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  • Day22 Belfast NFD
    Was feeling elated after b2b and on the first of the two days, my weight was the lowest it has been for many years. The next day the scales read 1 lb heavier and today I’m up a total of 4lbs. 😟 I am a daily weighed like many of you folks, but only post on Saturday, so I have a whole week to re-adjust. I also feel bloated today which is a feeling I haven’t had in a while. I shan’t let it get me down. Tomorrow is a new day and as Orpheus said it’s all part of the cycle.
    Thank you to all everyone who has posted lots of wise words. Coda, I identify myself in many of the things you said. I have had lots of compliments recently on my weight loss and one of the things I have said to friends to ‘promote’ this diet is that I have re-discovered hunger. I am an emotional eater for sure, and ate to a timetable when I worked, whether I was hungry or not. Now I have retired and the stress has subsided I am slowly learning to re-connect to my body, which hasn’t been easy. I still have anger issues from outside work, and there are days when I still eat stupidly, particularly sugar, but I’m working on it! It’s all about the journey.
    Anna6 you are very wise to get the test. My OH has one early Feb and it’s good to keep check.
    Weeme well done for sticking it out without losing heart
    GoldenSun I’m holding your hand across the Irish Sea.
    Reading and posting on this blog has become a challenge in its own right!
    I need to catch up on the rest of the posts today, so love and support to all those who are struggling and well done to all the successes. Have a good day.

    @Ciren – the perfectionist – i still think you ate too hard on yourself. Relax and go with the flow a bit. Really, keep the faith and it will happen, you are beating yourself up when you have come so far. Tell me what good things have you told yourself recently, have you given yourself a smile and a wink and said I’m looking good? – did you enjoy the bread roll? Then forget it. I had the most delicious olive bread yesterday with my salad and I enjoyed it and I’m a lot more than 4lbs from my target and have not even reached my ultimate goal yet. x

    Day 22 Melbourne NFD
    Not a CD today at all. Had pancakes for breakfast (no sugar, at least that’s something) lunch out with a friend I haven’t seen for months and had a piece of flourless orange cake… Over TDEE that’s for sure and 5 hours just driving… Ho hum this day is over and tomorrow is another day.

    @goldensun ((hugs)) to you as you go through some hard days. Hang in there! You have a whole bunch of real people, even though we only appear ‘virtually’, sending good wishes and hopes and prayers for strength.

    Day 22 : Cheshire, UK : Not sure yet

    @coda @debster251 – Heartfelt thanks! I didn’t think I would post such personal details on here but you are all so lovely and supportive.

    Today, I’m feeling heartbroken and numb. Don’t feel like eating. Later today I have a session with some friends from my meditation group that will help me look at the emotional side of this.

    @coda – you are right, he does have some issues. He wouldn’t consider counselling. He didn’t have a good experience when he had Relate counselling for his marriage many years ago. I agree with you that love isn’t everything. We don’t live together so I’m considering if we are not reconciled after a week then I will have to seriously think of walking away. It really affects me although I know that I hurt him last week by behaving in a way that excluded him and as if I didn’t care about him. I’m just really sad. We were getting on so well then my insecurities popped up hence my behaviour. I know I shouldn’t have been insecure because he had been soo loving and caring towards me, weeks and days before.

    Hopefully, I will have more clarity and feel better after my session.

    I’m amazed how much I rest on this thread for emotional support. I’m very grateful.

    xoxo

    UK day 22 NFD chose to break my dry January yesterday , I’m happy I had 3 weeks without alcohol and I’m going to keep my consumption low for the rest of the month but I did enjoy yesterday, met up with old friends who are living in Spain, had a great catch up over a few drinks follow by a lovely meal – aiming for a good NFD today will fast tomorrow as usual and looking to have a very controlled week

    Day 22 USA (Illinois) NFD

    Fuvvie – change Day 21 for me to a FD. I did manage to stay right at 500 calories, so I ought to get credit for that. Right? πŸ™‚ Looking forward to a nice breakfast this morning here.

    GoldenSun – hugs to you for all your struggles. May you know your local and virtual friends are behind you.

    Debster – congratulations on your peeps recognizing your weight loss. Isn’t that just the best feeling when people notice all our hard work? It certainly has been for me. It’s also incentive to keep it off so I won’t disappoint my ‘world’ around me. I have known quite a few women who lost only to re-gain it all back. That makes me sad for them, and I don’t want anyone to pity me. That’s why I am working so hard on maintenance.

    Onward and downward, everyone.

    Day 22 Surrey UK FD still being plagued by computer problems. Getting seriously angry 😠

    Day 22 St. Louis, MO USA NFD

    @goldensun – there aren’t really words to could make a dent in your emotions but I hope you do see there are many many folks that are circling around you to give you strength. We care about you.

    @BrightenBelle – I had my first glass too last week. I hadn’t planned on staying dry all month it has just worked out that way with this new WOL. But that glass was so wonderful and I gotta say, it gave me such pleasure to have a glass with my two favorite co-workers that the next day I felt even stronger than before. No regrets!

    @Debster241 – something similar happened to me after a B2B2B but I know one thing for sure, I didn’t suddenly expand the 2.5 inches around my waist that has disappeared so I am going to not fret about the pounds bouncing around. Day by Day!

    GoldenSun, perhaps being anonymous helps. You’ve obviously done some soul searching. Have you actually been as honest with Him? You acknowledged how kind and loving he is. Perhaps you need to sit down and have a frank and open discussion as much about your insecurities as the relationship problems. Perhaps by being very honest , you’ll be able to mend some fences. Good luck xo
    SongBirdMe. Thank you for that. I have now got two of my friends on the same path, one who is doing the diabetes diet. I admire your tenacity, you’re so right. So many, including me, have gone up and down with their weight. This time is different for me and I hope to be in the same position as you in the not too distant future.
    Fuvvie. Thank you again for your hard work.

    @Ried – I am a bit late but rooting you on for a great FD!

    @weeme – congratulations on your success!

    @fuvvie – you are on a ROLLLLLLLLLLL – keep on keeping on!

    @coda – thank you for the inspirational notes! Will cut and paste and save for a rainy day πŸ™‚

    I will be doing a B2B this coming week. Traveling Monday – Wed which makes it a little hard for me in and out of meetings and working alongside an associate on my team. Perhaps starting after dinner on Wednesday and going to dinner on Friday. Anyone up for that?????? Wanna????

    @reid.
    Congratulations on making the fast. Support really helps. Well doneπŸ‘

    Day 22, NFD AZ USA

    Laddie- good luck on the B2B!! i’ll be doing a back to back this week too but I’m going to shoot for Tuesday- Wednesday since I’m going on a long hike on Thursday and Friday.

    Coda- thanks for all the wise words. My husband did a 58 hour fast with only liquids and I asked him what was he doing now to cope with his emotions. We both had a pretty good laugh over it.

    Day 22/Midwest USA/ FD

    new ways of being: new ways to rest, new ways to eat, new ways to be active. That is what is on my agenda for today! Let’s do this!

    Day 22….Florida…. NFD

    What a long week, six days straight. Fuvvie, you can put me down for NFD for all week. Sorry about being MIA, the last couple days.

    By far this has been the toughest week, I’ve had in a long time. I’m hoping as I’ve got today and tomorrow off, my everything lines back up and I get my life back.

    Work has been non stop as usual, however, I did find it more difficult to train when it’s like that. The bosses keep asking me, how she’s getting along, in one instance I want to tell them that I’m really afraid she’s not going to cut it, but in the same thought I don’t want to cut her legs out from under her when she only been on the job a week. So, I error on the side of caution and say she needs more time.
    Then, I found out one of my bosses like her as a person but is finding that she does not quite like her as a worker! Ugg!
    So, work should be interesting on Tues, when I go back because the one that doesn’t like her much is training her all day.

    Food wise….. heck, I’m not even sure where to begin on that. I’m over eating and I know it. I’m trying but my heart this week just wasn’t in it. So, the next two days will be NFD, while I try to wrap my head around all of it and sort the issues out.

    Mamacat…… I’m doing a B2B tues and wed. as well. So, let’s gather some pocket pals and tackle it head on!

    GoldenSun…… I wish there was some magically fairy dust, I could sprinkle over you and make it all better! Being a couple, is hard work, looking back on my relationship, I have to say the first 15 years were tough. Life has away of throwing mud, when there really is no need. I have no clear cut advice but what I can say to you…. Is when you love yourself, respect yourself and be yourself, relationships find a way of working themselves out, but you must do you first! Once you love and respect yourself, no one else has a choice but to love and respect you.

    Well…. breakfast is ready!

    Cheers!

    Day 22 Canada NFD

    Day 22 – Staffordshire UK-nfd

    Lovely day celebrating my niece’s birthday and I didn’t eat any birthday cake.

    Yay Bert!! I’m in! And I’m going to need the extra support.

    Tues-wed pocket fasters so far

    Bert1802
    Mamacat

    Day 22 Ireland NFD
    debster I know exactly how you feel… my weight can swing like that too… I deliberately haven’t weighed myself today just in case the scales have swung up!
    coda… your posts were very interesting… I think I’m a boredom eater, or I eat to delay doing a piece of work that needs doing as part of the process of settling down to do it. And very often I’m a mindless eater and haven’t checked whether I’m actually hungry or not. So must think of ways to get round this… checking here and reading posts is a good start and helps remind me of what we are trying to achieve.
    Would like to do a b2b this week too…
    Think possiblely might try for FD on Monday and then b2b thurs – fri. With you Laddie?

    Sending Lots of extra thoughts for those going through difficult times in their life… and thanks for all the encouragement shared here.

    GoldenSun: Sending love and hugs to you both xxx Don’t give up.

    Day 22 Canada, CD

    Hosting a dinner party tonite, so looking to keep a tight rein on tasting while cooking today. But then will relax and enjoy the evening and eating with old friends. I gave up alcohol a couple years ago as I would only get a headache from drinking, not the nice buzz I used to get when younger. I now have a sparkling water in a fancy glass and love it. Leaves me extra calories to spend on dessert😊.

    Reid I like the ‘win it’ moniker. Sounds like you had a lovely day, well done you.

    Golden sun, thinking of you . . .

    Day 22, FD. New York, USA.

    Have decided to commit to not drink for two weeks. I think I’m retaining water from wine. Funny. I’m turning wine into water instead of the opposite!

    Two patterns I will have to break: walking in the door, puttering around, then pouring a glass of wine to sit down with, Also, drinking wine with my OH before dinner. To break this pattern I’m going to call home when I leave and ask someone to put the kettle on, pour me a cup of tea, so that as SOON as I walk in, I have a beverage already WAITING for me, and at least I can hit the pause button on the automatic reach for the wine. Because when I come in, it’s hard to change my habits. I have to remember that when I was younger, before I got married, money was MUCH tighter and I would never have dreamed of having a glass of wine every day. Ugh. It’s not necessary, it’s just a habit. Anyway, my goal is to see how it really goes without this in my life. Will going without it make my life not worth living? Highly doubtful! That’s just the little voice in my head. Shut up little voice.

    Day 22 USA Hawaii NFD

    American football fans: anyone have faves playing our football today? Only 4 teams left before the Feb 5 Super Bowl for those who are not fans.

    Around here, it’s either love or hate the Green Bay Packers. But *I* as a Chicago Bears fan (their arch enemy) am happy they are still in it. I live about 4 hours south of Green Bay, so lots of folks around me are anxious for that game to be over!

    I am thinking I must have pizza and a beer for the game. I know… not the best use of calories, but I will make up for it tomorrow!

    Day 22. Sussex. U.K.
    NFD.

    Day 23 NZ NFD
    Grandchildren are staying for a couple of days for the last week of the school holidays.We are off to the pools this morning.Its meant to be summer here but the weather has been decidedly cool. Have a good day everyone.

    Day 23 FD NZ

    Lots of back to school prep and appointments today so that should help the FD fly by. I’m thinking liquid only today hopefully but I never feel bad if I need the calories in the evening to get me through and I always keep it under 400cals so I’ll aim for liquids but take it as it comes.
    I’m sorry so many people are struggling with issues outside of 5:2, my thoughts go out to all of you.
    Well done to everyone who aimed for dry Jan and made it 3weeks, I’m very grateful that alcohol isn’t one of my (many) areas to improve on.
    I used to enjoy a drink but for many years now have had no interest in alcohol, when I counted calories I had a lightbulb moment and realised I didn’t want to waste the calories on something that contained no nutritional value and gave me no real enjoyment. It’s not like that for everyone but I just stopped getting enough pleasure from it to bother.
    I’ve had the same experience with bread, pasta, and rice. I have them all up years ago other than a small spoon of rice (teaspoon) maybe once every couple of months if I’m cooking it.
    I don’t miss any of that either, I can’t really imagine when in the day I would eat any of that stuff anymore but sugar….well that’s a whole different story.
    So with my tracking of NFDs beginning this week I’m going to watch my sugar intake and try to reduce my reliance on my little white nemesis. I ultimately want to cut out sweets and chocolate on all but the most special occasions and I know my cravings have decreased since starting this wol so I’m positive I can get there but I’m also realistic that it won’t but as simple as the other things I’ve shifted away from.
    Must get on with my day, I’ve been in here 30minutes already and the kids still aren’t out of bed yet!

    Day 22, NFD New Zealand

    Day 22 : Cheshire, UK : FD

    I’ve decided it’s a FD and I’ve had 423 calories. I’m usually an emotional eater and would have bought a take-away, crisps and chocolate to numb my feelings so I’m pleased that I haven’t. The scales are showing a drop in pounds but I will give my weight officially at the end of the month. The LCHF seems to be working.

    I’ve been meditating and doing a meditation practice looking at what I did unconsciously to sabotage my relationship. I’ve seen, so now I can act as soon as I see the same pattern repeating. I’m still feeling a little raw but I do feel stronger than I have in the past.

    I’m so touched by each of you that have sent a personal message to me of love, hugs, support and good wishes. It really has helped me. I can feel your love and care across land, sea and the skies!

    So I’m sending my love and a warm hug to these special people in particular……..

    @coda
    @In it to thin it

    @ciren2 – I’m not giving up πŸ™‚ thank you!

    @bert1802 – I love the idea of magical fairy dust. If only!

    @debster251 – I have been honest with him and have apologised. He wants reassuring that this doesn’t happen again. I wasn’t able to give him that at first but now I can give him something. I texted him and he responded positively to say that it helps and he’s feeling a little more like himself.

    @laddie10
    @songbirdme

    @biddiev – thank you for the prayers

    @weemee
    @lany36

    I really hope I haven’t missed anyone but if I have, please know that your messages mean so much to me. xoxo

    Day 23 Sunshine Coast Qld Australia: FD: 104.4 kgs

    It sounds as though a lot of soul searching is helping you sort yourself out, GoldenSun. Good for you. Meditation is a bonus. I’m glad he is feeling more positive as well.

    Our boys are back to school today. It does give me a sense of freedom till 3pm. Just able to do what I want for a few hours. Think I may do the 5 hour round trip to see my mother-in-law. If I leave in an hour I should avoid the traffic jams. It’s a month since I last saw her. She may well not recognise me anymore due to her Alzheimers Disease.

    I listened to Lustig lecture on sugar last night. The physiology blinded me somewhat, but the whole scenario is very damning re fructose. I’ve taken some photos of the slides so I can look at the physiology more slowly and work through it. He was very convincing.

    Just a week to go. This month has certainly seen a turn around for me, and I’m grateful for all the support. I guess the next leader will have a link up soon for the February challenge. Time for a coffee.

    Bert, you are going through a stressful time and it sounds as though the cortisol has you by the throat. Give yourself a break. You sound as though you are doing your best for the girl. I can’t quite work out what sort of organisation you work in but it sounds very tight knit. It must be daunting for a newcomer to face what is obviously a stressful environment. When i was working full time, and it was incredibly hectic, the newbies, or lame ducks as one of my colleagues was want to call them, were given 8 weeks to be fully up and running and then had a preceptor for all time. When you are so familiar with something, it seems simple. But maybe the type of work you do just can’t allow for such a settling in period. I hope it clicks with her and she gets it. Or tough decisions will be made. Is she giving any indications of whether she is going home loving the new job or dreading what’s coming the next day? Does she seem to have insight? I’m filled with relief that that is all behind me. Hallelujah!

    Day 22 UK NFD

    Right! As us English apparently say before they commit to anything (heard this on the tinternet).

    So Christmas, Holiday and now back to a double Fast day tomorrow and Tuesday, I can get in four before the end of the month, was going to commit to Monday and Tuesday every week. Obvs I will adapt as I go on but for me better to have an initial plan.

    Have a good week everybody.

    Fuvvie thanks for including me for the last part of the month.

    @fuvvie – thank you. Yes, whether me and my partner make it or not, I do need to understand and change this part of me. I’m not saying I’m completely at fault, However, only I can change me. In turn, I will no longer react to external possible triggers with negative outcomes.

    xoxo

    Yesterday: Day 21|CD/NFD|Toronto
    To beat the gloom I went for a very long, aggressive, walk that included lots of uphill terrain so maybe the gloom serves a purpose.
    Today: Day 22|CD/NFD|Toronto
    Sun not seen in a week!

    Day 22 – SW WA USA – NFD

    Going for a 16:8.

    Would love to join a B2B but not sure. Quite tired today. Taking a day of rest.

    GoldenSun – been praying for you.

    Ciren2 – 4 lbs away from target sounds pretty good. Good for you for braving the scales.

    @annemarilyn……aww thank you. Prayers are good.

    Mamacat…… I’m glad we can do this together….along with anyone else who would like it join.

    Fuvvie….. I am a design consultant for flooring, baths and kitchens, and we just started our busiest time of year. It’s not a particularly hard job but it’s very detailed in knowing product and being able to coordinate color and style properly with in the customers likes. I think the hardest part of the job, is listening to the customers and getting them to commit. We will see customers at least three times before they commit, so getting them on track out of the gate is important because if you can’t take the lead and focus them then they ultimately get frustrated find another store or give up on the job all together.
    She says she likes it, the only negative thing she commented on was that customers were exhausting. Again, that’s because she hasn’t gotten the concept of being in control and she is allowing the customers dreams to run away with them.

    The couple things, I see is that she’s afraid to put herself out there. Plus, when a customer asked her for her opinion on which flooring she liked best with her cabinet choice, she looked like they asked her to stab her neighbor. Pure panic!
    Well then there is a small hiccup of her not understanding the mathematical side, this concerns me because I must have explained it 20 or 30 times, she’s written down each time and it still escapes her.

    I’m hoping for her sake, that it clicks in the next week or so because at my job they only give you two weeks.

    Day 22 / Sweden / NFD
    Might join you for the b2b Monday and Tuesday.

    NFD today went well. Stayed within my TDEE with about 50 kcal to spare πŸ™‚

    Day 22 NFD Australia
    Day 23 FD Australia
    Trying the total fast til evening thing again. Wish me luck

    London | Day 22 | NFD

    Caught bits of the thread:
    @goldensun – relationships are hard aren’t they? Sending you hugs and strength to get through what ever comes your way. Know this – you will come out the other end stronger and wiser πŸ™‚

    Really getting into my exam revision now. Mock exam in 4 weeks and the real deal in April (19th)! Not very long to go, specially while doing a full time job. So, I’m going to be brief with the posts and may not get to catch up on the thread very much – please bear with me.

    I’ve cut down my hot yoga sessions to 1/week.

    But business as usual with the FDs.

    Exams used to be the bane of my life for weight gain, because I used stress eat like there’s no tomorrow! Then struggle to lose it afterwards – the whole yo-yo thing was a nightmare. I’m determined not to get to that state this time.

    Hello

    @goldensun you sound a lot more positive and in control – what you are doing seems to be having a positive impact. I am sure things will work out for the best.

    So there seems to be different b2bs going on at different times this week. I have
    Lou Belles
    Jarbia
    Lynz
    Orphesus
    Coda (me) doing Monday and Tuesday is there anyone else?

    I know some mentioned Tuesday/Wednesday and others Thursday/Friday. Well done everyone

    Day 22 – Cumbria UK – NFD

    Busy day – out all day – might have eaten/drunk above my TDEE!!!

    FD tomorrow and I’ll hopefully catch up with the posts sometime during the day as well

    Night

    Day 22 | NFD | Bucks UK

    Day 23 FD country West Australia
    Will see how today works out before committing to b2b.
    Taking mum out again tomorrow so food will be involved – she worries if I don’t eat when I’m with her.
    I think my tape measure went on a diet!!
    Measured Saturday and re-checked – no difference in measurements in 2 weeks and yet clothes are fitting better, looser at the waist.

    Such a lot going on in people’s lives!
    Well done to all the fasters.
    Thoughts and prayers to GoldenSun and others doing it tough.

    Day 23 Sydney – FD

    First fast day of the week. I had a good weekend with a nice mix of exercise and socialising and didn’t overdo the food and wine (for a change!) so looking forward to a positive result on the scales at tomorrow’s weigh in. I have noticed that a skirt I put on a couple of weeks ago is definitely a bit looser around the waist and would remind newbies to measure their waist when they start this regime as sometimes that is a better indicator of progress than the scales.
    Have a good week everyone.

    Day 21, 22, 23 – Perth, W.Aust – NFD’s
    Oh my, I missed checking in over the weekend, would like to say it was because I was doing exciting, adventurous things, but really just got side-tracked with the usual house stuff and gardening that needed doing (whoever said that native gardens were easy to look after needs to come to my place and show me exactly how that is so).

    @lilymartin – congrats on the extended fast and no headaches, I guess the body is finally adjusting to this WOL.

    Have a great day everyone, stay strong and be kind to yourself.

    Just doing some calculations to keep me under 500 calories today and not a lot can be consumed – a few low carb veggies or thin soup/broth, black tea and coffee or drinks with 2 tbspns of milk ( I usually have a lot more milk in hot drinks), maybe an egg/95 gm tin tuna/sardines.) I love all these so that’s not the problem.
    But trying to stay to TDEE on NFD/CDs is really the only way I seem to get the scales ( for weight loss) to go south and keep heading south.
    Again I measure as well and use clothes’ fit as an indicator so scales not the be all and end all but I DO want to lose weight and keep it off so that I’m not here in January 2018 at the same weight with the same issues.

    Since starting this WOL November 1st 2016 , I am eating considerably less than previously.
    On TDEEs I am probably eating only one quarter of what I did pre- November . Again, I don’t mind as I seem to have re-set my appetite.
    So for me, Just wondering if 5:2 is simply a VRCD/VLCD ( very restricted/low calorie diet) in disguise?
    I like the other benefits of fasting so I do plan to keep it up going forward.
    Just not sure that I can keep up the restrictions for TDEEs day in and day out for the rest of my life.

    Just wondering how others manage to lose weight if they don’t keep to TDEEs?
    I notice some people seem to eat over their TDEEs or not have many FDs and still lose weight.
    Would be grateful for their tips on how they manage it.
    Thanks.πŸ™‚

    Day 22 – Canada – NFD

    All in all, not a bad day. Had three cookies at after church coffee and then chicken curry and rice for supper tonight along with two glasses of wine.
    Start of a new week tomorrow. – it’s like New Year’s Day! Right? Always a new beginning.

    What does CD mea?

    Day 23 – Brisbane, Aus – FD

    Weigh in today, 116.6 – same as last week (grrr)… not overly worried actually, numbers were trending down all week and just spiked on Monday morning to annoy me, lol… I seem to be developing a pattern of 2-3 weeks of good weight loss, then 1-2 flat weeks before diving down again.

    …or it could be too much wine/cheese/crackers over the last few days (nah).

    Hope everyone is having a good day.

    Day 22. I’ve gotten several days behind in posting. I was discourage last Thursday and Friday, as I did well during the day but then snacked at night. Yesterday though, I did well during the day and managed to make it through the night as well. Today I have been doing well also, a NFD. I still have not weighed myself, but my clothes are loose despite my evening snacking on some days. So I am encouraged overall, and definitely feel healthier than I did when I started two weeks ago.

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