Joyous January

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  • I’ll just bet you’re all somewhat taken aback at such a name for the month traditionally given to starting over, to getting fit and back on track and to a restrained sort of life, etc., etc., etc., and “Joyous” sounds like we’re going to be all about celebrating, which is traditionally centered around food, right?

    Well, here’s my explanation. My own weight loss journey (which I have experienced multiple times, only to gain it back when I’ve dropped the ball) is always slow. Four pounds in a month is always a stretch for me, and a mere two pounds is fairly typical. I do lots and lots of thinking about my attitude and my approach to any given day, and something I’ve learned over and over tells me that when I’m mentally beating myself up, when I’m feeling sorry for myself and how I “have” to eat in order to lose weight, I make little to no progress because I rebel against such rude rules.

    Because food is fun, right? We enjoy it. It’s what we want.

    Or is it?

    How often are you miserable in your gut because of what you’ve eaten? Does that bring you joy that you ate what you wanted despite the quality or quantity of food? How often do you wake up and you’re still full and you wish you hadn’t eaten (or drunk) so much the day/night before?

    Nope, I don’t want to do that. When I’ve managed to adopt the attitude of “I’m not making these minimal food choices because I somehow have to but because I choose to, because it’s what I want,” I feel rather joyous that I’m not /forcing/ myself into behavior that feels unnatural but I’m /choosing/ behavior that is who I actually am, deep inside. Inside, where the thin me lives.

    So, I’m putting on joy. It’s not natural to me, because my gluttonous tendencies make me want to eat (and often drink) to excess, but when I smile and say, “No, thank you,” because I know my body doesn’t react well to all that, that’s when I’m choosing joy, both for how I’ll feel tomorrow but also for how I’ll feel today for what I’ve chosen.

    So a couple quotes to help you come to joy in your eating:

    “We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. Discipline weights ounces–regret weighs tons.” ― Jim Rohn

    “It’s just food.”

    I find both quotes very helpful. I think we all understand the first with no further comments. The second reminds me how much importance we apply to food…but, really, it’s just food. It’s not love, it’s not comfort, it’s not entertainment, it’s just /food/. It’s fuel for your body, and when you need no more fuel, it’s time to leave the fuel station. And it’s a joyous thing to figure that out.

    So may you find joy in January!

    Everyone is welcome to join us! These monthly challenges were started by @coda in May 2016 and have been going strong ever since. Goals can be overwhelming when viewed as a whole. But by breaking them down into small achievable pieces, we are able to stay focused and motivated to accomplish our goals one step at a time in bite-sized monthly challenges.

    There are no rules, but as a general guide, here are some tips for any new people:

    1. Posting – This is our only true rule: please start each post with the day of the month, where you are, and if you’re on a fast day (FD), non-fast day (NFD) or controlled day (CD). We’re located all over the world and in different time zones so it helps us keep track of which day we’re talking about, who else is fasting with us on a particular day etc. Look at the various posts, and you’ll soon see the pattern, and will learn how useful it is for reading.

    2. In your first post, please introduce yourself to the group – this helps us to get to know each other, which is especially helpful for newbies. Perhaps say something about where you started, your journey so far, what you’re aiming for or how you are benefiting from fasting. You might like to include your starting weight or your goals for the month. But you don’t have to – share only what you are comfortable sharing online.

    3. Spreadsheet – Here is the link for the December spreadsheet – hopefully I have given access to all to input as they wish:
    https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1OYppJGIWpZqcYoVpMyDVK5cMZEJfGFZsB86NrpwcZXQ/edit?usp=sharing
    It’s in alphabetical order by username. If you find it helpful, you can use it to record and track your progress as well as keeping track of how others are doing. It can help with perspective, accountability or planning. And if you need help just ask – there’s always someone happy to help. But you don’t have to use it if you don’t want to. It’s just another tool you can use if you choose.

    4. Frequency – Some people post daily, others check in every few days. Some are brief, others are long and chatty. If you’re posting for a second time in the same day please head your post e.g. Day 1 – 2nd Post. Past history shows that posting every day truly does help with motivation for staying on track with your goals, so please don’t feel shy about suddenly posting daily; we love new members!

    5. Content of your post– Comments or questions, complaints or celebration – anything you’d like to share with the forum. Recipes, tips, tricks and bright ideas are always welcome. Remember: we all have good days and bad days, days we fall off the wagon or days when we are hanging on by our fingernails, days when our mojo deserts us and days where we feel completely in control. So DON’T GIVE UP – whatever it is, you are not alone!

    6. Community – This is a worldwide forum so there’s usually someone online. We all do our best to offer advice, support and solidarity.

    7. Pocket lists –A ‘pocket list’ is a list of the names of people who are sharing the same goal on a particular day. It’s great psychological support in mentally keeping that list in our back pocket, knowing we’re not alone. Anyone can join a pocket list or start a pocket list. Typical pocket lists are for a FD but in the past they’ve been used for people doing daily exercise or planks, or DTF (dry till Friday).

    8. 5:2 basics – answers to many FAQs plus top tips:
    https://thefastdiet.co.uk/forums/topic/the-basics-for-newbies-your-questions-answered/

    9. The “rule”. The F word (FAIL) is prohibited!! We all stumble in our journey – it happens. But acknowledge it, think about what you can do next time, and continue. We’re all here to help!

    We tend to use a LOT of abbreviations in these posts. Here’s a guide to some of the more frequently used ones:

    5:2 – 5 days NFD – 2 days FD

    16:8 – 16 hours fast – 8 hours non fast

    IF – Intermittent Fasting

    ADF – Alternate Day Fasting (FD – NFD – FD – etc)

    AF – Alcohol-free

    B2B – Back to Back (consecutive FDs)

    BMR – Basal metabolic Rate

    CFD – Controlled Food Day (a day’s eating comfortably below your TDEE)

    DH, DD, DS – Darling Husband, Daughter, Son

    DTF – Dry ’til Fri (no wine, beer, etc.)

    EE – Emotional Eating (reflex grazing out of a need for instant comfort instead of satisfying hunger)

    EFS – Epic Face Stuffing (Definitely due to a faulty OFF button!)

    FD – Fast Day (500 cals)

    FD800 – Fast Day 800 calories

    Hunger Dragon – that dreadful psychological beast that sometimes cannot be satisfied. Some people even name theirs (e.g. @i-hate-lettuce had an inner warthog!)

    IF – Intermittent Fasting

    Keto – way of eating that generates Ketones

    KISS – Keep It Simple Stupid!!!

    LC – Low Carb way of eating

    LCHF – Low Carb High Fat way of eating

    LFD – Liquid Fast Day (incl. tea, coffee, miso, bone broth & water)

    LOL – Laughing Out Loud

    M/WOAM – Man/Woman on a Mission (courtesy of @i-hate-lettuce)

    MFD – Modified Fast Day (800 cals) on the new
    Fast800, it’s a FD

    MFP – MyFitnessPal – a smartphone app & website that tracks diet & exercise.

    NFD – Non Fast Day

    OH – Other Half (e.g. spouse/partner)

    OMAD – One Meal A Day

    PFDS – Post FD Smugness (courtesy of moi!)
Pocket List – Names to “keep in your pocket” for a common goal for the day

    TDEE – Total Daily Energy Expenditure (see the ‘how it works’ link on the home page to work out yours)

    TRE – Time Restricted Eating

    WFD – Water Fast Day (Water only)

    WFH – Working From Home

    WOL – Way of Life

    WOCA – Woman Of a Certain Age
WW – Weekend Warrior (c/- @jaifaim)
    ZBC – Zero Breakfast Club

    USA Day 30

    I just got your message about the web page being set up! I love the name Joyous January! Thank you, again, for leading us in January! See you on January 1.

    Day 0 – South Africa 🇿🇦 – NFD

    Thank you @stitchincarol! Count me in for Joyous January 🎉

    #3 is the December spreadsheet though. Can someone please set one up for January? 🙏 Happy New Year to everyone, & may January bring Joy to all of us 😃

    Day 0 – USA/GA

    I’m in for January and all of 2025. I have some big challenges ahead this year that I know about; not to mention those that I cannot foresee. It’s a great year to have better resolve than in the past two years. I can get back down to my low weight in 2022 and go beyond it.

    Looking forward to Joyous January and hearing from you all, it certainly makes the journey more interesting. All the best to everyone for 2025 🎉

    Day 0 – USA/OH

    Happy New Year from the US! I’d love to be a part of to Joyous January @stitchincarol! I wish you all health, safety,and happiness in 2025.

    Day 1 🥂 – South Africa 🇿🇦 – NFD 70.6 kg

    About me:- David, 62, originally from Manchester, England. Retired & living in Port Elizabeth, South Africa. Been 5:2-ing/IF-ing since 2014 after watching Michael Mosley’s documentary, ‘Eat, Fast & Live Longer’. I joined the Challenges after I quit working in 2018. I do basic 5:2, having around 600 – 700 cals on FDs – one evening meal – and I have an eating window of around 12 noon to 8 pm on NFDs. It works!

    @teneer – welcome back!

    @ccco, @brightonbelle – thank you, but I wasn’t hosting December. @at was our host. I hope she’s okay. I hosted ‘No-Nonsense November’.

    @stitchincarol – I hope you enjoyed Omaha & the fireworks. I just watched the London fireworks display, with a special appearance from Paddington Bear at the end https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBLbRbvWPKc My back?! So annoying. I know it’ll be fine in a day or two. I just need to wait it out. It’s just getting up off the sofa now, or a low chair that it bothers me.

    I just took a look at the spreadsheet for January 2024. I started last year at 70.4 kg, just 0.2 kg lighter than today, so I think my maintenance plan went well! 🎯 Here last year’s sheet, for anyone who’s curious:-
    https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Q5va6oBwihLVcO6_earVMKdIWw3o6HgzkfSa0Iy5hU0/edit?gid=0#gid=0

    Wishing everyone a happy & healthy 2025! ✨

    Day 1-No. VA USA-NFD
    Happy New Year to all. I am happy to join up for a Joyous January! Thank you, @funshipfreddie, for hosting December, and to @stitchincarol for guiding us through January.
    I am a 74 yr old pediatrician, still in practice (hoping to retire, eventually!!). Have been doing intermittent fasting since starting in 2017, lost a good deal of weight over that year; gained it back when non-compliant and complacent; re-lost the weight March of 2024 and have been maintaining fairly well since then. I still would like to lose a few more pounds. Usually am a zero-breakfast-club member and eat between 11 am and 7 pm most days. I like this WOE and and also really like our group!

    Day 1 UK CD

    Thank you for hosting Joyous January @stitchincarol , and that’s exactly what I’m aiming for it to be 💪

    Me – 63F living on south coast of England with DH , I’m very happy with my life with one glaring exception- my weight and I really want to sort it out

    I’m starting 2025 pretty much where I started 2024 – around 20lbs over where I’d like to be , I had a great start last year lost around 15lbs , stalled and then put it back on again . So this year I’m going g back to basics- back on MFP, and trying to eliminate the yo-yoing and concentrate on being happy and healthy, look forward to our journey

    Day 1 – Rural Nebraska, USA – NFD

    Welcome, @ccco, @funshipfreddie, @northgeorgia, @iona72, @excelsior12309, and @brightonbelle Also, @lilymartin mentioned in Dodgy December that she’d be joining us, so I hope to see her–and everyone else–soon.

    I’m a 66yo female, a church musician and piano teacher, and DH’s retirement–and thus, mine, to some extent–is happening in May of this year. When I was in my early 20s, my weight had me at a BMI of just under 19, and then I maintained a BMI of 22 until my mid-forties, but it’s been a roller coaster in the last twenty years, gaining and losing the same twenty pounds. I’m currently down ten of them, and plan to lose another twenty for a total loss of thirty, and am fairly confident I’ve finally gained the skills that I’ll maintain the weight loss this time.

    I’m on my tablet in a hotel room in Omaha, so I’ll postpone further chatter until I’m home on my laptop, but I look forward to us all learning to be joyous about this journey, rather than a martyr!

    Have a grand one, everyone!

    Happy new year to you all, I won’t be able to weigh until I get home. I cannot find a spreadsheet for January. The link appears to be for December. Thank you @at for hosting December.

    USA. Day 1. FD

    Excelsior12309, just noticed that we both are 74 years old. I am, however, retired. I am glad that you are still working. We need experienced doctors.

    Sorry, FUNSHIPFREDDIE, but I somehow got confused! Such as the holidays!

    AT, thank you for hosting December! And thank you to stitchincarol for hosting January! 👍🏻

    I am a 74 yo woman from New York City but now living in Baltimore, MD. I think I may have found a way to keep my weight steady and then lose a few more pounds. I hope January will prove me right. I think one of may main problems with weight is that I start gung ho and then begin to lose interest! I need to find a way not to lose interest! I am not sure I found that yet!

    Happy New Year to everyone! And to Jaifaim when she comes on: Athbhliain faoi mhaise dhuit!

    Day 1 – USA/GA – NFD

    Weigh-in: 237 lbs. I’m a 50 y/o male in north Georgia who lost quite a bit on 5:2, but gained a few back over the past couple of years due to stress and carelessness on NFDs. My goal is to get back to where I was two years ago if not lower this year.

    Happy new year to all! 2025 represents halfway through the decade and a quarter of the way through the century!

    Day 1 North Wales NFD

    Second post. Found the January spread sheet. I appear to have been missed off it. Can someone add me to it please.

    Day 1 NE England NFD

    62F retired, I like to get out walking with my spaniel and aim for at least 15,000 steps each day.

    Happy New Year everyone, I hope it’s better than 2024 when we lost a very young family member very suddenly. I have early stage kidney disease and was diagnosed with Pre-Diabetes in June but I have managed to shift over 17 pounds since then and am awaiting further tests to assess my current condition.
    Intermittent fasting and “balanced plate” is my way of life and it’s a constant battle with my sweet tooth.
    Looking forward to chatting with you all in this Joyous January.

    2nd post-Day 1-No. VA USA
    Oh boy, since I lost the month of November, I credited the leadership of December to the wrong faster. Thank you, @at!!!!

    Hi all! Too much was going on in the last few days of the dodgiest December I’ve had in a long time… time was eaten up and it seemed like such a very busy and long month – thanks for hosting @at!
    And @stitchincarol thank you for looking after us this joyous month to kick off 2025 ⭐️💕
    I had to take time off my phone, social media etc as things were just too busy with family and friends and I’m so very glad to be facing back into some sort of a routine.
    Will be back tomorrow with a proper post so see you all then and happy new year to one and all! 🥂🌅⭐️💕

    Day 2 – South Africa 🇿🇦 – FD

    I had a lovely afternoon yesterday at a braai (barbecue) with a few neighbours/friends. Way too much food, including the best trifle I’ve ever tasted! 😋 And then a few hours of card playing. But back to reality today, with my first FD of 2025 🎯

    @molij – we don’t have a January spreadsheet yet. The one I posted was from last year. I just found it interesting to look back & thought others might do so too. Maybe someone can tweak it, turn it into Joyous January 2025? I wouldn’t know where to start 🥴️

    Pocket List – Day 2 ✨
    @funshipfreddie

    Day 2 – UK – FD

    Good morning from a very cold UK – many apologies for my absence as host for most of the last month but a big thank you to @funshipfreddie and others for stepping up and keeping the challenge going 🤗

    I have pulled together a spreadsheet for the Joyous January 2025 Challenge
    https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1HyAlCvBb4Ce-MY9fg-3OhItBcmR_8LXAOIsSBT0l-pE/edit?usp=sharing

    I will try to catch up and do a longer post later today…………

    Pocket List – Day 2 ✨
    @funshipfreddie
    @at

    2nd Post – Day 2

    @at – thanks so much for the spreadsheet 🙏

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