I’ll just bet you’re all somewhat taken aback at such a name for the month traditionally given to starting over, to getting fit and back on track and to a restrained sort of life, etc., etc., etc., and “Joyous” sounds like we’re going to be all about celebrating, which is traditionally centered around food, right?
Well, here’s my explanation. My own weight loss journey (which I have experienced multiple times, only to gain it back when I’ve dropped the ball) is always slow. Four pounds in a month is always a stretch for me, and a mere two pounds is fairly typical. I do lots and lots of thinking about my attitude and my approach to any given day, and something I’ve learned over and over tells me that when I’m mentally beating myself up, when I’m feeling sorry for myself and how I “have” to eat in order to lose weight, I make little to no progress because I rebel against such rude rules.
Because food is fun, right? We enjoy it. It’s what we want.
Or is it?
How often are you miserable in your gut because of what you’ve eaten? Does that bring you joy that you ate what you wanted despite the quality or quantity of food? How often do you wake up and you’re still full and you wish you hadn’t eaten (or drunk) so much the day/night before?
Nope, I don’t want to do that. When I’ve managed to adopt the attitude of “I’m not making these minimal food choices because I somehow have to but because I choose to, because it’s what I want,” I feel rather joyous that I’m not /forcing/ myself into behavior that feels unnatural but I’m /choosing/ behavior that is who I actually am, deep inside. Inside, where the thin me lives.
So, I’m putting on joy. It’s not natural to me, because my gluttonous tendencies make me want to eat (and often drink) to excess, but when I smile and say, “No, thank you,” because I know my body doesn’t react well to all that, that’s when I’m choosing joy, both for how I’ll feel tomorrow but also for how I’ll feel today for what I’ve chosen.
So a couple quotes to help you come to joy in your eating:
“We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. Discipline weights ounces–regret weighs tons.” ― Jim Rohn
“It’s just food.”
I find both quotes very helpful. I think we all understand the first with no further comments. The second reminds me how much importance we apply to food…but, really, it’s just food. It’s not love, it’s not comfort, it’s not entertainment, it’s just /food/. It’s fuel for your body, and when you need no more fuel, it’s time to leave the fuel station. And it’s a joyous thing to figure that out.
So may you find joy in January!
3:15 pm
30 Dec 24