without the assistance of the scales – for me, clothes are not a sensitive enough measure.

    Compared to many, I do seem to have had a dream run with this WOE with regard to weight loss (I don’t know about other bio markers, cos I have not had any measured, and don’t intend to unless I have a health concern), and have been thinking if I can add any advice to all the wonderful info and tips given by others in this topic.

    I am struggling to think of anything new!

    Keeping under 500cal on the fast days did seem to be important and, like many others, I find it easiest to not eat until the evening meal, which I usually have as 2 courses – fish or chicken and lots of veg, followed by good quality no fat (no added sugar either) yoghurt and berries. I drink lots of black tea, fruit tea, and a cup or two of black coffee – I am fortunate that I always had tea and coffee black no sugar.

    I don’t do exact calorie counting on non-fast days, but I have a broad awareness of the calorific value of most foods so generally keep a rough count of what I am consuming, but not always… Certainly not over the festive season…!!! Tho I have managed to maintain my weight pretty well over that period, despite a lot of indulgence – but I was also more active than usual.

    I have stuck with 5:2 most of the time, with the occasional 4:3, tho I am not sure the 4:3 worked for me – it does make me feel deprived and I tend to overeat on the non-fast days. But I know many do this, or ADF, very successfully. I have also tried 16:8, which was ok for a while, but I have decided that I missed cereal and milk in the morning, and have reincorporated that on non-fast days without any problems.

    We eat very plainly, and I rarely bake, so not a lot of nice foods around to tempt – chocolate is my weakness, and I am having less of it, but still manage to eat a reasonable amount…

    I have reduced the amount of white carbs I eat, tho still love bread and cakes and do have these from time to time. I rarely eat rice (stir fries and curries are fine without) and have replaced pasta with thinly cut and lightly steamed cabbage, as suggested elsewhere – in fact, instead of pasta, I just have lots of steamed veggies and a small amount of the sauce. Tastes better and more filling!

    I am not overly active – walk the dogs for 45mins down and up hills every day, but that’s about it. I do a few exercises for my knee, which had ACL reconstruction 3 months ago (so there were 2 months when I did very little exercise, while recuperating).

    I think my personal circumstances have helped a lot – ie I have always had good health and, since giving up paid work just over a year ago, have had a lot less stress in my life… I barely noticed menopause. I do have a comfortable life…

    Hmm, not sure if any of that will be of help… As I said, I do seem to have had it very easy. I did have clear goals as I approached my ideal weight – eg to fit into “that” dress for my son’s high school graduation, which really made me focus. Others have suggested that lots of mini-goals on the way are useful.

    And of course I had this forum! I only found the forums once I had been following 5:2 for about 6 months, and reading about everyone else’s experiences, plus all the tips, really helped me keep on track.

    So I guess my advice is – work out what works for you, be flexible when needed, don’t get obsessive (!), stick with it, and continue to use the forum for seeking and providing help and support.

    Very best wishes to all lloacas, and all who are following this WOL.
    Sassy πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

    PS Hi PreciousBooBoo – how’s the year starting for you in your new home? How’s the sleeping…?

    Just a quick check in. Good luck to anyone fasting today. @sassy, so interesting to read about your experiences on 5:2. Reading about your routines is helpful, especially since you have been doing 5:2 for so long.

    Today I will do 16:8, and if I get hungry mid-morning, I will have (another) cup of tea and think of this group of lovely ladies.

    Sassy, lots of good tips and info. I fasted yesterday and it does get a little easier each time. My 4th day of the fast, last april I fasted awhile but in a different manner and gave up.

    I am telling myself I will get better at fasting and find what works for me. Also I am counting on eating less on non-fast days. Already I feel my appetite has decreased on those days. So it is a progression, a marathon rather than a sprint
    and there is a sense of accomplishment with each fasting day.

    Dr. Mosely saw this as an experiment on his docs and I am trying to do the same. Hunger isn’t a pleasant feeling but I
    heve rarely dealt with it. I am now trying to embrace it. After all many around the world face it every day.

    I really like your comment “trying to embrace it” hunger that is! Isn’t it all just so mental!? Yesterday was my 1st fast day and it went very well, definitely some stomach growling but nothing sever. Sounds kind of crazy, but I’m looking forward to my next fast and embracing my hunger.
    Best wishes!

    Hey, I am going to “embrace my hunger too”!!! I have noticed that the hunger pangs go away after a while and a glass of water often helps. I had a fast day yesterday which went quite well, I think I overdid my measly 333 calorie limit with our evening meal but not by too much. I find fasting from after dinner on 2 non consec nights to breakfast 36 hours later works best for me, if I eat during the day, I want to continue to eat.

    Hi ladies. I fell off the wagon just before Thanksgiving, and decided not to worry about things until the New Year. So, it’s the New Year. I’ve been doing the 5:2 fast since January, in addition to keeping my nonfast days around 1270 calories. not quite 2 weeks into things and on the 7th I was so hungry. LOL. Ate about 1500 calories that day and then jumped right back on the wagon. yay me. Still want to start exercising but that’s my next “goal.”

    In the US, Swanson’s makes a Hot n Sour soup broth (in the same aisle as beef and chicken broth). And I discovered Shiratake “noodles”. I tell you what, 1 Cup of the soup has a mere 20 calories and the noodles have ZERO calories and ZERO carbs. Seriously!

    I weigh and measure everything, log it into FitDay. I’m kind of learning how much of what I can have, and then I tweak the amounts/ingredients, etc. as the day progresses. My ratios are 70% fat, 24% protein, 6% carbs 7 days a week. One night I found myself drinking hot cocoa made with 1/2 and 1/2 and cream, and added in about 3 grams of coconut oil to bring my ratios in line. can we say yum?

    I’m 55 yrs old, 5′ 5″ and on January 1 I weighed just a tick over 160 pounds. Today, January 14, I weigh just a tick under 160. LOL. Baby steps, right?

    ronna, was the very low carb diet hard at first, I really love carbs. Just keep us posted. My bedtime snack is almond milk(original) with cocoa powder 1 heaping teaspoon with stevia. It’s really good esp. this time of year.

    Hello again. Like Sassy, I don’t worry about calorie-counting on non-fast days. I don’t eat between meals (the 500-calorie fast days seem to have reduced my appetite after 10 weeks). I only have one slice of wholemeal / multigrain bread a day (at breakfast) and 2 Cruskits (an Australian crispbread) at lunch and hardly ever have potatoes. I have a sweet tooth and still have something sweet (and preferably home-baked) with a cup of tea at lunchtime most non-fast days. I usually curb my desire for dessert after dinner with pieces of fruit (mostly watermelon, apple, paw paw, rockmelon) or cherries. I find that I now prefer plain food every day – palm-sized portions of steak, chicken, or fish – plus salad or steamed vegetables and my husband doesn’t mind a plainer diet as well. Occasionally we enjoy a tomato-based pasta dish or a stir-fry with noodles, but only about once a month. I enjoyed a fish, chips and salad lunch with a friend
    last week and still lost 1.4 kg (just over 3 pounds). My friend ate her whole plateful, but I couldn’t finish mine (I ate all the beer-battered fish,
    though!). I’ll be 59 in February and have lost 7 kg (just over 15 pounds or a stone) since November (still another 26 kg to go). Yesterday I discovered one of the health benefits of the 5:2 plan for the first time: my blood pressure dropped from 159/91 six weeks ago to 137/89. It has gone down from Stage 1 Hypertensive to Pre-Hypertensive. Hopefully, in another couple of months, it will be down to normal range.

    @ Applecrisp:
    Yes, going low-carb was different, that’s for sure. I started that – gosh – 5 years ago, when I was encouraged to try a “Paleo” diet by my personal trainer. then I stumbled on a HighFat LowCarb group on yahoo and I lost 20 pounds in about 5 months when I switched to that WOE. But then I stopped “counting” and ate more carbs than I knew I should, too. So since January 2 I’ve been carefully counting everything and since stumbling on this 5:2 WOE concept, am anxious to see what happens by the end of the month, incorporating it with my HFLC WOE.

    I don’t know that I really suffered too many side effects from going low carb, however. I know that for 18 months I worked in a high-stress office and I regularly drank 3 raw egg yolks and 1 big spoonful of coconut oil with cocoa powder sweetened with Splenda. That’s virtually a carb-less lunch, quick and inexpensive to boot. I know now that when I consume too many carbs at once (sandwich, cake, etc) I get a horrible case of the drowsies!

    Good morning lovely LOACAs πŸ™‚
    Today is going to be a great day. After my disappointment last week I can report a weight loss of just under 6 pounds this week. 6 pounds! I knew I must have lost something but I am absolutely amazed. Not only is there less of me but I feel like a different person with better energy levels than I have had for years.
    Tomorrow will be fast day number 5. Bring it on.

    Linda πŸ˜€

    I know there are a lot of cat-lovers out there. Someone just drew my attention to this, and it made me laugh out loud. I also think this particular moggy would do well to consider joining the 5:2 brigade.

    http://theoatmeal.com/comics/cat_vs_internet

    Hello LLOACAs! Just a little update from me. I seem to have reached my first plateau – have been bouncing around the same kilo for about 10 days now, up and down, up and down… However, I started today’s Fast Day a little lower than I’ve been for a few days, so hoping that within a day or two the scales will be hitting a new low. I love seeing weights that go below what previous ones were! I’m back around the weight I was three years ago, before I went in for the last and most major of the brain surgeries. I’ve still got a long way to go to get to where I want to be, but 6 kilos in two months makes me very happy!

    One small milestone for me today: I’m wearing a pair of jeans! I haven’t worn jeans for at least 3 years, probably longer, but the cotton trousers I’ve been living in for the last few years are all starting to get somewhat loose. Not quite unwearable yet, but they will be soon if I bounce off this plateau! So it was time to raid the drawer of jeans and trousers that are still in great condition but used to be too tight…

    As well as 5:2, another thing that should help my health, weight and fitness is our new puppy! Pippin is now 13 weeks old, a wheaten-coloured border collie. We have two older border collies already, but adding a third one to the family means more exercise for me! My husband does the energetic stuff – 7km walks and runs with the middle, super-fit dog, but I exercise the puppy and our old girl. I’m still nowhere near back to the fitness I’d like to be, but with twice-daily walks, plus games, I’m out and about more than I was.

    The weather here is much hotter than we usually get, with no cool in sight for quite some days. I’ve been going well today, but have to say that the temptation of the mini icecream in the freezer is tugging at me. It would put me about 40 cals over my 500 for the day if I give in. I shall try to resist… I shall try to resist…

    Hi loacas, congrats to all on a good week, especially Linda with that 6 lb. Loss. I can only say that I stuck to the plan, added a curves workout and lost a measly 1 oz. I know I shouldn’t get discouraged as this is a long term thing but I do admit to being a tad disappointed.

    @luv fasting

    Nooooooooo! Please don’t be discouraged. My first week’s loss was a BIG FAT ZERO. Not even an ounce. I was gutted to say the least :’-( Stick with it – it’ll shift.

    Linda x

    G’day Lloacas. I know that disappointment of zero loss after being a very good girl for a whole week. It sucks. But you know, I’m in it for the long haul. The plan is to fast regularly for the rest of my life even when I don’t need to lose weight anymore. It helps me to think like that.

    I saw the physio yesterday and got a gold star and a koala stamp for my 10kg weight loss. I got some help with exercise and posture and a new mind-set. The physio said his job is to push the hip replacement way out into the future. He wants to help me improve strenght and muscle tone so that I can keep my natural joints working as long as possible.

    So today I really get serious about shifting the last 10kg of excess me, and that means getting back in the pool, and spending some money on a new pair of walking shoes and a pedometer. 10,000 steps every day from now on …

    Hello ladies!
    Congratulations to everyone who has shifted some weight and also to those moving in that direction by following this WOE.

    Looking back on this week, I didn’t do as well as I’d hoped, and no loss to report. Actually gained a pound. Somehow something unexpected involving food seemed to come up each day and although I was able to accomplish 16:8 on some days, my fast days fizzled out. Working long hours, leaving for work very early in the dark and coming home very late in the dark, cold miserable weather, snow, sleet, slippery roads, not being able to take a walk outside – I’ve got a lot of excuses, lol, for the comfort eating I did in the evenings.

    Here’s to a better weekend and week ahead. I’m reminding myself of our vacation in March, and how good it will feel to be at a lower weight. I would love to be able to wear capris and cute tops (to say nothing of a bathing suit) and feel good wearing them. Re-dedicating myself to losing the seven pounds that will get me to my goal.

    Best wishes to everyone – reading your stories and comments are a huge help to me and I appreciate you all.

    I can sympathise, Markie99. The pattern of my weight-loss journey on the 5:2 plan, to paraphrase the late Neil Armstrong, is “one giant leap (forwards) for (Wo)Man, one small step (backwards) for a (wo)man.” Last week I lost 1.4 kg (3.1 lbs) and this week I gained 0.3 kg (10.6 ounces or 5/8 of a pound). I always feel more motivated when the scales go down, of course, but I’m committed to this eating plan and have already experienced some of the predicted health benefits.

    Thanks for the support @gomarg. Love your description of your weight loss journey! I have done the giant leap forward, just have to be sure to minimize those small steps backwards. SMALL steps forward are fine with me though, because there is no chance I will give up 5:2. Lets plan to report a loss at this time next week!

    Hang in there, Markie99 & Gomarg! I, too, have had a couple of weeks of no reduction on the scale and, I will admit, an inconsistent schedule which makes adhering to the 5:2 a challenge. It feels like now that I’ve hit my new low (140.2 lbs), my body needed to take a little while to adjust to it before moving on, and I’ve been hovering in the 140 point something to 141 range. I’ve increased my exercise quite a bit, but even that didn’t result in my normal pound or so a week loss these past couple of weeks. I am trying to be content and patient, knowing that things will kick in again soon. This particular weight has been, for the last 8 years, the one I have not been able to get below, so I am particularly motivated to see it through and stay loyal to this WOE. My Tuesday weigh in should be interesting; I’ve spent the weekend with my best friend back in snowy, cold MN and although I’ve eaten mindfully, I certainly have not done any fasting. This is one of the things I love about the 5:2; it’s just a constant flow of eating in a particular way, and you can monitor and adjust as your life requires. Hanging out with someone “on a diet” is really tiresome, but this is so flexible that no one even has to know that I am on a weight loss plan. (Although my dear friend does, and she has been very complimentary about my 16 lb. weight loss!) I look forward to a good fast tomorrow when I’m back on home territory, and I’ll check in on the scale the following day. Hopefully, in the next week or two, I’ll be able to crack that number and finally go BELOW my newest low. Reading everyone’s comments about their journeys keeps me committed and encouraged!

    Thank you for the encouragement @sharatl! I have had a hard time getting below 140 as well. I am hovering around 142-143 right now and my goal is to get down to 135, just because I seem to feel my best at that weight. After a not very good week, I am feeling strong this weekend, and excited for the week ahead. Looking forward to being committed to 5:2 and seeing a loss of some kind at the end of the week.

    Met a friend for brunch today (had fruit and low fat yogurt, yay!) and she noticed that I had lost weight. I told her about 5:2 and although she didn’t think she could do a 500 calorie day, she did acknowledge that it seemed like a great plan to for long term success.

    It was kind of fun to talk about 5:2 and explain 16:8 without the other person being horrified, lol.

    Fast day for me tomorrow – best wishes to everyone who is fasting and to all those following this great WOE. Cheers!

    @markie99 …if I had Β£1 for every one of the number of people I have heard saying ‘oh I couldn’t just eat 500 calories a day, I’d starve!!’ as an argument against 5:2!! usually followed with ‘that can’t possibly be good for you’.
    But all credit to your friend for not dissing it out of hand and actually listening to you.

    Good luck to all Monday fasters ….fast and lose!!! x

    Hi, I have read several posts from people who get discouraged with no or very little weight loss after a week. This is precisely why I decided at the very beginning not to weigh often. I have only weighed twice in more than 5 months and had lost 10 pounds after 10 weeks and then 8 after eight weeks. THAT was very gratifying to me and made me feel wonderful. If I’d weighed during those stretches there might have been weeks with no loss or even a gain. THAT would have been discouraging. I know now that this plan is working for me and I’m happy on both the eat and fast days so I don’t see any reason to keep checking on my progress.
    I think weighing every eight weeks will work for me. Meanwhile, I am both surprised and encouraged that this plan has worked so well and that I have been able to stay on it for this long with not a single time when I even considered stopping. I’m in this for the long haul and plan to eat this way for the rest of my life. Maybe, eventually, I could fast once a week instead of twice but that’s likely a long way off. So, to everyone of us, keep it up and don’t get distracted or discouraged by a slow or off week here and there!!!

    I’ve done 3 weeks and am still at the starting point, but I’m continuing until I get some blood test results in March. I figure it can’t harm me, and after the first couple of weeks the fast days aren’t a hassle.

    Those of you not seeing weight loss at weekly weigh-ins, please don’t be too discouraged. I weigh myself daily, and it’s amazing the fluctuations that occur over a week – sometimes a kilo (2.2 pounds) or more up in a day. I know daily weighing doesn’t suit everyone, but for me its educational, and now I don’t get frustrated when the scales go upwards. Sometimes it’s fluid, sometimes it’s to do with constipation, sometimes it’s because I ate a lot – on the bad days it can be all three! But the next day is usually down a bit, and although I yo-yo around, I’m gradually going down more often than up.

    Saturday was the lowest I’ve been since starting 5:2, at 94.2 kilos. Today, starting a fast day, I weighed in at 94.6. I’d really like to see a number starting with 93 this week sometime, but we’ll have to wait and see!

    An unexpected effect of losing 6.5 kilos – my bra cups are too big! I always thought the weight around the upper-waist would be the hardest to shift, but I’ve lost 2″ from my underbust, and almost 4 from my bust. And it’s not as though I had a huge bust – I’m going to have to delve through my drawers to see if I can find some old B-cup bras, as the C’s are getting too loose. Now, if only I could lose that many inches from my butt…!

    I’ve lost 0kg after 3 weeks, as has happened to others who went on to lose weight. So I’m not discouraged at this point.

    I enjoy reading all the posts. I have just started my 3rd week, so today was a fast day. I have found that have very few calories during the day, 70 calls, leaves me a huge 430 for dinner. Tonight I overate!! Not calorie wise but by just choosing vegetables and lean chicken, I had a really big plate of food, more than I normally eat! So I think I may have to modify that. Seems ridiculous to be overeating on a fast day.

    Don’t be discouraged, @arla. Perhaps you may need to be more calorie-conscious on your non-fast days. Maybe it would help to calculate your TDEE (Total Daily Energy Expenditure). Here’s a link to the information: http://thefastdiet.co.uk/how-many-calories-on-a-non-fast-day/
    @bronwyn, I know what you mean about the weight fluctuations. That’s why I shifted my weigh-in day from Tuesday to Saturday. I found that after two fast days and one “normal” day, I get a better representation of the week’s progress (either forwards or backwards or stuck). After losing 7 kg (from 93 kg to 86), I have also gone down a bra-size (from 20C to 18C – still not a B-cup – must be a loss of back fat!). My weight loss started at my face and worked its way down. When I took my second lot of measurements after 6 weeks, the only place where I hadn’t lost any centimetres was on my calves. I just did a quick
    measure of them and they have gone down by 2.5 cm (about an inch).
    @maybellew, you must be very strong-minded and patient to resist weighing
    yourself for so long – only twice in 5 months. I have such a long way to go
    before I reach my goal weight (another 26 kg or 57 pounds at least), I feel the need to see results on the scales every week to keep me motivated. I am determined to stay on the 5:2 plan indefinitely, for the weight-loss prediction at the moment and for the health benefits and optimum weight-maintenance long-term.

    @gomarg – been there done that before my very first fast day. I’m not cutting down further on my non-fast days. I know my metabolism was affected last year when I spent 5 months living on steamed fish, stone fruit or berries and pickles. It was all my evil gallbladder would allow (literally nothing else from 18Nov to 10Apr, including xmas & ny) and even then I only lost 3kg in 5 months & it all came back as soon as I could eat again.

    Looking at the forums I’m not the first person who lost nothing for a few weeks, and even if my loss is so slow that it only works out at 5kg a year, that’s still better than nothing.

    Sorry if I was at all terse Gomarg, but you really pushed my buttons of being judged unfairly for the past 30 years.

    My specialist was the first person who didn’t assume I overate to get this way. PCOS and a genetic androgen disorder make it very difficult to lose weight. I spent 7 years walking 30miles/5km a week and eating the right low GI diet and lost nothing. However I have always had great blood test results for things like sugars and cholesterol.

    I entered the City to Surf one year (14km race) and didn’t train as I already walked 7km a day. I easily beat the 10 year younger, size 8 & 10 gym junkies from work despite being 93kg and they never ever once again suggested that I go to the gym at lunchtime. Fat doesn’t always equal unfit or overeater.

    @viwd …it’s amazing just how much food you can have for 500 cals isn’t it. You don’t HAVE to eat 500 cals though, that’s just an upper figure based on 25% of the ‘average’ TDEE for a woman (2000 cals). My TDEE is 1585 so 25% of that is just under 400 cals and some fast days I don’t even eat that much as I don’t eat calorie dense carbs on those days.

    The best advice I ever heard is …. if you are not hungry – don’t eat. When you feel full – stop eating. When you think you are hungry it’s probably thirst, have a glass of water.

    @bronwyn ..how I wish I had your ‘bra problem’ I have always hated my big boobs and although I have lost 6 inches from my under bust,the difference between that and my full bust measurement, i.e. actual boob size, has stayed the same. I bought some bras in a smaller band but the same cup size. It’s so annoying as the thinner I get (I’ve lost 47lbs total) the bigger my, not inconsiderable, bust looks.

    Hello, All–

    I have so enjoyed catching up with everyone’s comments. Markie99, I had a similar experience with friends and family while visiting in Minnesota this weekend; the same ones who seemed alarmed at the idea of my ‘starving’ myself and swore they could never do it are now thinking twice about the 5:2 when they hadn’t seem me for a bit and noticed my slow, steady weight loss, and how ‘normal’ my approach to eating is. It was fun to talk about it with them, and underscore the point that this is NOT a diet, and that it is a long-term (and for me, I’m expecting it to be a permanent) approach to achieving and managing an optimum weight as I head into middle age. (Okay, I’ve been ‘middle aged’ for a while now, unless I expect to live to be 110 or so; I guess I mean into ‘later middle age’.) And, one exciting thing happened that I have to share with my LOACAs. I make regular trips back to Minnesota every 6-8 weeks to spend time with family and friends there. Inevitably, it is a very social 3 or 4 days, involving meeting up with friends for lunch or drinks at my favorite Minneapolis restaurants, gathering for a big family dinner, and staying up late with my best friend (with whom I stay) for one last glass of wine and a good chat before turning in. It’s always a wonderful, fun time there, but inevitably I come home up at least a pound or two, (or three!) which I have to work to peel off again once I’m back in my usual routine. BUT–for the first time ever, I came back weighing LESS than when I left! I flew out on Thursday and returned last night, and when I did a little ‘check-in’ weigh-in first thing this morning to assess the situation and set some goals for myself this week, I was down to 139.8!! (I had been at 141 when I left on Thursday.) Not only had I not put on weight–even temporary weight–while doing all the things I love to do, I managed to eke out my first ‘under 140’ weight! (Yes, I think by just 2/10ths of a pound counts, don’t you?) It has been ages since I’ve seen a ‘3’ in that spot on the scale–what a welcome–and motivating sight! The best thing is that I didn’t feel at all deprived during my visit; I just incorporated my new habits into my weekend. Yes, I drank a little less wine, and ordered the fish for lunch and snacked on a few nuts when I felt some hunger pangs, but it all felt very satisfying and NORMAL. So, today I’m back to my regular life with a fast day ahead of me and my ‘official’ weekly weigh-in tomorrow, and I could not feel better about it. My new goal is to hang on to some version of that ‘3’ I saw on the scale this morning, as my body settles into a slightly smaller version of itself. Good luck to every one who is doing this wonderful thing for themselves; each one of us is worth these efforts, and I so commend those of you who are undiscouraged event though the results have not yet appeared on the scale. Your patience and commitment, often in the face of serious health challenges that make weight loss a real struggle, inspire me. Some of us have a stone to lose, and some of us have a good bit more, but we are all in this together, with similar goals–health, and a feeling of happy well-being as we move through the world in these marvelous bodies of ours. Cheers to us, Ladies! Have a great Monday.

    Love it!

    What a great and motivating story @sharatl! Loved reading it, and so happy for you. Good luck to all those fasting today and to those on a NFD as well.

    Hello All Lovely Ladies Of A Certain Age!

    I too love the extra L NickyB!

    Have been really busy with our new home and just haven’t had time to even sneak a peek at what you are all saying. Most Lloaca’s seem to be losing their Xmas pounds fairly easily; so it’s all good.

    Through extremely stategic weighing over yuletide; I managed to only gain 1/2 lb!! And I lost some of that last week! However weight gain, like weight loss, with me takes time to consolidate; so it could be I gained more than this and it is just taking it’s time to ‘show up’.
    Whatever, it will go when it goes.

    Ages ago now Jaybee; you said some kind words about me always trying to respond to all the new members of this thread and some of the ‘old timers’ too – thank you for that.
    I did try to respond to a lot of the posts because I started the thread and feel some ‘ownership’ of it; so I attempted to sort of ‘host it’ as some other fast dieters do but it’s just got too big for me to do that. Which is great because it proves there was a need for ladies in our special age group to communicate with each other and swop stories etc.
    Please don’t think however anyone that I didn’t know I was totally incidental to the success of the thread; I am totally cognisant of that!

    So I’ll just give myself permission to dip in and out like yourselves!

    There is one bugbear I would like to flag up; I think if you post something you should always have a check to see if someone else has taken the time to specifically respond to you and answer them too! We are usually all busy ladies and if someone has taken the time to read and post a response to your comments then it’s really nice to acknowledge that.

    Anyways Hello Sassy! Good to see you back from your sojourn.
    Next time I log in I will check you out on your blog! and we’ll have a proper catch up.

    Onwards and downwards ladies!

    Thank you, JoolsB55 & Markie99, for your encouraging comments. And at my weekly Tuesday weigh-in this morning, I was happy to see that the ‘3’ in my new weight was not a fluke; it showed up again! (As in ‘139.4’). Having said that, yesterday’s fast was a MAJOR challenge after 7 pm…followed by a restless night of interrupted sleep, which didn’t help. At 2 a.m., I was SO close to getting up, marching down to the kitchen and seeing if my husband had polished off the bag of nacho chips that evening, but I managed to resist. (Okay, I took half of a sleeping pill, hoping to avoid the temptation and my growling stomach.) It worked, but not easily; that ‘3’ was hard-earned! Better luck tonight I guess. Looking forward to a big, hot bowl of chicken soup for dinner; even Atlanta is going through a nasty cold snap today! Stay warm up there in the Heartland, Markie99! Looks like I left MN just in time. πŸ™‚

    @precious BooBoo, so nice to see you. You are the originator of a great thread – one of my very favorites, and the only one I post to. Glad you are doing well.

    @sharatl, you did indeed leave MN just in time – it’s minus 6 degrees F here in my part of Wisconsin right now, but it’s ok – tomorrow the high will be 16, although that will probably come and go while I’m at work, lol. Happy that the coveted “3” remains – good for you.

    Best wishes to everyone and to me too – I will be fasting tomorrow.

    Hi everyone, and esp good to see PreciousBooBoo on line again. πŸ™‚ (Thought you’d be busy with the new house!)

    I also contribute to the Southern Hemispherites, with the similar “problem” that there are just so many posts it is impossible to keep up. I also like to try to respond to new topics if I feel I have something to offer – and sometimes that means that I end up not reading these popular strands for a while, and so get behind yet again…

    I certainly take PBB’s point about acknowledging those who respond to a post, so my apologies to Markie99, Applecrisp and Gomarg for not doing so sooner. Hope I didn’t miss anyone…

    So much I could comment on; but will add my two cents worth to the boob size issue! It seems, based on people’s reports, that when we lose weight we seem to fall into one of two categories – either no weight loss from boobs, or all weight loss from boobs – no happy medium!! I have lost more weight from my boobs than anywhere else – almost 10″, compared to 6″ from waist, and 8″ from hips… It’s ironic really, because when I was younger I had a breast reduction… I really don’t want to lose any more from up top, but tummy and thighs could certainly do with more trimming… Tho it seems like most of us are never totally happy with our shape…

    Anyhow, keep up the great work everyone!
    Cheers
    Sassy πŸ˜€

    @sassy … you are so right. So many of us feel our boobs are the wrong size. Us ‘big’ girls want to be smaller and the ‘little’ ones want to be bigger πŸ˜€

    One of the ‘problems with being ‘big’ (I need a ‘G’ cup), being a LLOACA and losing weight is that gravity really takes over. The chest and back fat that kinda held things ‘up’ is going, with the result that things are moving south πŸ˜€

    I was laughed out of the doctor’s surgery more than once in the past when I asked if something could be done because my boobs make my back and shoulders hurt and I have a deep groove in each shoulder from years of my bra straps cutting in.

    The first time it was a male doctor about 40 years ago who literally ‘ogled’ and said ‘I can’t see what you’re complaining about so you have to live with them’.

    Another time – probably about 20 years ago – was a female, flat as an ironing board, who said ‘lots of people would love to have a bigger bust but we can’t all have what we want. It’s not like it’s that important’.

    There have been other times over the years when I met with the same attitude. No-one gave any consideration to the psychological effect as well as the pain and I was made to feel I was just wasting their time. When that happens you just stop asking πŸ™

    A few weeks ago I had to see a doc for something else and my usual (male) doc wasn’t available. She and I spoke about weight loss etc and I told her what had happened in the past and she was horrified. The upshot is that she told me to lose another stone (14lbs) and come back and she will refer me to a surgeon who may be able to do a reduction.

    Whether it will happen or not – the surgeon may think I’m too old (67) although the doc says it shouldn’t be an issue – time will tell. I have another 6lbs to lose before I go and find out.

    Wish me luck, if this can happen it will be a 40 years dream come true. If it doesn’t at least I’ll know that after 40 years someone finally listened to me.

    xx

    Hey Sylvestra πŸ™‚

    How demeaning for you to not be listened to for all those years! Things sound a lot more promising now tho – if you are in good health, I would hope there is no reason why you shouldn’t have the breast reduction. Be prepared for some lovely bruising initially, and there may be scarring that doesn’t disappear, but once the initial healing has happened, the comfort and the look when dressed will be fantastic and well worth it.

    I certainly understand how you feel about your breast size. Even GG didn’t fit me properly, but I should have been told to lose weight first to see if I really did need the operation. Although I was very happy to not have the humongous boobs, the operation did mean that I could not fully breastfeed (I was not informed of this consequence) and that was a big disappointment to me. Not a concern at 67!!!

    I certainly wish you luck; and with those last few lbs too.
    All the best
    Sassy πŸ™‚

    Hello LLOACAs!
    I don’t normally have a reason to respond here (given I am only 27 so much less wise that you all :p) but I just wanted to share a boob story. I was in a bra shop once, standing behind a lady and her two daughters. She pulled out the bra I wanted in my size (10G at that stage) then said ” that’s just rediculous, no one is that size”. I took great satisfaction in reaching over her shoulder to take it when she put it back,many making eye contact when she slightly sheepishly looked at me.
    I think there is much greater appreciation of the larger cup sizes these days – I remember going shopping with my mum and she was so excited to be able to buy a pretty one. I also remember being astounded at my AA cupped friend who didn’t even need to try bras on!
    Anyway, carry on πŸ™‚
    Xx Char

    Thanks Sassy – at 67 a few scars are not going to worry me. They’ll just add to the ones I already have πŸ˜€ I don’t plan on doing any nude bathing!!! And breastfeeding is definitely not on my ‘to do’ list πŸ˜€ Doc does not see any problems healthwise regarding an op.

    @iwant2bincontrol you are right about bras. 40 years ago the ‘nicest’ bra available in my size was a Playtex ‘cross your heart’ which was more of a piece of engineering than a garment. It came in black or white!! Now I can buy pretty bras in just about every colour …I’d just like to buy them in a smaller size πŸ˜€

    xx

    Sylvestra….I too have had the same problem with an over-abundance of breast tissue….I had a reduction while I was living in Australia a number of years ago and am so grateful that I went ahead with it. I wish you the best and hope this works our for you….I feel ‘normal’ now…..and I completely understand about the ‘going south’ issue along with the shoulder groove etc…..6 more pounds and you’ll be there….good for you…..

    Dear Sylvestra & All Other Boob-Related Contributors πŸ™‚

    My sympathy to all of you! Sylvestra, I can hardly believe what you’ve had to put up with over the years. I admire you for pursuing what you feel would be the best option for you, no matter how long it has taken to happen upon a medical professional who will listen. Thanks to all of you for weighing in about this struggle; I have also dealt with it most of my life and it gets very frustrating, especially when the weight loss that I’m accomplishing isn’t reflected in my bust! I’ve lost a couple of inches up top, but nowhere near, proportionately, to what I’ve lost in my waist and hips so ironically, as I am within about 10 lbs of my goal, I am looking particularly–and disturbingly–va va va voomish! Not the look I was going for, needless to say. My DD cup is still an issue, and I have seriously considered surgery if, once I’ve achieved and maintained my optimum weight for some time, it really still bothers me. I cringe at the idea of going through an elective surgery and all the expense & recovery involved, and am really hoping that these last 10 lbs. make enough of a difference. I did laugh when you described all that extra about our busts–including back fat–kind of ‘propping things up,’–so true! There was one time in my adult life when I had a teeny tiny chest. Going through my divorce 15 years ago, I dropped to a very unhealthy, scrawny weight, just from the stress of it all. At 5’6, I was about 115 lbs at my lowest–really skinny, and not in a good way. Fortunately, when life leveled out again, I regained about 10 or 12 lbs. and maintained that slim, healthy weight until I had my son 8 years ago. (And of course, where did I put the weight on again first? My bust, of course.) I certainly wouldn’t want to return to 115 lbs., but the ONE silver lining to that time was how beautifully flat-chested I was, briefly! I could wear anything, (including lovely little bras, instead of the industrial strength ones I was used to) and my chest was a total non-issue. Of course, I looked a lot better with clothes on than in my birthday suit…talk about gravity taking its toll once all the ‘stuffing’ holding things up evaporated! Well, maybe there’s a happy medium I can hit this time. Thanks for sharing, ladies–it’s a comfort knowing others share my frustration.

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