It’s great to have a place to check in to here. Thanks for sticking around, everyone!
CarolB, I stand in awe of you. I love family gatherings, and the more the merrier, but the most family I’ve ever actually cooked a dinner for was about 18, for a Christmas dinner once. That 18 included my ex-husband and his wife and his parents, as well as my then-partner and HIS parents. It was quite a day. Couldn’t have got through that one without some wine, but everyone was well fed and had a good time, I think. That was a long time ago, when my kids were still living at home.
I realized yesterday how much of my indulgent eating happens when I’m feeling sorry for myself. The twin babies were fussy yesterday and my grandson was being rebellious, and after six hours nonstop with them, by the time I got onto the subway my back was really aching and I was totally exhausted. I feel very sorry for my daughter-in-law (and son) who have to cope with it all every day, but I was also feeling sorry for myself. I didn’t want them to see it, so as soon as I got to the subway station I bought a package of M & Ms as a reward for myself. And as soon as I got home, I went straight to bed! I have suggested that next week, I take the three-year-old at my place and my d-in-l will just have the twins to manage at their place. Maybe divide and conquer will work better for both my daughter-in-law and me! (And at least there won’t be any M & Ms around for me to cave in to at the end of the day.)
Tomorrow is a fast day. I’m going out to a concert in the evening and grabbing a bite with my partner’s daughter. I’m aiming to find a chicken kabob and a salad or something equally lo-cal.
Have a great evening. It’s been cool today here in TO — hoping it’ll warm up again soon because Kathcan is right: it’s easier to stay motivated when it’s warm.
8:36 pm
13 May 15