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  • Hi Lichtie – I started re-reading the Lustig book tonight – snap!

    Bay – thanks for all that research: scary stuff., reinforced by the book.

    Happy – you are absolved for the yoghurt ginger. I confess to stocking up on ‘sugar free’ chewing gum – on the premise that it’s chewy texture I love, rather than sweetness – only to find its full of sorbitol! My own fault for thinking I could find a comfort-blanket-substitute, but it’s oh, so subtle, isn’t it? And even those of us who think we’re well informed, and doing our best, get suckered!

    P, thanks for moral support

    On the plus side, day 1 has gone well – thank you!

    Hi Fast

    I’ve been eating fresh parsley from the garden and raw carrots.

    Bay 🙂

    Hi Bay,

    I like your thinking! Fresh picked and especially baby vegetables can be very sweet indeed…

    Reading Fat Chance is a great idea. Are any of you doing any other cognitive reprogramming/ work to try and change your mental attitude to the sweet stuff?

    Short of (self) hypnosis, I don’t know of any other programme, have you got anything in mind, Happy?

    Just eating masses of fresh veg – carrots, cauliflower, peppers, celery, tomatoes – + apples and oranges, and reminding myself how wonderful they taste. Hopefully after 6 weeks the attraction to artificially sweet stuff will have faded. (I won’t call it ‘rubbish’ because a) iVe always eaten all of the above, – my diet has always been pretty healthy – it’s just that I’ve always made room to squeee in a bit of sweet stuff on top, and b) I don’t eat any old rubbish sweet stuff – I go for very classy rubbish!

    Bay – I once asked a friend who had successfully given up smoking by using hypnosis whether it would work for sugar. She asked her hypnotherapist, who said no, because the body needs a certain amount of sugar, where it definitely doesn’t need smoke or nicotine unless we get it addicted, and so hypnosis wouldn’t work for sugar. I don’t know enough about hypnosis to judge if that’s true – but maybe this is the closest we’ll come to self hypnosing away from all except naturally-occurring, fibre-wrapped sugars?

    FFS, I once asked someone about the Allen Carr “Quit Smoking” books and she said that the way they worked was by sheer repetition throughout the book (a bit like hypnosis) repeating how dreadful the stuff was and how we are manipulated etc (I presume always slightly differently formulated) So slowly our mind starts accepting. This is why I hoped if we keep reading our Lustig book (or Bay’s posts) ;-)) whilst refraining from sugar (body and mind) that we eventually internalise how dreadful and evil this stuff is for us. Reading it just before drifting off to sleep should have the same effect as the Allen Carr books – I hope.

    I’ve had good breakfast and lunch + two apples and I think I have almost reached my TDEE ;-(( but it is almost five and I am not hungry – so lets see how I feel when I get home tonight. I hope I won’t reward this “no sugar girl” with more savoury food.

    Perhaps a recording, and iPod (or similar – other MP3 players are available) under the pillow at night? I’m told it works for Spanish verbs…I’m sure hypnosis is simply repetition while relaxed and suggestible – you’re right. I could play it instead of the BBC World Service, which normally lulls me off…

    It sounds as if you’re doing really well, Lichtie. Up to TDEE on a non FD is fine!
    I’ve been out for lunch with a friend and eaten a huge bacon sandwich (on delicious sourdough, please note, P) I was incredibly virtuous and gave said friend the two small sugar-coated choc buttons which came with my coffee – but had a handful of roasted (but unsalted) cashews instead – I know what you mean about replacing sweet overindulgence with savoury.

    So it’s back to hummus and veg, or yoghurt and fruit, tonight. – we’ll be eating later than usual, after pilates class, so I shan’t cook, and I’m bored with this week’s soup!. Our garden is in the ‘hunger gap’ season: about the only thing ready to harvest in February is celeriac – wonderful stuff, but not sure about it raw. We don’t bother with other root veg because they take up more space than we have and are cheap in the shops – but I long to be able just to. go and pull something, as we can for most of the year. In our previous place we had room for pigs and chickens, as well as enough fruit and veg to stock a farm shop; I miss it so much!

    Keep going : 2 down!

    Hi
    I have a similar, but opposite problem re the vegie garden. By Feb the heat has knocked the tomatoes and lettuce for 6, so I have only herbs, the occasional chilli and a sweet potato that has completely taken over!
    I have a new phone and this is the first message I’ve typed on it. A bit slow, but my young agile brain will pick it up quickly.
    TGIF 😉 P

    FFS, I have to confess…. no not to eating sugar but when I got home DH had cooked a full pork roast dinner … crackling, roast potatoes, yorkshires and the token vegetables. I really could not refuse. :-))
    And that on top of having almost reached TDEE by five o’clock.
    On the bright side – none of the calories came from sugar. Hey, ho tomorrow will definitely be a fast day. :-))

    How great you can grow your own vegetables and I believe there are a few here who do so. They taste phantastic when they are fresh from the garden.

    First time I typed on my phone, I got a return text from my daughter: ‘ mother, have you been drinking?’ You’re obviously stone cold sober, P. Pity we can’t share gardens ( and climates). But at least my garlic is coming on fast.

    I would hope so, ffs. It was 7am when I posted!
    Started fasting yesterday, but it didn’t last as I was down to 55kgs and couldn’t imagine why I shouldn’t have wine and peanuts at 5pm:-) I don’t need to do a second full fast at that weight.
    Made for a much happier Purple, too!

    Hi F & L

    I haven’t eaten any added sugar since the challenge began. However, I fell off my fast day yesterday with a bang! I lasted until 2 pm then had beans, tuna, salad, cheese, hummus. All healthy foods, but discouraging nonetheless. I can’t remember ever falling off a fast day, once I’ve gone past lunchtime. Even so, I lost 400 grams yesterday. Go figure, as they say. 😮

    Feeling low, but reminding self that am only human. Maybe there is something in the theory that we only have so much will power to go around. 😉

    I will be reading all that anti sugar stuff again and again during the six weeks of Lent. Even thought I realise intellectually that sugar is hideously bad for me, I still find room for a little treat. 🙄

    Cheers, Bay 🙂

    Hi FFS,

    I have swedes, curly kale and rainbow chard in the garden, and fresh eggs daily. I’m eating swede instead of spuds quite a lot, and the ladies (hens) enjoy the greens… But yes, the hungry gap 🙁

    We moved a few years ago in search of a bigger garden, so our ladies could free range and we could grow more of our own produce. We ended up with an acre. I feel overwhelmed by it every spring, but somehow it all comes together!

    Interesting to read all your sugar free progress. Stay strong!

    Hi Happy – curly kale and chard – wow, lucky you. Afraid we lost ours to the pigeons – round here they are not deterred by netting etc. – so we’ve decided to focus on the things we most like to eat / can protect / which cost most / which we can freeze / don’t need much space to grow, and buy the rest. Settled on salad stuff – lettuce, cucumber, radish etc – runner beans, peppers, aubergines, courgettes, tomatoes, apples, plums, strawberries, raspberries, black currants, garlic – and we forage like mad for blackberries! The game – having always had enough space to be more or less self-supporting – is ‘how close can we get to that in a suburban garden measuring no more than 6m x 6m, and including sitting /socialising space?’ Flowers and veg share beds, tomatoes grow in hanging baskets; but sadly the chickens (who don’t know about sharing the strawberries and whom we can’t bear to pen) have had to go. Penalty of retirement and downsizing, I’m afraid. – sad and frustrating, but surprisingly fun trying to beat the challenge.

    Lichtie – just picked up your post – sorry. Of course you couldn’t refuse that! Not only does it sound totally delicious – but relationships (especially with a man who does that!) are definitely more important than fasting! Hope you enjoyed every mouthful.

    What lovely produce gardens. Maybe next year I’ll do better with more vegetables. 😉 This year we had/have herbs, zucchinis, tomatoes, rocket and chili.. And of course the magnificent apricot crop. 🙄

    Cheers, Bay 🙂

    FFS,

    I’m impressed with the good use you have put your garden to.

    It remimded me that we had friends several years ago who lived in a terraced house with a 100ft garden. The ‘entertaining space’ was the path that divided the garden in two (just wide enough for a garden chair!). And the only non-edibles allowed was a single row of tulips at the front of the beds next to the house…!

    I can see what the next challenge is going to be 😉 You have made me seriously think about growing a bit more than the token tomatoes and herbs.

    There are quite a number of you dedicated “The good life people” here. My parents were virtually selfsuffient with anything that grew in the garden and with grand parents that still had a couple of cows and lots of chickens we never bought meat, milk or eggs either. I so regret not appreciating it at the time. I loved anything that was “bought”. As a child, I hated weeks of runner beans, peas and potatoes, potatoes, potatoes etc…always boiled with just a bit of butter on top… how I love that now.
    I did love the fruit though. We had masses of strawberries, rasperries, plums, apples cherries and anything that grew in our climate.

    I do love the image of a “garden path party in a row”.

    Seeing how many maintainers here grow their own vegetables tells me that you lot were already pretty health conscious before fasting. Is this basic attitude the reason why you are able to successfully keep off the weight?

    Quite possibly L.
    We did the ‘alternative lifestyle ‘ thing in our 30s but moved back to cities and a less active life and less homegrown food 🙁
    I don’t have enough sunny spots in the garden to grow much other than herbs now which is why I’m concentrating on bread, yoghurt and fermentation. Things I can do.
    Have a happy weekend folks. P 🙂

    Possibly, L. I wasn’t brought up that way: my Mum stopped proper cooking when convenience foods were invented, and never allowed me in the kitchen (although I also had a paternal grandad who was a master baker and went on at length about the wonders of wholemeal bread, long before it was fashionable ) I had 3 pieces of luck as an adult: one, to marry a man who was deeply into gardening; two, to have a low income, most of which went on the mortgage, which pushed us further into self sufficiency (John Seymour’s book was a bible in our house – still have our dog-eared copy somewhere); and three, getting passionately interested in nutrition when my children were born, at a time when you had to fight the medical carers in order to feed a baby naturally! But be warned: I found out the hard way that it’s possible to eat far too much of all the right things – that’s why I’m here, doing 5:2!

    Happy,thatS our garden to a T . I’m notionally I/c flowers (and garlic!); DH’s motto is ‘if you can’t eat it, what’s the point of growing it?’

    Your kidding ffs! I was reading our old copy of John Seymour last week when I was sorting our books. What a fabulous book it still is! Absolutely our bible in the 80s. 🙂 P

    Serendipity! You in Oz, me in UK – welcome to the digital revolution! Wonder if the next edition will find a way to include it? X

    My eldest son lives the John Seymour style life in the wilds of WA. These days most people don’t refer to their one book, they just “Google it”. 30 years later, they won’t be able to sit on the lounge room floor poring over the memories in a well loved old book like I did last week. We still have all the books on chickens, goats, donkeys, making cheese and bread, growing fruit and veg,as well as embroidery and building sustainable houses. Such memories. Such great times. No wonder my son chose that lifestyle too. 🙂 P

    Snap! I tried to be semi self sufficient in the 70s when I had little kids and was also passionately interested in nutrition. We grew raspberries, wonderful cherry trees, tomatoes, lettuce, silver beet, carrots, potatoes, beetroot, shallots, herbs. It did feel a bit like The Good Life. We used to trade with other growers, and buy from the food co-op.

    After having a savoury binge today, I’m hoping to be back on the wagon tomorrow. 😉

    Cheers, Bay 🙂

    Oo, Purple 🙄

    I forgot to add the yogurt making and the bread making that I did. Everything wholemeal and whole food. Even did a few years as a vegetarian. Loved my fish too much so got back into eating flesh. Lovely memories. We also grew zucchinis and pumpkins. So many we gave them away. I used to run every day, and cycle to the shops. Thanks for reminding me. I read all the Findhorn books and the Permaculture books.

    Cheers, Bay 😆

    Ah, nostalgia! Our peak / nadir may have been trading rabbit carcasses for Morris 1000 parts at the local scrapyard. All our kids went off it a bit as teenagers – stuffing junk food, and DD once flouncing out declaring she intended to ‘marry a rich man, NOT step out of my back door into duck poo, and never eat another b****y lentil’! Interestingly, she did just that, hated it, divorced and remarried and is now working her socks off for very little, and thoroughly content. No 1 son said ‘you won’t catch me doing work caring for people and earning peanuts’ – now trains leaders for Raleigh International. Baby Boy (a approaching 40!) combines running a bar with language teaching in southern Spain – one foot in Spain, one in Morocco – loves the lifestyle and is permanently broke. All are educated,( and question everything!) none could stomach the thought of a 9-5 job. If you devise to bring up children this way be very afraid: there will be a few years when it will bite you on the bum! But it does seem to come right eventually…

    Did you plant according to moon cycles, Bay? ( not taking the mick, truly interested!)

    Hi P, I don’t quite understand when you say: “I don’t have enough sunny spots in the garden to grow much other than herbs…”
    Isn’t the point of Australia that you have sun all the time?

    Hi Fast, Yes, I did. I always thought it worked because the moon linked with rain. And I meditated and had acupuncture to get rid of the accumulated grief and toxins. It all seemed to be effective. 😉

    And after all of that, through the 80s and 90s I worked really hard at a job I loved and bought myself a house. So I’ve had both a flaky alternative life style in the 70s and then the opposite.

    I’ve consistently been an active person with an interest in nutrition and physical fitness, and have tried to develop some emotional intelligence. 🙄 from a poor standing start. Hehe!

    As my Dad used to say, You wouldn’t be dead for quids!

    Cheers, Bay 🙂

    Lichtle,

    Our soil isn’t as fertile as yours, and we need to work it with compost and minerals. Where the vegetables are in shade, either by fences or mature trees, then they don’t grow very well. Herbs will grow in pots that can be moved into the sun or on the deck.

    Cheers, Bay 🙂

    Sounds as if you’ve done a mega job of a life’s work, Bay. ‘Well done you’ doesn’t begin to cut it.

    Well I’ve been driving today and missed an interesting conversation!

    We aren’t living the good life, as we both work full time, but I am enjoying growing a variety of vegetable and salad crops. We also restocked the orchard last year with apples, damsons, plums and a medlar.

    I think it’s partly an excuse to be outside, as that’s my favourite place to be. The house doesn’t get cleaned as much as it ought!

    But I do take great pleasure from preparing food from scratch with fresh picked organic ingredients that I grew myself.

    Hi
    L, Bay answered for me. My computer went flat in the middle of my reply:(
    We have a small suburban lot, but covered in mature eucalypts. The northern side, where our sunlight is, has low flowering natives (including a hedge of lilli pillies that we get some fruit off) to attract the birds. Our house and pool are at that end. The rest is more like a forest. The hot Australian climate needs to be tempered by shade trees. They also create much needed breezes. Consequently, we have virtually nowhere, other than where the clothes line is, of full sun all year for veg. I grow tomatoes and lettuce in spring but the heat of summer knocks them. As Bay said, our soil is poor so I grow my veg in raised no dig garden beds. Full of compost and lucerne hay.
    I would never remove my beautiful big trees, unlike many of our newer neighbours 🙁 We need them in this climate.
    Like you, Bay, we’ve had a taste of the different lifestyles. All have advantages and allowed us to grow and learn. The trouble with a fully self sufficient life is that the lack of income makes it a tough existence. There’s a lot to be said for a regular paid job 🙂
    Cheers all P

    Thanks Bay and Purple. I guess I thought in hot climates things grew in the shade too since the intensity of sun and therefore its effect on plants must be much stronger. Maybe I should swat up on some Biology again. 🙂 But that has to wait until I have read the “no sugar” book. 🙂

    A quick cautious report on the lent challenge: So far so good – not going up the wall just yet.. I am with Bay, though. Concentrating on the lent challenge has made me more lenient with the 5:2 fast. I hope it is just an initial thing and that next week proper fasting can continue. I did quite well in today’s fast until I succumbed to some mixed nuts this evening, which blew the fast by about 300cals. This proofs me wrong, thinking without sugar I would not need to fast.

    Hi Lichtle,

    I’m a big (small?!) eater of nuts, with no apparent detriment to weight maintenance.

    I understand that the calories in nuts, while high on paper, are not all available to you and are not all laid down as fat.

    So swapping nuts for sugar might not be a catastrophe. I guess the scales will adjudicate on that!

    Fascinating to watch the challenge unfold! I naively thought you’d cut sugar, and miss it, but hadn’t thought about what might fill that gap…

    Hi Lichtle, do you think the nut outburst is linked to a feeling of ‘deprivation’ due to cutting out sugar? Ie your brain is saying have the nuts rather than your tummy.

    Hi all
    I know I eat a lot more nuts now. I guess they are replacing cheese in my case. I can happily have just few pistachios, almonds, macadamias or walnuts, but salted peanuts or cashews are utterly addictive. Be warned! Don’t have any in the house! P 😉

    Hi all

    I ate extra dry roasted almonds and raw Brazil nuts over the last 3 days. I think we needed something extra to tide over the sugar withdrawal. After 3 full days sugar free, I finally feel ok again. I don’t believe that it’s all been in the mind. 😉

    Up until this morning, sugar free day 4, I have felt this urge to eat until I could find the missing ingredient. Nothing satisfies and I felt vaguely nauseous, and quite tired. I recognise those symptoms as withdrawal from sugar or processed carbs. Done this before 😮 you end up feeling very low, and I’ve been very grateful for all the support coming from this thread.

    This morning my energy is back, and my desire to eat is fasting normal. If it took a small binge on raw nuts to achieve this outcome, then I’m very happy. 🙄

    Thank you all, cheers, your bounced back Bay 🙂

    Hi Fast and Lichtle

    Isn’t it interesting that we binged on nuts? That makes me think that the nutrients in nuts may have helped us with the energy to get through sugar withdrawal. Since I never have salted nuts, I don’t believe that salt was the trigger.

    Cheers, Bay 😉

    Understand that completely Bay – looking for the missing ingredient. In my case I may as well say ‘looking for sugar!

    Top work Bay!
    We’ve just finished raking leaves and branches to fill 2 green bins. Exhausted, but the energy expenditure feels great! 🙂 P

    I think, Bay and Carol you are right, the nuts definitely filled an emotional as well as a nutritional void. As I feel rubbish from a stinking cold which started on Thursday I did not make a connection that I might suffer from withdrawel symptoms.
    The nuts I eat are uncoated wal, cashew and hazel nuts + almonds so no salt or other coating substituting the sugar.. As my TDEE is low and I waste a lot of calories on sweet food void of nutrition, I tend to compensate with nutrition dense food – hence nuts in the house but they never ruined a fast and I don’t think I would have allowed sugar to ruin the good work of a fast.

    I take your point, Happy that you found that the calories in nuts do not have the same effect on the body as sugar. Let day 4 of the challenge begin.

    Do you sometimes wake up after a fast day and you feel totally neutral – neither hungry nor full – a bit non-descript, empty in the stomach and you think you could easily do another fast? But then you get up and you remember that you don’t fast for fasting’s sake but for your health and you want to give your body the best nutrition today. Well this what I feel right now.

    We are off to see FIL for the weekend who has recently lost his wife and help him clear things out. He is such a lovely gent and I am looking forward to seeing him. Shame he doesn’t live closer.

    I forgot to say that I had made another resolution for lent but have not mentioned it because it isn’t as drastic.

    I am reducing my coffee intake to 2-3 mugs a day. My usual consumption is 7-8 mugs a day most of them with caffeine. I replace them now with either herbal tea and/or water with a splash of apple cider vinegar – hoping the slight sour taste will have an impact on sugar craving (and I love it as it is thirst quenching.)

    FFS, Bay and Carol if you eat/drink anything to counter act sugar deprivation, please let me know.

    Also tips welcome what to do with the unfamiliar halo that is off-putting people

    Water with lime or lemon is my drink. I only have 1-2 coffees a day. Any more and I’m awake all night. 😉

    Oh Lichtie – coffee as well as sugar?! My admiration so knows no bounds ! You say it isn’t as drastic; all I can say is I did it one year, about 20 years ago, and it was far worse than sugar, for me. Dreadful headaches – and worse temper – for about 2 weeks, then it got easier – and like a fool, the first think I did on Easter Day was to make a pot of coffee! Shan’t make that mistake this year. I do wish you all the best with it .. My anti-sugar-craving strategy so far has been green tea with orange

    I had a very early night last night, and missed the flurry of posts – lovely to wake up to them this morning. Thank you all! I haven’t consciously struggled with sugar withdrawal yet, beyond a few moments of brief regret, but the reason I say ‘consciously’ accounts for bed at 8.30 last night. Thursday I went to bed at normal time, really tired – not a FD, had eaten healthily to just short of TDEE. Simply could not drop off – unheard of, for me. About 2.30am I realised I was ravenously hungry; came downstairs and cut a huge slab of rye bread, added masses of butter, took it back to bed to eat! I cant remember ever doing that in my life before, even on a fast day – but it worked. But by then I got in about 3.5 hours before the alarm, hence last nights sleep fest. Was that the result of sugar deprivation? I didn’t want sweet stuff, and had already had sufficient calories, so who knows? If i did that sort of think often I’d make nothing of it, but I really do think it’s the first time ever!

    And yes, nut consumption is up here, too – though deliberately not salted ones, which I’ve learned not to have in the house.

    One thing I have noticed is that my ‘moments of brief regret’ (see above) have all been when I’ve opened a magazine to a particularly delicious looking recipe or advert, or passed a luscious pud on a supermarket shelf ( and I never buy puds!) I always thought my psychology training had made me wise to the wiles of advertisers in persuading us to consume, but I’m realising afresh just how clever they are. The advice ‘don’t go shopping (or cook, or read magazines!) when you’re hungry’ is indeed good!

    Have a good w/e, everyone.

    Hi Fast

    I agree my moments of regret are fleeting. They came around the time the apricot pudding came out of the oven, and when I broke squares of dark chocolate to put on the table. The dinner party was a happy time for all. 😆

    It’s proving hard to overeat without bread or sugars of any kind. The small piece of kumara (sweet potato) was incredibly sweet to taste.

    Well done, Lichtle for having a go with reducing that much caffeine at the same time as the sugar. 🙄

    Cheers, Bay

    Hi Lichtle, coffe too! Wow that is a biggie! As Purple says withdrawal symptoms will be quite significant. I’m not a big coffee drinker but definitely hooked on tea.

    Re sugar deprivation – if I am totally desperate I will eat 2-3 fresh strawberries (think you’re all eating fruit??). And I also find a hot drink made with fresh mint is satisfying. Cheers.

    Hi MCs, Thanks for your favourite drinks to subsitute sugar/coffee. Really my coffee reduction is not that drastic since I only drink stong brewed coffee at work – at home I usually drink instant decaf. As I said the stinking cold is masking any withdrawal symptoms.

    Carol, I have fruit too at least for the time being although I do feel a bit like cheating since I love fruit so much. Maybe in the last week(s) I will try to leave out fruit. it’s hard to predict if by then, the weeks of denial will make this will be more or less difficult. I am not making any promises until I see as it goes.

    Well done Bayleaf for making desert and serving it without eating. That is almost heroic. I would have had to make one that I am not keen on.

    FFS, getting up in the middle of the night for lack of sleep to eat bread with butter would be quite extraordinary for me too. My portions were definitely bigger today – lets hope this is temporary. The absence of guilt could be encouraging larger meal portions. Anyhow, day 4 successfully completed. Yaaaayyyyy

    Hi Lichtle

    I weighed in this morning and lost 600 grams yesterday. Plus I’ve lost the blah feeling. 🙄 I know weight fluctuates, but it feels as if the regime of no sugars, no alcohol, and no breads except sourdough, is having an effect. It doesn’t seem to matter that I over indulged the nuts.

    Hey, Purple
    I may even become inspired to make my own sourdough in the future. Not just yet. 😉

    Cheers, Bay 😆

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