Hello there!
I suppose I’m brand new to the fasting world and could use some solid advice about it.
I guess I should begin by telling a little about myself and what brings me here. I am 26, 5’7 and weigh 195 pounds. I’m looking to drop anywhere between 20 to 40 pounds. I’ve had a bit of trouble dieting in the past and have found A WHOLE LOT of things that absolutely do not work for me, but no winning combination for myself.
When I was younger, I lost my “baby weight” and stayed slim in high school unintentionally by what I know now as intermittent fasting. I was really busy with activities and school so I would skip breakfast and was unable to eat anything until lunchtime around noon. I’d work after school and would often have my dinner around 6pm or 7pm. I’d have homework to do when I got home and then I’d be in bed by 10. This means my eating window was often around six or eight hours a day. I wasn’t eating the healthiest at the time (I admit, Taco Bell was like my main thing lol), but I was never super hungry and managed to steadily lose weight.
It wasn’t until my last years of college that my eating habits changed. I was becoming so enlightened with all these ideas of diets. I made myself eat breakfast everyday and cut out most of the junk to begin with. I didn’t really notice it at first, but my weight actually began to climb and I gained five pounds in a year. I gradually put on the pounds in the same way, even though I was doing all the “right” things. I would tell myself it was muscle because of the protein, I would make every excuse I could but by the third year of watching this happen, I freaked out. By the age of 24, I was officially 200 pounds.
I started pushing myself at the gym, I tried all the extreme diets, gave myself one “cheat day” a week and eventually only one “cheat meal”. I tried the whole no carb thing, paired it with no sugar and everything in between. None of it felt right for me so I tried eating six small meals a day (under the advice and guidance of my doctor) and was eating more meat, low fat dairy (two things I’ve always naturally disliked) and healthy fats than ever before. I completely overhauled my lifestyle and hated every single minute of it. I was losing a pound a week this way and kept at it for nearly two months. My clothes fit better, but I was irritable, my mood was a wreck. I was tired, unhappy, and felt like all of the other important aspects of my life were being eclipsed by the priority this whole thing had become. So, I stopped.
I eased back into the gentle lifestyle changes I had started with. I was eating three healthy meals a day, going for 30-minute walks, and trying not to worry about it but to my disappointment, I saw the weight pile back on. I’ve since been able to get down about eight pounds, but I wasn’t making it a priority so much and found myself skipping meals a lot.
In the end, I think my body just doesn’t need that much food and it really hit me a few weeks ago:
I had been very busy working on a project and it was completely occupying my time. I was so busy that I didn’t have any time to meal plan or sit down for breakfast. Food was hardly a thought in my mind and it occurred to me that I had a lot more energy. My mind felt clearer than it’s felt in years, and I found myself getting a lot more done. I had naturally sort of fallen back into that high school eating routine I’d had: grabbing a quick bite for lunch around 1pm or so and then not eating again until I got home to my husband, having dinner around 8pm.
I decided to do some research because I hadn’t felt this good in such a long time. I love the way I feel when I’m not forcing my body to digest all that extra food, especially first thing in the day. That’s when I stumbled upon intermittent fasting and decided to give it a try. Initially, I was going to try to fast 20 hours a day and leave a four hour eating window open around dinner, but I get the feeling that will be too extreme for me. I firmly believe this 16:8 ratio could be what works for me. So I guess I’m asking for some advice for a newbie like me.
I’m starting my morning with 45 minutes on a stationary bike, five days a week. I eat lunch at 1pm, stopping the eating window by 9pm (but usually having dinner closer to 7pm). During this time, I’m sticking well within my calories. Does this seem like a reasonable way to lose weight?
Thank you! 🙂
3:08 pm
1 Dec 15