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  • Hello,

    I’m hoping to do a proper catch up, and be quick, so that will be interesting!

    My sister had a beautiful funeral on Wednesday and I was able to watch on livestream, which they did really well.

    Neil, big congratulations on your weight staying stable. I am thinking more and more that that is the trick: to live in a way that our weight does stay stable.
    That allows our brain and gut biome and hormones and everything else get into a good stable working relationship, and then losing some weight can be done slowly and sustainably.
    Belated Happy Birthday wishes! https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT9pcayNVD9mdtr19H_vHsg16vf3RIuowohbw&usqp=CAU

    Anzac, much belated Happy Anniversary wishes for such a wonderful milestone after such a fraught year. Blessings to you both.
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    Thin, a sensible decision re gorilla trekking in Africa, but O I am so sorry it is not a good time to go.

    LJoyce, your trip is so exciting! I carefully looked at your link, so I am very sorry it was not the right one. But how gorgeous to be checking out Eastern Europe, and they will be well set up, I am sure, to welcome people who only speak English.

    I also thought of Thin and Anzac when the shonky awards were announced: ‘Qantas, The Spirit of Disappointment’ https://www.choice.com.au/shopping/consumer-rights-and-advice/your-rights/articles/2022-shonky-winners

    Must go, I am going to zoom at 11am, but just with two sisters now. O my heart.

    Best wishes to you all

    LJ, that trip will be fabulous. I don’t think you’ll have a problem with the language. English is the language used by most Europeans to communicate between nations and I doubt you could even book a hotel from Australia where staff didn’t speak English. I’ve only been to one country in the world where not one word of English was spoken and that was nearly 40 years ago – Russia.

    Anzac, so now you have a new issue to fight to get your 7000 points returned! Thanks for sending that Choice Shonky award Cinque, it made me feel vindicated.

    Cinque, that’s good that your sister was given a wonderful send-off and even better that you could watch remotely. My uni friend did the same for her mother’s funeral recently, watching from the US instead of flying back to England to be relatives she doesn’t get along with. I’d never heard of it until then. I wonder if it began during covid. I hope you had a lovely zoom with your two sisters.

    Cinque, are you fasting just when you feel like it or back into a routine? I marvel when my weight stays stable on a daily basis as it has been for three consecutive days. Usually, it inches up a hundred gms or so every day until my FD, then drops back to the starting point. Showing that I eat too much.

    We’re getting clear, sunny days (it was 20C one day in late October) among the rainy ones so we’re moving through locks when it’s fine. Ten yesterday, ten today after nearly a week spent in the countryside between Warwick and Leamington Spa. Sheep grazing last week, horses today.

    Good morning from a lovely sunny Sydney. A rare sight these days

    Cinque, I am so glad you were able to witness your dear Sister’s farewell. I do believe live-streaming came into being during Covid. I am so sorry for your loss

    Thin, one of the UK ladies on the labrador forum had to take her pooch to the river the other day because it was so hot for this time of year. 20 degrees in fact. It is only going to be 22 here today and I call that chilly for this time of year. Glad you are also getting some sun

    I finally got the courage to weigh myself after my terrible 10 days and boy does it go back on so much more quickly than it comes off. I am, as so often, extremely cranky with myself. I am also cranky because I hurt my knee yesterday and can hardly walk so there goes my nice walks for a little while.

    I will need to change my username soon, once I leave my current job as I used my work email to set myself up here.

    Those pakora’s sound delicious LJ. Re the job hunting, I am looking at two roles only at the moment. One is at one of the other big 4 banks and is all about payments which is my speciality. The other is at the regulator APRA and is a data role that also appeals as I love getting lost in data. It is early days and I’m currently waiting to hear back from the recruiters. I normally don’t use them but I haven’t had time to reach out to my contacts yet

    I’m off to a friend’s birthday in Wollongong today, I’m getting a lift down but need to catch the train back and that will be tricky with my knee but I really want to go. I have presents for two birthday girls and also two thankyou gifts for some other friends who were so wonderful while Mr Anzac was so unwell. We held two separate thankyou lunches for our friends but these two were unable to make either. I’ve checked the lunch menu and there is a nice sounding chicken salad with lemon dressing that should hit the spot. Everything else is fried or covered in cheese. Ugh

    I can’t remember if I mentioned that Mr Anzac is in New Zealand currently? He went over for a reunion plus to see his best mate for whom he was best man via livestream in February (NZ had shut the borders). How awesome that he is already well enough to travel like this, a mere 8 months after the first diagnosis. He has to wear protective clothing and take spare clothes in case but he was fine

    Hi to everyone else, have a lovely Saturday

    I opened the page today to read your heartbreaking news Cinque that you have lost your sister. I don’t know what to say that would make a difference, except that I feel so sad for you and your loss. I hope your health improves – you’ve been dealing with such a lot.

    I also read you are finishing your group. It sounds right. You had a plan for what you wanted to achieve, but the membership didn’t quite respond in that way. At another time, with another group, it would be highly successful, but what’s the point of ploughing on, when it is affecting your health.

    My OH did something similar with his writing group. The members loved doing it, and all wrote something every week, but when he tried to challenge them to do more, he got zero interest. They liked the social activity (and that was fine) but his vision was to develop their writing. So he walked away (and has never regretted it).

    Talking about OH, you may have wondered where Ive been. Well, it’s been tricky. He’s not doing too well. The latest is he has a squamous cell carcinoma on his shin which needs plastic surgery and a skin graft and a week in hospital and another week of bed rest. The immunotherapy is starting to have its side effects. This is one – his natural immunity is lessened, and he is more susceptible. Then to round it off, 3 weeks ago he developed what’s been diagnosed as a baker’s cyst and a grade 2 hamstring tear. Excrutiatingly painful. His naturally upbeat disposition is taking a hammering.

    On a more cheerful note – Rosy has had her puppies. Four of the beautiful little things. The early ultrasound felt 6-7 but the xray identified 4 only. She is an amazing mother – pups have almost trebled in weight since their birth nearly 2 weeks ago, and she handled the whole delivery unaided. Here’s a pic of 3, taken on the day they were born. https://i.imgur.com/Q9Ej8wz.jpg And another, of just 2 of them. https://imgur.com/bVnVFcV

    Thin I also saw you and your OH have been ill with Covid. I’m so sorry – hope you are both recovering and the symptoms don’t hang around too long (btw, you do know that Alan Joyce is an Australian, don’t you 🙂

    We’ve been housebound for a couple of weeks with the pups so my beautiful son this morning offered to sit with them while we took ourselves off to a beachside suburb for some coffee and cake and a gentle walk on the foreshore. OH sat on a bench while I went for the walk, but we’ve come home feeling like new people. (Oh, and I didn’t have cake – just coffee and sourdough)

    I’ll finish here because I hear OH is awake from his nap and I do need to nip out to shop for essentials.

    The good news from this end is that I have lost 4.5 kilos in the four weeks since my fancy French birthday lunch for my friend’s birthday.

    Best wishes all, especially those I’ve not mentioned – Gday, LJ, Neil, Anzac, Turn

    Anzac, yes, it was 20C here one day last week – in late October! Isn’t it possible to change the email address and keep your username here? Fabulous news that Mr A is jetting off all by himself. Gosh, a video link wedding! I think I’d have just postponed it. I hope the train wasn’t too painful and that you had a lovely time with your friends. Whenever I hear ‘Wollongong’, it reminds me of the bicycle I bought there on our way over to Perth.

    Lindsay, good news on the weight loss. That’s significant. I was wondering how it was going as your last post said you were embarking on fasting again the next day.

    Sorry to hear of OH’s latest health challenges. No wonder he’s feeling knocked about. I bet the puppies are cheering him up a bit. I know all too well about the squamous cell carcinoma. A nasty little fast growing thing. Mine was on my lower eyelid and my eye was sewn closed for a month while a skin graft was grown from the upper lid membrane to create one for the lower lid, then a new lower lid created from a graft taken from behind my ear. I had the Mohs surgery and a top plastics man did the grafting with an excellent outcome. All that could have been avoided had the correct diagnosis been made when I first reported it but five months passed with the doctor insisting it was a stye. Left another four months the specialists said it would have killed me. Avoid mole clinics.

    Ha ha yes, presumed AJ had Oz citizenship as well as ‘Still Calling Australia Home’. Another friend mentioned the shonky awards yesterday but added that shortly after that announcement, he was awarded a $4m bonus for the past year’s work. After reading that report, no wonder LJ was talking of waiting until the airlines ‘get their act together’ with the baggage and delays.

    We’re fine re covid, thanks for mentioning. I was over it within five days and OH, four weeks on, is still coughing but he does that anyway. I think his BP meds have that as a side effect. Or maybe he had man-covid.

    Wow Thin that sounds like a challenge. Was that done in Perth? We have very good doctors – my brother and sil have just come back from the UK with terrible stories of the national health service being in crisis and unable to get an appointment – even by phone – with a doctor.
    My OH has regular skin checks and his last was just a couple of months ago, but he is more susceptible with the cancer treatment. Our very fine GP spotted it.

    Anzac, wonderful news that your OH is not only well enough to travel solo, bt has the confidence to do so.

    Hope you have had a wonderful day out.

    Cinque, you are in my thoughts. big hugs.

    night all

    Lindsay, yes that was Perth. Sorry, I do ramble and you’ve said before that you have excellent doctors – I really just meant to mention as a warning here that if there’s any question, see a dermatologist not the mole clinic. The latter are fine for zapping off common or garden moles, a real cash cow for them. They have the fancy machinery but an inadequate level of training for anything non-basic. I was fortunate that we could afford the level of expertise that suddenly became necessary because that wouldn’t have happened on Medicare. I got an outstanding result cosmetically (plus I didn’t die) and was mostly frustrated because we had to shave a month off a long-planned four month trip while that graft was cultured. Both the Mohs and grafts are fascinating surgeries actually.

    As for the NHS, it’s bursting at the seams. I won’t elaborate on the various factors that I believe are contributing to that. When OH was given his spousal visa, he paid a king’s ransom to access the NHS which we were happy to do – we believe it can only survive if everyone expects to contribute something. The whole country is in an absolute mess at the moment as I’m sure you know. I’m probably not the best person to be making comparisons as, besides my eye thing, I experienced two other very serious medical profession screwups in Perth.

    Cinque, I am so very sorry to hear about the passing of your dear sister. There aren’t words to express the great sadness I feel for you. Sending love from California.

    I haven’t had a chance to catch up on very many posts but it’s good to see all of you. I think of you all often. My dear husband had been doing quite well for a few months with some new and one increased medication. But in the past several days things seem to have reversed somewhat with him being very tired and nodding off a lot, especially in the mornings. We did finally get into a very good Neurologist and several people on his staff have regular appointments with us to solve problems that arise. We are hanging in there and doing ok under the circumstances. He, i and my dear sister still watch movies or series every night. I think we have watched every Aussie series available by now.

    LJ, I am so happy to hear you adopted a cat. And i’m also glad to hear you are planning to travel. I wish things had been different and it could have included California.

    I will try to be here more often. You are all in my thoughts.

    Morning all.

    A lovely sunny day here in Brisbane – 25 degrees, which is cool for this time of year. Long may it last.

    I am cleaning out the pantry, and I delighted to say that I’ve found nothing untoward. A tin of asparagus soup, which came from who knows where, and contains 15% asparagus. What do you think the rest is? Chemicals, probably. It’s been binned.

    Calif it’s good to hear from you. A difficult time in your life, dealing with whatever comes your way in terms of your OH’s health. I understand perfectly. It seems sometimes here that we get one thing fixed, only for something to break out somewhere else.

    Thin I take yor warning about those skin clinics. I see a dermatologist annually for my skin checks (our lovely young GP is a neck-up doctor for me). But my friend who until recently worked for a specialist dentist, said they too often found skin cancers in the mouth. I know my dermatologist doesn’t check my mouth.

    Here’s another medical story I found amazing. A friend had cataract surgery last week. She said her specialist did 32 ….yes, 32….in one day, alternating between two theatres. Seems a bit production line to me …. even at 15 minutes per surgery, it would have been non-stop for 8 hours. Hope she wasn’t the last on the list.

    LJ how wonderful for you to both have a new cat, and to be planning travel. I wouldn’t worry too much about language issues – it’s amazing how you can get by, when you are open to the challenges of travel, as you will be. I’ll look forward to hearing your plans, as they develop. BTW, we went to Ireland a few years ago on Cathay premium economy – worth every single last cent.

    OK back to the pantry. Kind souls keep donating bottles and jars for honey – but we haven’t harvested this spring, so far, because the bees are slow in emerging with all the rain and cold weather, and any honey they have they need for their brood. So, my pantry is overflowing with empty containers.

    Have a good day all.

    Big hugs and thoughts Cinque.

    Afternoon all, I’m feeling like crap at the moment. I just thought I was a bit tired on Friday, but then by the evening it was obvious I’d come down with a cold. I spent all yesterday sitting around on the couch watching sport, and slept in this morning until around 11am. I’m starting to feel a bit better, but I hate being sick, there was so much I wanted to get done this weekend.

    Cinque, does this thread still open two pages behind the current one for you? It seems years since we reported this to JJ.

    Neil, that horrid realisation that you’re coming down with something, ugh.

    CalifD, nice to see your post but sorry things aren’t going so well for your OH again. It must be very difficult for you and your DS.

    We once booked Premium Economy seats from India to Oz on Malaysian Airlines. When we got on board, we discovered that there was no such thing. The plane was filled with mosquitoes and utterly filthy. Now I’m used to dirty airplanes as we fly Ryan.

    Turn, are you out there? Are you pet-sitting for Xmas? We’ve been selected to do a corgi-sit in Stockholm over Christmas. I’m just putting together a short cruise to Helsinki beforehand. Very excited as we’ve not been to Scandinavia before although DD has been to Iceland. After that, DD will head off on her adventure and we hope to go to Botswana for the rest of winter. Flight to Stockholm: £12.99.

    Lindsay, I’ve noticed dentists checking around my mouth for abnormalities in recent years. They didn’t always do that.

    Sunday Fast seemed to go well and when I woke in the night feeling hungry, I thought this is good, there’ll be a nice big loss in the morning. But only 400g down which is less than half my normal post-FD drop. Ho hum.

    Good morning everyone,
    Weather has bounced up to 29C expected top today, when it was freezing a week ago. Typical Melbourne.

    Whether I feel I can be rigorous enough to have a low calorie day combines with the state of my fridge. I am all set to finish up a couple of things today and then I have a big container of soup to sustain me through a fast day tomorrow. I am looking forward to it.

    But I am also feeling that I am gradually building up better habits and my health has been a little bit better the last week or so and that makes it easier to get organised.

    Yes, live streaming funerals is one of the good things that has come out of covid (telehealth being the other one I can think of). I gather that in the beginning they were pretty dodgy with sound and camera placement, but now they have it worked out and it really was a treat to be able to watch and hear my sister’s funeral. A lot of her friends, from when she was vicar in Swan Hill, were flooded in or otherwise unable to travel, so over thirty people were watching remotely.

    Anzac, isn’t extraordinary what a bad few days can do! Those overweight years, and our bodies get extraordinarily good at grabbling hold of those calories and storing them. Hooray for a new day.

    I hope Mr Anzac has had a wonderful time in NZ, hooray for how well he is doing.
    And I hope you had a lovely time with Wollongong friends.
    Thinking of you with that job decision.

    Lindsay, puppies! They are so cute. Little jelly beans. How are they going now?
    Cheers for that excellent work losing those excess kilos.

    Thankyou for your kind thoughts. I am missing my sister every day, it seems both a long time and a short time since she died, and that is doing my head in.

    Lots of fellow feeling to Mr Lindsay and his group ending. It is so different doing things in retirement age, the opportunities are so different.

    My granddaughters have covid, very light symptoms (thanks vaxx!) but I did have a bit of contact so waiting to see what happens to me. Fine so far.

    Cali, so, so, so glad to hear from you!
    Best wishes to Mr Cali, I am glad he has had some good months and I do hope that neurologist has some good solutions to make life better now.

    Neil, I do hope you have started to feel better, and will be all set to make the most of the coming weekend.

    Yes, this thread opens up a couple of pages back. I just haven’t had the oomph to contact JJ

    Well done with the pantry Lindsay!

    Blame the scales on that smaller weight drop Thin!

    Best wishes to everyone

    Morning all

    Well two lots of good news and some bad news for me this week. Good news is I recovered from my cold reasonably quickly. I was feeling better by Monday morning just in time for work 🙁 Second good news is I finally saw some movement on the scale, I was down half a kilo this morning from what I was last week.

    The bad news is I got knocked off my bike by a young driver on Tuesday. She didn’t look both ways before turning into the street I was riding along, clipped my front wheel and knocked me off the bike. I got off pretty lightly, just a graze on my palm and a slightly twisted knee. I’ll be off my bike for a couple of days with my knee, I hope it doesn’t take any longer than that to come right.

    Cali, great to hear from you again even if it’s not good news on your partner’s health.

    Lindsay, I think I need to go through our food cupboards too, we have some stuff in the bottom of it that have been sitting there for a long time. I’m guessing the rest of the soup is water/stock, but definitely plenty of chemicals no doubt. I’m really pleased to see asparagus back in season and appearing in the supermarkets over here, I love asparagus.

    Thin, 500g is what I dropped in a whole week, so 400g in a single fast day is definitely nothing to be too downhearted about.

    Cinque Little by little is the best way to make things stick. It seems to be working with me cutting down on dairy, I haven’t been getting the same stomach issues that I did when I was having cow’s milk in my coffee, I’ve cut down on the starchy carbs but my next goal will be to try and reduce them even further.

    Anzac, I hope Mr Anzac enjoys his time here in NZ.

    Well I hope everyone else is ok. Have a great one everyone

    Morning all.
    Glad to hear you are feeling better physically Cinque – although too soon since your sister’s passing for those feelings to start to lighten. They will, but oh so painful and sad in the meantime. I don’t think we ever get over losing someone close, but the feelings and memories do change, from missing them so desperately to being thankful we had them.

    Neil, yikes. You are so vulnerable on a bike. what is just a bit of a clip in cars can be very nasty. Glad your injuries weren’t worse, although absolutely bad enough. Good news that your weight has dropped, and your cold is passing.

    I’ve been watching Magda Szubanski’s program on obesity/health on ABC TV and am hugely disappointed. Nothing new, and such wasted opportunities to explain in more depth. I was very cranky when she and her very overweight neighbour were doing yoga exercises in the bedroom – was it designed to show how fat they are? And then the cutaway to Magda lolling on a chair in the corner drinking and stuffing her face. Honestly, how can the message be taken seriously, when she turns it all into a food joke?

    Rant over.

    Neil the fresh asparagus at the moment is a treat – and so so reasonably priced. We have been having a poached egg, with a few stalks cooked in the same pan, for breakfast. So tasty.

    As always, your travel plans sound amazing Thin. A corgi-sit? Mmmm. Not my favourite dog. My OH’s mother had one that used to snarl at me every time I walked up the stairs at her home. Perhaps my MIL to be put it up to it? She never liked me – until OH and I had our first child, and she realised that a woman who produced such a beautiful little creature couldn’t be all bad! (Very Glaswegian, my dear late MIL).

    Talking of puppies – mine are growing a treat, and so so lovely. I am deliberately not getting attached, although I spend an inordinate amount of time watching them. Eyes opening, getting on to their little feet. Rosy is a perfect mother – there if they need her, but gradually leaving the whelping box for short periods. Here’s the bigger boy, at 2 weeks (having put on over 2 kilos on his birth weight of 570 grams).https://imgur.com/a/kGULxvw

    Enjoy your day all. How was your trip away Anzac? Is your OH home now?

    OMG Neil, can you just stop riding now please? Too many hits and near misses. How about a nice stationary bike in your house?

    Cinque, that was a nice long post from you and it sounds like things are going alright. Poor flood victims. I don’t think it’s of any use to contact JJ on that glitch again – she said it would be a ‘very long time’ before it’s fixed and she was right. By ‘telehealth’, do you mean healthcare providers holding video calls with patients?

    Lindsay, if that’s you holding the puppy, you are very slim. But I’m guessing by the stain on the shirt, it’s not you but possibly the vet. Are you keeping any puppies? Well done for persisting in the pursuit of your OH in the face of hostility! I’ve no experience with corgis and can’t say I’m a big fan of any selective breeds. I did ask DD about the ‘issues’ associated with the breed and before rattling them off, she said, ‘behavioural’. And I have to get reacquainted with the vacuum cleaner as corgis are big shedders. We were also offered sits with two chihuahuas in Denmark and a bull mastiff in Norway.

    Morning all

    Thin, you’re not the first one to say that, but I really couldn’t stand either not riding, or riding a stationary bike. I just love getting out riding in the fresh air and enjoying the scenery. My knee is sorer this morning though, if it’s not starting to feel better tomorrow morning, I’ll go to the doctor to get a physio referral.

    My wife’s family were looking after me yesterday. I got home and found that they had dropped off some crab curry and some jackfruit curry (one of my favourites!) so I didn’t have to cook any dinner.

    I’ll really have to watch my eating while I’m off my bike, I burn something like 500-1000 extra calories on days that I’m riding my bike.

    Lindsay, that is a gorgeous looking puppy! I’m processing some of the dog registration forms at the moment and having a giggle at some of the names people chose for their dogs. Some of the more interesting are “Raisin”, “Piglet”, “Bastard” and one of the least imaginative ones is a puppy that was named “Puppy”

    I’m having a fast day today since I’m not riding, so I’ve got boiled eggs and salad for lunch, and pork chops and salad for dinner tonight. I’ll try to eat no snacks outside of that except for my regular coffee.

    Well have a good one everyone,

    Hello everyone

    Yikes Neil, I’m with Thin and your family. Find a cycle park and ride there! I hope your knee gets better quickly and glad your cold was short-lived

    So glad your health has been a little bit better Cinque, may it continue. Still sending cyber hugs for your sadness and grief

    Mr Anzac had a wonderful time in NZ. He has been best mates with this guy since they were 5 years old so over 50 years. He said they had belly laugh after belly laugh and he also caught up with some other friends. I’m so glad he went

    I had a lovely day in Wollongong, I saw close friends again that I haven’t seen in such a long time. The train trip back was largely along the coast so the scenery was beautiful. I live in Southern Sydney so the trip was only one hour

    Lindsay I am sorry to read that your OH is not doing so well.
    I do hope things improve quickly. That puppy is gorgeous. If I didn’t still have PTSD from when Maxx was a puppy I’d have another in a heartbeat. Labs are knows as ‘crocopups’ and amongst the most challenging puppies to raise

    Lovely to hear from you Cali, I’ve been thinking about you. Also glad that things have been going a little better with your OH, albeit with some setbacks lately. Hugs

    How is the kitty-cat going LJ?

    Thin, don’t mention the fur. When Maxx waddles around the fur just floats off him like little furry clouds. I should get the vacuum cleaner surgically attached to my arm. Those dog-sitting gigs sound amazing. Chihuahuas in Denmark and a bull mastiff in Norway. Wow

    I’ve decided drastic action is required else I won’t want to go on our lovely holiday to Vanuatu. So for the past three days I have had very very few carbs after brekky (and then only the carbs in our homemade muesli) and NO SNACKING. I’ve dropped 900g in three days!

    Work is still mad and now I have the added stress of having to document 3.5 years of knowledge into a handover document. I am already over the job search and I remember why I HATE recruiters. One idiot – the one with the job at the regulator that I was really interested in – didn’t submit my c.v. by the deadline. Oh but it was my fault you see, I rang and left a message saying I had some questions and it took over a week for him to call me back and therefore he missed the deadline. What the fruitcake? I told him, with icy politeness, just what I thought of that. I hope to get something before we go away so I’m all set for January but I’m not taking anything other than something perfect. Mr Anzac (the CFO) is jumpy about coming back and THEN having to do the job search but I (a) need a break and (b) will not take a job unless I am confident I can do well. He can just juggle the finances, we won’t starve. He and Maxx can always go out busking (LOL)

    Take care all and hi to everyone else. Must get back to work. Ugh

    A quick one, as the day ends and before my evening starts.

    Glad you are healing Neil – you are such a target on a bike, but understand the sense of freedom you must feel. I can’t ride a bike – but have an open motorbike licence. How can you ride one but not the other? I don’t know. (not that I ride any more but I keep the licence).

    Thin, no, not my vet. My vet is like your daughter – young and female. One of Rosy’s pups is going to her ….she’s always adored Rosy. It’s my OH holding the pup. Slim, isn’t he? You have an eagle eye, spotting the lump of goo on his shirt.

    Anzac, good plan to hold out for the perfect job. And well done on the 900 grams in 3 days. You should think about a pup – not a lab, perhaps. But how about a nice red dog? Rosy doesn’t shed much – or rather, I don’t see it until I empty the Dyson. Do you have a shedding rake? Worth its weight in gold.

    OK I’m making marmalade, so had better check or it will be burnt marmalade jam. Not for me – for OH. He loves it, and I’d rather cook my own than buy commercial stuff.

    Have a good night, all. Day after FD for me tomorrow – I can almost taste breakfast!

    Anzac, I think you’re absolutely right to wait for the perfect job. You’re highly skilled and much in demand so something will come up. Laughing about the Maxx fur. Our dingo (kelpie x) was like that. She slept in our home office and every morning there would be a dustpan full of hair. The other dogsits I mentioned were alternatives to the corgi, not in addition. We once considered fostering guide dog puppies until I researched the challenges of raising the breed they were using.

    Neil, I know you won’t want to give up cycling. Being out on the open road must give a great sense of freedom. I’m sure you have reflective gear and flashing lights! Have you considered a mini trampoline for the days you can’t ride? Not now with your sore knee. When I was an obsessive runner (thirty odd years ago), I used one on the days I couldn’t get out. 45 minutes of trampolining gives huge benefits including, it was thought, anti-ageing. Not sure that part worked.

    Where have you all gone? Or are you just like me with nothing to report.

    My DD bought OH tickets to ‘Singin’ in the Rain’ for his birthday next month – we went last night. It was fabulous. He’s more the musical fan than I am, but the orchestra was wonderful and the production fun. We had a terrific meal out at a Chinese restaurant beforehand (Taitai, which I remember from my days in Beijing means ‘wife’.) We were modest, but I did have a very large glass of red wine. My DD babysat the kids (aka pups) and slept with her girls down in our bedroom, so I have no idea if I put on weight overnight because I couldn’t get to the scales. I’ll just say I didn’t 🙂 It was a bit of a struggle with OH whose mobility has been severely restricted by a Level 2 hamstring tear and a Baker’s cyst, but he managed.

    Thin you are an OT aren’t you? Any thoughts about how he can manage this? He is a bit worried about the SCC op on his shin on Monday, when he’s in quite a bit of pain.

    We are going to DD’s tomorrow for a birthday lunch for me – it’s not actually my birthday, but OH will be in hospital on the actual day. My dear dear oldest brother offered to come and bring lunch on my birthday. I very ungraciously said no – I can’t bear the thought of celebrating while OH is laid up.

    The pups contine to provide entertainment aplenty – but next week will be a challenge, as they are now all on their feet and starting to bark and be dogs. I have a roster of friends/family to sit with them each day so I can get to the hospital.

    Hope you are all enjoying your weekend.

    Big hugs Cinque.

    Good morning everyone from chilly (again) Melbourne,

    I am still hoping I have missed getting covid, and still being reminded of my dear sister in everything I do and everything I think about.

    I’ve been going well eating wise, but seem to just stay the same weight, which I am taking as a good thing since I am becoming more and more aware of the statistics that it is only a few percentage of people who can keep weight off after losing an amount.

    Neil hooray for your two good pieces of news and so much sympathy for that bad news. I do hope you are healing well and quickly. Ooh what delicious ways your wife’s family have of looking after you. Good luck with keeping to sensible portions.

    I think I told you all that my daughter is getting a ‘saved from the tip’ box of veggies each week, some funny shapes and sizes but good food, and I have scored the asparagus the last few weeks, so that has been such a pleasure. Some were huge spears but still tender.

    Lindsay, I have also been watching the Magda Szubanski show, but I am more positive about it. I love that it is focused on obesity as a public health issue, and I am hopeful it will lead to better public health laws around ultra processed and high sugar foods.

    I did feel the same cringe at the fat stereotype joke, but I am conflicted in my own head. I don’t want jokes based on stereotypes, but I also don’t want to allow my internalised anti fat bias to make me horrified by a ‘fat person eating’ joke. The show is strongly anti fat-shaming, so maybe she can want to eat instead of exercise without it being shameful. Still confused.

    Hello to the puppies!

    Hello Thin! yes you are right about telehealth, although with my doctor it has more often been just a phone call. So handy though.
    I will try to let JJ know we need another clean up. She said it is the spam that causes it, but hasn’t there been so much less span as this site has lost popularity and yet the lag keeps creeping on.

    Anzac, I am SO glad Mr Anzac had such a great time. Just what he needed.
    Woot! for the no snacking and the excess weight lost.
    Woot again for that icy politeness, haha.

    I’m going to aim for a fast day tomorrow. I think I need to concentrate on it being higher protein to help me get through it. I’ll see.

    Best wishes to you all

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    Yesterday I was locked out and required to give a reason for wanting to upload a post. It said I’d be notified when I was allowed back in. No such notification received but I’m back in today. I remember Anzac reporting on this once. Fortunately, I had saved my post so here it is:

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    Morning all, Sunday rolls around quickly. Squeaked in under 60kg so need a good 900g loss from today’s fast.

    Lindsay, I wouldn’t risk giving ‘telehealth’ advice to someone I’ve never met but I would think management for all three of your OH’s leg issues would involve avoiding excessive strain. Presumably the medics feel that the Baker’s Cyst and hamstring tear will ultimately heal themselves and they’ve prescribed painkillers. It’s fortunate that your OH is trim and not putting excessive weight on the knee. I hope the surgery is straightforward – and Happy Birthday to you.

    What’s involved with breeding puppies – why do they need to be under constant supervision? Is that for training?

    We’ve had two sunny days of 16C. It feels warm for mid-November. I seized the day and did some touch up painting yesterday. The paint went on fine in the sun. Then we went for a walk across some Warwickshire paddocks. It’s getting dark early now and I am counting down the weeks until the winter solstace!

    I now have the mini cruise to Helsinki booked. Surprisingly inexpensive – until I added a smörgåsbord for the three of us one night and the price literally doubled! The cabins were a pleasant surprise, modern decor, spacious and a sea view. The ship is putting on an ABBA tribute in one direction and a Queen tribute in the other so it will be fun. I’ve never been on a cruise and cruising doesn’t appeal to me at all (a friend in Perth described it as doing nothing but advancing and retreating from the buffet) but I can handle one night of feasting.

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    Cinque, good morning and all the very best for a fasty fast. I have never met the doctor who referred me for the toe osteotomy. I had to upload a photo of the deformity to a link he sent me and then he phoned me back to confirm my suspected diagnosis. I read that they get £50 for a five minute phone consultation. What a cash cow. I love wonky vegetables and always buy them here – but oh, the packaging, so excessive in England. I liked hand selecting every piece of fruit and veg in Perth.

    What are the reasons given for only a small percentage of people being able to maintain a weight loss? I know in my own case it was foolishly returning to eating the calories needed to sustain my former weight. I did this twice after a significant loss. But then I found IF. Isn’t this the answer? We know that we are still tending to eat more than we require to maintain the new weight so we compensate by fasting one or two days a week. And that act of fasting helps us keep portion control in perspective on the other days and helps us make healthier choices overall. Not only do we lose a little weight after each FD, we don’t gain the little extra that we might have had we not fasted. Can’t fail – can it?

    I did lose 900g yesterday so I am springing along happily today. Have a great week all.

    Morning all

    I had my weigh in today and I was the same weight as last week. It’s no movement down, but at least I managed to consolidate the loss I had last week. It’s kind of pleasing to look at my weight graph and see a straight line over the last two months rather than the rollercoaster up and down over the last year or so before that. I hit the bike the last couple of days and my knee is feeling a lot better now. It felt so good to be back on the bike that I went for a cruise of around 18km on the way home after work. It was a perfect evening with temperatures in the early 20s and nice and sunny. I went down to the harbour, up Leith Valley beside the river, then up through a bush reserve to home. I feel so much better now.

    Thin, congrats on the loss. It’s amusing seeing your older post and then the follow-up in the same post saying I need to lose 900g, I lost 900g 😀

    Cinque, you and me both. Been pretty good with my eating, staying constant in my weight. Hopefully we can turn the good work into progress on the scale, but just maintaining is definitely better than gaining.

    Lindsay, pups can certainly be a handful, even just having one when we got a new dog was a challenge, having a whole litter must be tricky.

    Anzac, great that your OH had such a good time. They say the best friends are those that you can be apart from for years, but when you catch up it’s like you’ve never been apart. It sounds like those two are those type of friends.

    Well back to it, I’m going for a control day of 1800 calories today and I might go out for a ride this evening if the weather is good. Have a good one everyone.

    Good evening everyone.

    It’s been a rough few days here. We had a sever storm here with damage in pretty much every street. I was without power and internet for 2 days and relies who live in the Adelaide hills had a tree stuck by lightning with collapsed onto their roof – they now have some large holes covered with tarpaulins. They had to deal with the tree and the tarpaulins themselves as the emergency services were so overstretched. It’s still quite cold here but so much calmer.

    A much needed FD for me today. My aversion to food waste proved a problem in recent days. As I was without power from Saturday to Monday, I panicked about food in the fridge-freezer. Most of the freezer was ok, but I had the fridge contents on ice and many items in the top drawer of the freezer had started to thaw around the edges. Once the fridge was back on that gave me 3-4 days to eat the partly thawed, bread, bacon, pakoras, vegetables, cream etc. I should have just thrown a lot of it away, but I didn’t. I’ve been madly eating – honestly it’s stupid behaviour. I put an end to it today by fasting. Everything I haven’t eaten won’t keep so now I do have to throw it out.

    Neil, I’m impressed at how quickly you’ve recovered from the bike accident and also with your confidence at getting back on the road again. I do understand how important it is though, to stick with the exercise you enjoy the most – despite the risk. I hope your future cycling is accident free.

    Cinque, good luck for your FD. I’m glad to see you are looking forward to a fasty FD – you weren’t up to those for a while.

    Lindsay, happy belated birthday. I hope your husbands procedure went well.

    Anzac, the kitty cat is going well thanks, but I am also experiencing clouds of hair as she moves. I can’t keep up with it.
    I hope there is better news on the front soon, despite the incompetence of recruiters.

    Thin, I know it’s not as far, but 12.99 to Sweden sounds amazing. I’m looking at over 2-2,500 to get to Europe on basic economy or 4-6,000 for premium economy.

    I have been working on the back garden and have finally sourced the shrubs and climbers I need for the ornamental section and all the holes have been dug. Now I just need to drill holes in the fence to put up the wires for the clematis and I can plant. The only thing I still need to source is a ground cover to fill in the gaps around the salvias and an ornamental feature (still can’t decide between a very large pot or a bird bath or a potted lime tree). The other part of the back yard is the raised veggie beds that I finished a few weeks ago. The veggies are growing really well, despite the unseasonably cold and wet weather. https://imgur.com/a/tGAq69U I sourced some veggie support structures that were more expensive, but heavy duty and a bit more elegant and I hope long lasting. My favouite is my elegant bean support poles.

    Take care everyone.

    LJ, your post really made me laugh. I could identify with your food waste issue so keenly. I’d have been exactly the same. Although it might seem that way to many, I think you’re being hard on yourself saying it’s stupid behaviour – we’re all here because of some odd food behaviours, aren’t we? Some are harder to shake than others. I waste so little food that I could tell you exactly what for the entire year.

    I definitely wasn’t laughing at the part where you cited those airfare costs you’re contemplating. OMG. I knew the fares had gone up considerably between Oz and Europe during covid but that’s just awful. You can take solace in the fact that the airport shuttle bus to Stockholm is costing us more than the flight! (But it still sounds fun to say we can fly there for £12.99!). At least the seats on your plane will be clean, floor vacuumed and you might get a decent meal or two.

    Neil, nice to see that steady graph line for your weight chart. Stay safe on that bike. The weather sounds nice. Things are really closing in on us here, it’s gloomy.

    Morning all

    The weather the last few days has been a bit gloomy. It’s still been reasonable temperatures, but just grey, drizzly and foggy but I still took my bike out. I’m hoping to get out this weekend and ride one of the new sections of bike trail that has opened up on the Clutha Gold trail.

    Ljoyce, having herbs as a ground cover is good. It does the job plus you can use them in cooking. We have silver, variegated and regular thyme, variegated, golden and regular oregano, a couple of types of rosemary, purple and regular sage in our front ornamental garden.

    Thin, That is dirt cheap flights. Even domestic travel is expensive over here, because Air New Zealand laid off half their staff during our covid restrictions and now they’re struggling to get workers back and mothballed planes back up and running.

    Well I hope everyone is doing ok, have a great weekend everyone.

    Hello all, quick post as I am flying out the door to a family early christmas/birthday get together

    I have had a shocking couple of weeks, working 7 days X 14 or 15 hours just to get everything done before I leave. So stress and the anxiety of finding another job got to me and I’ve put on all the weight I lost plus more. I don’t even want to go to Vanuatu now. Enough said

    Those airfares are frightful LJ. We only fly on points so I had no idea how much they had gone up. The points required has also increased significantly

    Take care on that bike if it’s raining Neil

    Lovely weather here for a change. Today is sunny and 29

    Must run, hi everyone else

    Anzac, the sooner this job ends the better, it sounds. Who needs all that stress in their life? What date do you fly away from it all?

    Neil, yes, it’s a familiar theme everywhere. Flights were severely disrupted this past summer due to lack of airline and airport staff but a huge demand for travel. So many people were paid for sitting on their bums during covid and now we have the consequences. Same in hospitality. Walking down any high street, almost all shop, pub and restaurant windows display a sign needing staff.

    Cinque, how are you going? Was it a great fast day?

    Lindsay, hope OH’s surgery went OK.

    I’m enjoying my second coffee after Sunday FD. 600g drop. The temperature has also dropped and it’s been raining quite a bit. We managed to get an appt for our covid boosters this week.

    Morning all

    The last few days have been a bit up and down. Saturday was grey, wet and miserable all day so I couldn’t get any gardening or riding done. My niece was having her 18th birthday on the Sunday and she wanted me to make her some garlic bread, so I spent Saturday making 3 batches of garlic bread and a cake for her party.

    Sunday was pretty cruddy in the morning, but then it started getting better around lunchtime so I took the opportunity to go out for a big 3 hour ride, racking up around 60km. We went round to my niece’s party in the afternoon and just ate food the whole afternoon, so I think I cancelled out any calories I burned on my ride.

    Yesterday was stressful because we had 3 of our team of 7 way ill and it was one of the busiest days of the year and we were struggling with just 4 of us. When I was riding on my way home a bird dive-bombed me, and he must have been a top sniper in the bird world, because not only did he score a hit on my head, but he managed to miss all the structural parts of my helmet, get it down one of the holes and into my hair. I had to ride the rest of the way home covered in crap and when I told my wife she was less than sympathetic….gleefully delighted is probably a better description of her reaction.

    Well I hope everyone else is good, have a good one everyone.

    Good morning everyone,

    Covid got me. Well, I presume it did. RATs have been negative but apparently they only have about 60% success rate with the new variants, and I am starting to feel better so I won’t chase up a pcr test. I have been isolating of course (very easy for me) and thanks to all those vaccinations it has basically been CFS symptoms with added nasty cough.

    It has kept me away from the forum though, not even that much concentration.

    Lindsay, I wondered if you watched the final of the Magda series and what you thought. It reminded me that it wasn’t actually about obesity, but about chronic illnesses, and I thought it was good about the need for a good public health response.

    Thin, so exciting to be off to Helsinki (I was there in ’78! I wonder if it has changed at all 😀 😀 )

    I love how you have your weight so beautifully managed with your regular weighing and know exactly what you will do and when.

    I seem to be going a bit differently because too often the last couple of years I haven’t felt well enough for fasty fast days. I try… and just feel more and more dreadful.
    But luckily that has been balanced out by getting better habits so that I am not eating more than I require so often, and some days eating that bit less than I require.
    It is like blunted 5:2 but it is working for me and I am hoping you don’t all throw me off the forum for not doing it by the book!

    It does seem that while ‘going back to your old ways of eating’ does play a big part in why people who diet put weight back on, there are other factors like changes in metabolism and hunger signals, and also changes our bodies made while we were fatter, like our fat cells stretching bigger, but basically there hasn’t been enough research. It is clear however that most people, over 90%, regain the weight and generally put on more.

    Ooh I think I might do several posts to catch up. See you again soon.

    Morning all (well just ticked over afternoon here)

    I got a bit of a shock at my weekly weigh in this morning. After sitting static for 5 weeks and then down for a couple of weeks, my weight shot up 1.5 kilos on my weigh-in today. It’s the heaviest I’ve been since I was on the way down. I’m really hoping that it’s just a bit of fluid retention and it’ll drop over the next couple of days. I might weight myself daily for a few days to track what’s happening. I’m thinking it’s probably the party food that I ate on Sunday afternoon, because a lot of the Indian snacks that my sister-in-law had at the party (Bhuja, Bhajia, stuffed chilis, etc) are pretty salty.

    Cinque, sorry to hear you’re down with “The Rona” My sister just messaged us to say that my brother-in-law has just tested positive. She says he’s genuinely shocked because he had avoided it until now and had started believing he was immune. Make sure you rest up and don’t try to do too much too soon. That was one thing I noticed when I had it, even when you’re feeling better fatigue can hit you like a train if you try to do too much.

    I hope everyone else is going well, Have a good one everyone.

    Part 2.

    Neil, hooray for less of a rollercoaster. Less anxiety producing, if nothing else!

    When you spoke about being divebombed by the bird, I first thought you meant beak first, like magpies divebomb here in the nesting season, causing injury sometimes. So bird poop is better than a wound…. but only a bit.
    Ooh I remember it happening to me (parrot, I was just standing still minding my own business) and I felt so picked on and affronted!
    I do hope the helmet cleaned up nicely, as well as your poor head.

    And I hope your workmates are quickly back on board!

    LJoyce, I did think of you when that storm hit Adelaide. But oh dear, 2 days without power and internet.
    Sympathy for the ‘how to not waste all that good food’ organisation kicking in. I am the same. In general it is such an important instinct.
    It sounds like your garden wasn’t effected, and that you are all set to have it growing beautifully over summer. It looks extraordinary already! Are they zucchini? Ooh there is nothing like the tender little zucchini you can pick from your garden.
    And it also looks like you will have tomatoes by Christmas!

    Anzac, so much sympathy for your difficult weeks, but cheers and medals for getting through!
    I do hope you manage to get to Vanuatu and have the absolute BEST time. If anyone puts you down for having extra bulges, feel free to punch them in the nose and tell them it is from me.

    Ooh look, I think I have caught up. Best wishes all
    xxx

    Morning all

    Well bodies are stupid things. I had my shock on the scales yesterday, up 1.5 kilos from the previous week. Yesterday I ate over 2,000 calories: home-made muesli bar and coffee for morning tea, 4 boiled eggs, tin of tuna and salad for lunch, lamb chop, roast potatoes, salad, half an avocado and a buttermilk pancake for dinner. This morning I dropped a kilo from yesterday’s weigh in.

    Neil, I leapfrogged your post yesterday and when I saw it I was all ready to sympathise with the weight jump, and today, ha, it has gone.

    Blame the scales, not the bodies!

    But I am still intrigued by the way it takes several days for a bit of binge eating to show up on the scales. How does that work?

    I feel a bit betterer today so off to clear up in the kitchen I go. Best wishes all.

    Morning all. A quick post. Cinque, good to hear from you. You okay? I don’t think it matters if you don’t do a pure 5:2. You have tamed your eating patterns, and surely that is the objective. More on Magda in another post. Interesting.

    Neil, our bodies trick us. I don’t understand how they work either. I got home from the hospital so totally pooped the other night that I just had an apple for dinner. And put on .4. But …it’s gone, and another few grams too, to bring me to five kilos lost since I started back in earnest on 7 October.

    OH is out of hospital…he came home yesterday. They kept him in for his oncology treatment – the centre is in the hospital complex, and they were going to wheel him over and back. But his oncologist totally unexpectly visited him in hospital, and arranged for the immunotherapy treatment to be given in his room. I know I’ve said it before – but he is having amazing care.

    He is in a world of pain – he says this operation has been the worst. He’s been confined to his bed in hospital for 10 days, and now has to have bed rest for another 4-6 weeks. Oh my! And weight is dropping …he’s now 67 kilos (oh how I wish I were). Being home will help his recovery no end. Bluecare will come twice a week to change the dressings on his leg.

    Enough about that! Anzac I feel your pain. I do have a suggestion, although it’s not in the spirit of 5:2, but it could help you get started. Have you thought about having LitenEasy delivered? I got it for the first week OH was in hospital, because I knew I would revert to vegemite toast rather than prepare proper food for myself (life is pretty full-on with the pups). Just a thought, to get you started??

    Off to Helsinki Thin? Like Cinque, I’ve also been there. A very pretty city centre, and some lovely bars. I also remember a lot of salmon, and little berries – cloudberries, I think they were called. I also remember British Airways losing our suitcases, which only arrived on the day we left. And BA gave us the princely sum of $100 each to replace essentials. Not a king’s ransom, even a decade ago. Fortunately we were carrying our heavy coats.

    LJ I understood exactly your post! Throwing away good food is …well, if not a sin, then something to be avoided at all costs. That was drummed into us as kids, and it’s stuck. Your garden sounds so lovely – I’d love some pics.

    The fares have certainly increased – we’d tentatively booked Qantas to London with stopovers in Singapore on the way there, and Perth on the way back, for $2300 in March. But….it’s only tentative. Not sure where OH will be, healthwise, by then.

    Thin, reading back, you asked a question about breeding. They are too early to train …that will start in a couple of weeks. But for the first four weeks they shouldn’t be left alone. They can’t regulate their own body heat, so if there’s any sign of distress they need to be warmed (or cooled, with a damp cloth). Now they have passed the magic four weeks (last Sunday), they are starting to be weaned, and are getting more independent, so it’s okay to leave them for short spells.

    I did want to have a rant, though, about baby food. The pups are weaned on to baby cereal. I bought a good brand, organic (not that it needed to be, it was all that was there). The old Farex that was around back in the day has been replaced by the highly marketed ‘healthy, organic, probiotic, yadayadayada’ So reading the label for their oat cereal for babies of 5 months…. 52% oats, and then the next two ingredients are rice and ….pureed apple……which is really just sugar in another form.

    The other brand I bought -a Nestle product – contains oat flour, wheat flour with soy, and maltodextrin (a sugar substitute with a higher GI than sugar) as its third ingredient.

    It’s so unethical – training new baby palates to prefer sweet foods, and starting them down the road to processed food. And many parents would think they are doing the right thing.

    OK off to do stuff before Bluecare arrives.

    Take care all

    Neil, like Cinque, I read your sniper post thinking it would have a violent ending. My OH was an avid cyclist before we left Perth and would often get dive bombed by aggressive magpies defending their nests. Your wife’s reaction was interesting!

    Cinque, oh no, covid caught up with you. I think nowadays it’s a question of when, not if, we get it. We had our booster vax yesterday and I’m not feeling great after that. No particular issue, I just feel out of sorts. I went to bed at 8.30pm feeling intensely tired but woke after an hour or so and couldn’t sleep most of the night. But, once you’ve had it, you needn’t fear it so that’s good.

    Cinque, thank you for following up about the weight gain after a big loss theories. It makes me grateful to be among the 10% even if it was the third time lucky for me. This week, I remained the same weight for several days in a row, until we had a pub curry after the booster jab yesterday. Up 400g.

    Lindsay, sorry to hear your OH’s surgery recovery has been so involved with extras thrown in. And, with all that puppy towelling required, no wonder you initially gave him the option of delaying the breeding until after his treatment. But I expect they also brought a lot of joy and smiles. Agree, disgraceful introducing all that sugary rubbish to baby food.

    It’s been a couple of weeks since I mentioned to Anzac that Qantas finally resolved my issue. Today, I had a response from another supervisor hoping to re-resolve things. She states that reason I’d been unable to purchase something on their website was because I only had 25 points at the time. (I had tens of thousands). But, not to worry, she has re-instated my 25 points (she hasn’t) and apologises for the delay getting it sorted out. Why on earth would I have been trying to spend 4,700 points in order to keep 25 points from expiring?

    We were just having coffee with some Aussies on a friend’s boat (passed each other on the canal). They had business class tickets with Q to England that were cancelled during covid. Q refused to give them the option to travel at a later date, instead converting the tickets into vouchers which, because of the excessive price increases, were only worth premium economy seats (or whatever they call it) when they used them on this trip. What a way to run a business.

    While I’m having a good old moan, the pesky rail workers, yep the ones earning an average of £42k and up to £62K, have announced their Christmas strike dates. The first falls on the day we travel from opposite sides of the country to meet at the airport. Not the end of the world but damned annoying. We might have to spend two nights at the airport hotel now. I just can’t see how they think it’s acceptable when the whole country is suffering from high inflation, colossal energy bills, food prices rising weekly, etc. It just seems so utterly selfish and short-sighted.

    Fancy Cinque and Lindsay both having visited Helsinki. I am so ignorant of all things Scandinavian and looking forward to exploring. It’s snowing in Stockholm. These same Aussies from earlier have just returned and had a fabulous time there.

    * She states that the reason …

    Good morning,

    Welcome home MR Lindsay!
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    How nice for you to have him right there Lindsay, it must make life so much easier as well as nicer. So sorry to hear about the pain though. I do hope it is getting less every day.
    Hooray for them making the immunotherapy treatment easier! I do so hope that he (and you!) get a much needed break from more health difficulties and can just enjoy the puppies and life.

    My cough is getting less every day. So straightforward and clear, which is wonderful, especially compared to the nasty chronicness of ME/CFS.

    That baby food situation is dreadful, Sugar in everything is the food business way to maximise profits. Sigh.

    Thin, yes, I am glad I should be immune from covid again for a while, although some people get reinfected after a month. Sigh. But ofcourse I will be doing all the covid safe things still.

    Good luck navigating life among the strikes, the idiots and the general madness of life.

    Best wishes to everyone

    Good morning all from a yet-again sunny and warm Sydney. La Nina? What La Nina? May it last

    How can it already be Friday? Three more weeks until the end of my contract. Despite there being an incredibly high number of suitable jobs, I still have not found one and now things have gone very very quiet; I guess it is the lead up until Christmas. However the promising news is a project director from a completely different area of the bank heard about me and is very keen to take me on. It is EXACTLY where and what I want and (a) I get right away from this toxic area and (b) I don’t have to leave and go through the whole being the new girl and learning all the new policies and procedures. Please cross all limbs for me. This is in a new area of payments that I am quite desperate to learn about and gain experience in as it is completely replacing the current international payment process thus rendering my 30+ years experience null and void.

    I am back on the wagon, helped by needing a back tooth extraction on Tuesday. OUCH. I haven’t felt like eating much since so that is a positive.

    So glad your cough is getting better Cinque. Thin is right, it is a matter of when now, not if. Although I do hope my Dad can remain clear of it as he is 97 and despite all the boosters it wouldn’t be a good thing for sure

    Thin, we have not resolved our Qantas issue and are ready to give up. Oh, and just for fun, the air crews are promising to strike over Christmas. Luckily we are not flying Qantas to Vanuatu (we are flying Air Vanuatu)

    Neil I constantly wonder at the cunning scales but it always seems to balance out in the end. A binge is a binge and a fast is a fast and eventually the weight will go on or come off accordingly. We’ll both get there if we stay positive

    Thanks for the light and easy thought Lindsay but I truly do not like pre-prepared meals. I’m glad your OH is home but very sorry for what you have both been through and for his current pain. I hope it abates quickly

    Hi to everyone else, have a great day all

    Good morning all

    A quick post I’m afraid, as I have a friend arriving for a walk shortly.

    I saw my doctor yesterday and at the end of the consult he said that although I’ve had all the covid boosters that I am entitled to, GPs can now authorise further vaccines if they think it’s warranted. He took me straight around to their practice nurse for the new Moderna vaccine (the one that covers omicron). I was pleasantly surprised about that and very grateful. If anyone else is in a similar situation please have a chat to your GP.

    Cinque, sorry to hear you caught covid, but glad that you are on the mend. I hope there are no long term impacts for you. Sending you virtual hugs.

    Neil, I agree with the other comments – our bodies are unpredictable when it comes to weight.
    I tried not laugh at your story of the bird sniper. I’m afraid I failed. Sorry.

    Anzac, I hope your final 3 weeks aren’t too stressful. Excellent news about the potential new job, I’ll keep everything crossed.
    How do you manage to accrue enough points for airtravel? I have my WW rewards set to qantas points and I also get points daily from the Qantas Wellbeing app. Any advice on other things I could be doing would be much appreciated. I’m not even aiming to pay for my entire fares by points – just being able to upgrade from economy to premium would be worthwhile for me.

    Thin, I haven’t been to Helsinki (one day hopefully), but I hope you enjoy it, rail strikes aside.

    Lindsay, glad that Mr Lindsay is finally home. I hope he recovers more quickly now that he is back with you.
    I totally understand your comment about vegemite toast – it’s always been my go to when I’m too tired to think about meals – accompanied by a pot of tea of course.

    Must go, time a walk before it warms up – a rare 30C day here.
    Take care all.

    Hi LJ

    I hope you had a nice walk

    We are MANIC about points. Here are some tips:

    1. The best way is to sign-up for one of the credit cards that has bonus points. Yes they have higher annual fees and you do have to spend a few thousand dollars in the first 3 months but worth it for 100k (or more) points. We always get one a month before our HUGE annual private health insurance is due for example. Also don’t let it slip into the second year – cancel it so you don’t have to pay the annual fee again. You’ve got your points so objective gained

    2. Get another credit card (use a different bank as there is a condition in the T&C’s that say if you get another credit card from the same institution you don’t get your points) some time after you get your points and before the second years annual fee is due. Cancelling a credit card is easy these days. IMPORTANT NOTE: This may impact your credit score. I have been doing it over and over for about 10 years and have had no averse reaction but I am not sure if it might. Also make sure that your new credit card is not with a bank that is affiliated with the first bank. For example if you got a Westpac card first, you can’t get points with St George, BankSA, Bank of Melbourne or RAMS for 12 months. Yes we found this out the hard way. They don’t tell you when you apply, it’s just when you ring up and say ‘where are my points’ they sorrowfully tell you that you are not eligible. Bah

    3. We shop at Coles or Aldi as they are the closest but also are Woolworths card holders. Every few weeks they send out an offer of xxx points if you spend nnnn dollars. We do our shopping at Woolies that week

    4. We buy our wine from Qantas and gets good bonus points, but I seem to remember you don’t drink so that’s no good for you. It’s expensive but excellent quality

    That’s all off the top of my head, I will let you know if I think of anything else.

    Anzac, how easy is it for those of us no longing working to qualify for a new credit card? I had an offer from an existing bank the other day and the fee was $450 per annum. They must be pulling my leg. Don’t give up on your Q issue! From the responses I’ve had, I can see that they are in chaos, make sure you wear them down, not the other way round. I hope you get the job you want. How will the new international payment system work? Or is it top secret?

    Our DD had her last day at work yesterday. It’s sometimes not until you leave that you realise how highly thought of you’d been. They gave her some incredibly generous farewell gifts and the words in the cards made me cry too. She keeps the company house and car a little longer due to holiday pay and so on. I feel so sad, but on to the next adventure we go.

    Cinque, you like a bit of science news so I thought you might like this. Drinking eight glasses of water per day is now considered too much, welcome news for people like me who never found that an easy fit: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-north-east-orkney-shetland-63755475

    Anzac, sorry I meant ‘no longer working’ above.

    Morning all,

    Well, I had a good weekend. I got some gardening done on Saturday and took my boy into town to hang around for a while. Yesterday I got out for a good ride for 3 hours doing some hill climbing. My weight has been up and down but is currently around what it has been for the last couple of months.

    Thin, I certainly need more than 8 glasses a day on days that I am cycling, but I had read that we didn’t normally need 8 glasses a day because of the water in our food. I usually have a 1.5 litre bottle of water at my desk and work through that during the course of a work day.

    LJ, I don’t know if any of the banks over there are the same, but over here you could get Air New Zealand air points if you had your mortgage with the bank that was affiliated with the scheme. My sister and brother-in-law had their mortgage with the bank and got a certain number of points for every dollar of their mortgage over $150,000.

    Anzac, sorry to hear about the tooth extraction, but at least reduction of eating is a decent side effect. I had a friend that was sick for a week, she dropped 5 kilos in that week and then couldn’t eat as much the following week. She said it wasn’t a good way to lose 5 kilos but she’ll take it.

    Cinque, good to see you’re on the mend with your cough. Hopefully the weather over there is improving. It always helps recovering from an illness if it’s a nice warm sunny day.

    Well I hope everyone has a great week.

    Good evening all.

    After a few days of meals out and too many extras, my weight was up this morning so I’m back on a strict plan again. I’m hoping a week or two of being very careful on NFDs will get me back to where I was.

    Anzac, thank you so much for the advice. I had seen Qantas affiliated cards, but hadn’t considered once because of the annual fee. It hadn’t occurred to me to cancel within the first year and then get another one. I am looking at options now. I do have a similar worry as Thin – as a retiree will they consider my income to be adequate. I guess I apply and find out – they can only say no.

    Neil, my own bank offers 300,000 Qantas points for new mortgages of at least $300K. Unfortunately it doesn’t apply to existing loans and my loan was far too small to qualify.

    Lindsay, I am working on the back garden. I finished planting the clematis and salvias this afternoon, but still have several jobs to do before it’s worthy of a photo.
    I do have a photo of the front garden. The salvias and the crab apple floribunda were planted last year. The crab apple hasn’t noticeably increased in size, but the salvias have grown from small plants to now covering the entire area. I’ll have to be very patient for the tree to grow and become a feature. It is destined to be outshone by the salvias for a few years yet.
    This is 15 months ago: https://imgur.com/a/W1SQpw3
    And last week: https://imgur.com/a/pibl7zK

    On the garden front, the veggie patch is starting to yield a variety of edibles – spinach, lettuce, peas, zucchini and strawberries. Given how cold and wet the spring has been, it’s amazing that I’m picking anything yet. On a low note, the frequent rain has caused a fungal infection in some of the tomatoes, so I’m not sure how long those plants will last. I’ve removed all visibly affected leaves, but I suspect that won’t be enough. It’s interesting that the heirloom varieties are the most impacted – lack of disease resistance is probably a reason why they are heirlooms and no longer commercially grown. There is a lot of green fruit on the tomato plants though, so I’m hoping they’ll still ripen.

    NFD for me today and I’ve been nicely restrained thankfully. I’m about to heat up a cup of pumpkin soup, which I’ll have with two boiled eggs and kibbled rye toast for dinner. FD tomorrow and a long walk with a friend in the hills is planned.

    Take care all.

    Nice to read your updates Neil and LJ. Those loyalty programmes are staggering. Do the mortgage companies/banks offering hundreds of thousands of points buy them from Qantas/Air NZ? I would never change my spending habits to earn so-called loyalty points but I’m happy to take advantage of them when offered. I think flight loyalty points are a particular scam because you still pay ‘fees’ and ‘fuel charges’ amounting to a significant percentage of the original fare cost. That would be like your local cafe charging you for the milk on your ‘bonus’ cup of coffee.

    So Anzac, I’m interested to know – in using your points to fly business class, is your ‘fees and fuel’ contribution the same as if flying cattle class? If so, the overall percentage paid in cash would be significantly lower making it very worthwhile. Married to a pilot but I’ve only flown business class once (emergency landing so first to arrive at the scene) and once had a free flight (not a loyalty thing).

    Day after FD for me, back to exactly 59kg. I’ve been regularly comparing my weight with the two years before and there’s very little deviation so I really should stop worrying. I am quite concerned about this Scandinavian trip as ‘smorgasboard’ seems the key food word. And I’ve just realised that Christmas Day falls on my FD this year. Constant vigilance is my saviour. But I’d rather be obsessing about upcoming food choices than how to get excess weight off so all is well.

    It is clear and sunny but now quite cold. We’re inching closer to the winter mooring (1 Dec) and not looking forward to swapping the views of grazing cows and sheep for someone else’s portholes.

    Good morning lovely people,

    Anzac, how lovely for a job to come up that is so nicely fitting with what you want. All my fingers and toes crossed!

    My neighbour was telling me how his 97 year old father got covid (nursing home bus trip) but they handled it so well, all fully vaccinated and straight onto the anti virals and he did really well and is recovered fine now. So hopefully if your dad is infected, he will also come through.

    I do hope your poor gum is nicely healed, and that non-eating time just helped you adjust and feel very delighted at the small, delicious meals that suit your long term lifestyle.

    That is what I am concentrating on at the moment So much of my overeating is around feelings of deprivation, but I just love it when I can fully appreciate and enjoy simple eating and feel like I am looking after myself really well.

    I can remember a zen friend telling me about ‘the space between the breaths’ and now I am exploring ‘the space between the meals’ 😉 😉 😉

    LJoyce, so glad you are as up to date as you possibly can be with vaccines.
    Thankyou, I seem to be recovering fully, in fact I am probably feeling better than I have been for a while! I do hope that lasts.

    Good luck with the air travel points!

    The purple salvia is just gorgeous! It must make you smile every time you look at it.
    So sorry about the tomato fungus, t has been such tricky weather. My broad beans got rust very quickly this year (didn’t help that I let the nasturtiums go mad around them!).

    Thin, so lovely to hear about the esteem your daughter is held in by her workmates. What a great start to her career, and best wishes to her on the next step.
    Does it mean the end of your canal boat life too?

    I do like seeing that research! About time there was some proper work done, it has all been pretty much conjecture.
    I am definitely outside the normal range! I presume it is an ME/CFS thing but not sure how, especially because it is not all ME/CFS people who need to drink as much water as I do.

    Neil, what a great weekend.
    You are so right about the weather. It is good today, and makes everything easy.

    Thin, woot for exactly 5.9kg. Smorgasboards will be an interesting challenge but you can do it! Ooh yummy thin rye bread and cheese and pickles. Great smorgadboard brekky I remember from Finland.

    Sending more good wishes to Mr Lindsay, I hope everything is going well.

    Best wishes everyone, for a good day.

    Lovely post Cinque, you sound great.

    Good morning lovely people.

    I suspect you are all dealing with the busy life that always seems to hit in December. Today is my only free day this week. All those get togethers lose their charm when they are all crowded into one month. I also have three christmas lunches to attend from 24th through to 28th – and I’m cooking some of the food for each of them. I enjoy spending time with all of the people I’m catching up with, but it really is too much for me in this time frame. I always end up wondering how I agreed to so many things without realising how busy my schedule was getting? Every year this surprises me, why don’t I learn?

    I am trying to get my weight back on track but some of my NFDs have been less than ideal. The FDs are fine, but I seem to be hungry early on the next NFD and eat quite a bit through the morning – this is uncommon behaviour for me as an early lunch is usually my first meal. I am so used to not eating breakfast, that when I do it leaves me with insufficient calories for the rest of the day – I’m not sure how to adapt my food planning to this new hunger pattern. I think being woken by the cat at 4:30-5:30 every morning isn’t helping – it’s a very long morning when I’m awake that early. I might try sleeping with ear plugs for a week or two and see if I can stretch my rising time to 7:30. I might even be able to train her to a later waking time if I don’t respond to her dawn meowing – I won’t hold my breath on that one.

    Time for me to get on with today’s chores, as it’s my one chance to get things done this week.

    Have a lovely day everyone.

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