Hello!
I’m a frequent lurker. Been doing 5:2 since february. I lost 13 pounds since then.( From 221 to 208.) It’s not even one pound per week, I know, but I had a huge slip-up around my birthday where during a little over a week, I had only one fast day and was eating way too much.
Really, it’s no miracle fix. I knew this from the start. It’s going very, very slowly. I don’t mind that part.
What bothers me is that Lately, I noticed that as soon as I stray a bit from around my TDEE on non-fast day, I’m gaining. Yes, I have recalculated my TDEE. It’s now around 1900.
I have come to realize that this is turning into yet another diet and TBH you cannot really eat whatever you want on the non-fast days even if you stay in Your TDEE. For it to work, I should probably give up all alcohol and probably bread and dessert completely (pasta is not an issue, I don’t eat lots of it.)
I find disheartening is that even if I eat very well all week and have only one day where I eat and drink whatever I want, I will gain. I’m discouraged that it still requires me to watch everything all the time. I did a test and for a full week I sticked around 1900 calories per day (which is a little below my tdee) and had one day at 3000 (you know, it can go fast. Bread, wine, cheese, add a starbucks frap during the day and you will bust your tdee very easily.) I gained 2.7 pounds.
I don’t think I’m willing to give up more than what I already do.
I dunno, maybe I,m just rambling. I don’t want to obsess over some arbitrary number I’d like to read on the salce. I also don’t want to be in a situation where I have to be always careful ALL the time. I picked 5:2 especially because it did not require me to be constantly careful and counting all the time. I can’t do this, I used to have an eating disorder and constant calorie computing does not agree with my mental health.
Maybe I should just stop for a while, I’m beginning to feel sick and tired of it already. Not sure what to do.
Some commiseration or advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
8:56 pm
31 May 17